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Archived questions from: April, 2011 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

My Bf is distancing himself from me. He does not include me. Do we have a future together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4736 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - I (23) have been with my boyfriend (22) for one year and three months. We are both graduating from college this May. We have been fighting a lot lately--always about the same thing: I don't think I see him enough, and he thinks he sees me plenty. ...

So depressed since the split

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

30 April 2011 (M) - My girl friend just split with me recently, now I know that is nothing new, but it was over a year and we where planning to have children and get married. now its almost a month down the line and I find myself becoming more and more depressed a...

I've lost faith and became bitter towards love and friendship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

30 April 2011 (M) - Right.. It's been about seven months since my ex broke up with me after a relationship lasting two and a half years. In total, we've known eachother for five years and we're very good friends.. From that stemmed my believe a good relationship; maybe ...

Feel so alone without my best friend, any suggestions??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4731 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - I miss my x best friend(with Bennefits) so much it hurts. He was my best friend. Always there wheather I needed him or not. It was a very different relationship as it started when my boyfriend(x) started to abuse me. Robert was always there.. we ...

Drama in relationship, but should I have broken up with her??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4707 days ago

30 April 2011 (M) - Ok we started out good first time. The first times were great and stuff but as the relationship went on things started to change. Our first argument was over her telling me I might not be the girl for her because she feels alive around other guys. ...

We broke up, should I keep the promise ring or give it back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4736 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - my bf broke up with me 2 days ago in a txt after i had given him space to think if he can b in this relationship bcuz he was havn trust and insecurity issues cuz i have cheated in my past and decided to txt with my sons coach(txts were innocent).... ...

He walked out, should I move on or take him back if he returns??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4736 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - hello everyone. . I would be grateful for some advice. . My boyfriend of four years walked out yesterday saying it was over after a strange tense day. We had had a lovely week together the week before but for some reason yesterday we were at each ...

We all live together, he used to be my bf, now he likes her, how do I move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4731 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - Lately i'm questioning if I can be friends with this girl and guy that i live with. We met as she was friends with a friend of a guy I was seeing. While seeing him she would sometimes be around, and on one occasion I invited her to sit with us, big ...

She isn't ready, I don't want to wait around, what to do??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4736 days ago

30 April 2011 (M) - Me and my gf split at the end of january, as i said some nasty things about her ability at work etc (i was an idiot) we lived together and i moved out about 6 weeks ago. We've met up a few times to see how things go, but everytime it goes well i ...

She said she loved me but then left and never said goodbye!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4736 days ago

30 April 2011 (M) - why would a woman of 2 yrs say they love and need you and now wouldnt even talk to me . she never said goodbye. does she feel guilty of something she did and cant face me . i hurt so bad. all i ever did is love her and be loved back.she made me ...

Ex girlfriend with roving eyes wants another chance!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4735 days ago

30 April 2011 (M) - im in a relation with a very cute n beautiful girl since 1 year. only thing i ever told her is not to lie to me. after 3-4 months being together, one day we were going out and i saw her checking out a guy quite seriously. the guy was like a stud....

Should I stick by my GF despite her attitude or should I not bother and go with a relationship that I feel could work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

30 April 2011 (M) - Dear Cupid, First off let me set up the situation for you. I have been with my girlfriend now for over 4 years. It has been a rather rocky relationship. a few years back i broke up with her because i felt it wasn't what i wanted. I didnt do anyth...

Texting is ruining our relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4736 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - Dear cupid ,ive just broke up with my boyfriend of two years, because these past few months have been rocky and im not getting enough attention in our relationship.he spends no quality time and i feel neglected because all we do is text.we havent ...

Why do so many marriage end in divorce? what can I do to ensure my marriage is as solid as my parents?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4735 days ago

30 April 2011 (M) - Hi all, First off let me say that I'm coming at this from a teenage perspective and as such an outsiders perspective. As you may know the divorce rate in the USA is around 50per cent for first marriages. Though my own parents are not divorced (Ma...

If he has such deep feelings for me, why hesitant about a relationship? I need to knw-Is he playing with my emotions and using his recent break-up as an excuse?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4737 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - Okay so this might be fairly long, but I'll start from the beginning anyway. I have this guy bestfriend and we've been messing around for 4, almost 5 months now. Last year we were just friends and he was in a relationship, but whenever we got the ...

I don't mind being friends but I don't want to lose contact with him...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4732 days ago

29 April 2011 (F) - Hey my boyfriend and I broke up after 2 weeks of dating he said he needed space and wanted to enjoy being single but over text messaging, that he still loved me and he would always be there for me. He said he loves me more then anyone else. I just ...

How do I get him back without coming off needy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4737 days ago

29 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I recently broke up, it was due to a lot of nagging about the relationship on my part! I wasn't happy but now I think that things could really work after this short break! How do I get him back without coming off needy? Or withou...

I miss him like crazy...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4737 days ago

29 April 2011 (F) - I was in a relationship for over a year with a guy who I was deeply in love with. I knew he was the one for me and we talked about some day getting married and stuff like that. But jealously that was getting built up inside of me and I lied to him. ...

Why is first love so hard to get over?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4737 days ago

29 April 2011 (M) - Why is first love so hard to get over? It's been 15 months since my girlfriend dumped but I still find it tough getting over here. Every night, I see here appearing in my dreams. any help from you guys in this regard would truly be appreciated. ...

Why do men prefer to break up in a text rather than in person?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4737 days ago

29 April 2011 (F) - I would like to know y men cannot break up face to face... y is it that they find it easier to. Txt it... my bf broke up with me yesterday cuz he has insecurity issues beleives ima cheat on him and gets really sad and upset just him thinking bout ...

Should I break up with this guy to keep my friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4737 days ago

29 April 2011 (F) - 0k. My friend was dating this guy who is 2yearz older than me and my friend, there was no problem at that time. Until the guy dumped my friend because she was cheating with a guy i never heard of. Then after 1 year, the guy told me that he had ...

Boyfriend broke up with me and I've lost my best friend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4737 days ago

29 April 2011 (F) - I just realised last night that I've lost my best friend. My boyfriend was my best friend and a month ago he dumped me, the reason for this was because he had become incredibly depressed and had no strength to keep up a relationship because its so ...

How can I best help my best friend recover from this depressing breakup?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4737 days ago

29 April 2011 (F) - My best friend is suffering through a terrible heartbreak, im trying to help her out because she is suffering so much in pain. My friend and her ex, as a couple were my best friends. My friend is soooooo sweet and she is the one to always work thin...

Is this the kind of person I should try to stay with?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4737 days ago

29 April 2011 (F) - Need some advice how to move on.. my bf of 2 yrs broke up with me today after not speakn with him for a month.. I had givn him time to try to get over my past of me cheating on my ex....and he now decided it wuz something he couldn't deal with..cuz ...

Why would he end things over such a stupid thing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4737 days ago

29 April 2011 (F) - omg i really need help here. I'm going crazy. ok i"m just gonna straightforward tell you what happened. 10 months ago i met this guy and we became good friends. After a while i realized that i sort of have feelings for him. he is 7 years older than ...

My b/f found out about my chats, phone calls with co-worker and broke off with me. I don't even know how he found out!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - Ive done a really stupid thing and now its gotten out of hand, and i dont know what to do,im 26 and have a boyfriend.About 2 months ago a male work colleague and I started talking,then hanging out,then swopped phone numbers, and started ...

My wife went behind my back and loaned her ex money

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4738 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - I am a 43 year old guy. My wife gave (she says loaned) some money to her ex to enable him to purchase some real estate. He had purchased on option on the land which was about to expire. If his option expired, I was going to buy the property. She ...

I love her, but she runs hot and cold

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4738 days ago

28 April 2011 (M) - Please help! We have been seeing each other for about 8 months. I am 27 and she is 22. We had a good relationship, no arguing, made sure we went out places regular together, had lots of laughs and everything seemed fine. We had a few issues, her ex ...

Why did he hurt me like that? I thought he loved me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4738 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - Why would he wanna hurt me so bad? it really hurts:(? My ex boyfriend had a one night stand with a girl at a party and was sleeping with another for 2months all the while I was with him. I loved him so much, was a good girlfriend to him, I ...

Boyfriend has become abusive, we constantly fight and I'm always on edge. What can I do to stop this?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4731 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - Hi all. I am very upset. My boyfriend and I have been going out for a total of almost 3 years now, but lately we have been arguing a lot. The last heated argument we had I ended up crying on the floor while he made sarcastic remarks about ma...

Is this the beginning of the end?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4738 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together 10 happy months. We are in a committed long-distance relationship currently and we get along very well. However, I'm concerned with the amount of time he spends "pleasuring himself." Since we are so far away and ...

What did I do or say that was so wrong?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4737 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - Ok i was supposed to be spending the weekend with my boyfriend that lives out of town. i had plans on driving and getting him, its only four hours away and he text me and told me that he couldn't come because he said something came up with his son. ...

I really want him back though, I know there are plenty of fish in the sea but he's mine! how do I get him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4738 days ago

28 April 2011 (M) - My boyfriend of 2.5 years dumped me on my birthday. We had a 3 hour long conversation because he was feeling depressed am I wanted to help him. In the end he called me a doormat and he said I let him walk all over me. He thinks it's my pride/val...

Does my ex girl friend in the country want to re-visit our relationship, despite our breakup?

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28 April 2011 (M) - Hi, well im looking for some advice about my ex gf. Five years ago i was working in the country for 6 months on a railway and while i was there i used to go into a shop there and i became friendly with the shop owner's daughter. Anyway to cut ...

How can somebody can talk to you the sweetest words on earth and dump you only a few minutes later?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4737 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - Hi all, I'm really confused and would appreciate every bit of help in understanding my current situation. I've been seeing this guy for a few months now. Things were never easy between us, as he was still in a dysfunctional (as I thought) relation...

What can I do? Really I don't know which boy to choose and I'm feeling so confused by it all.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4738 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - So last year this new guy came in our grade. (let's call him guy #1) I got to know him a little better and then he asked me out. I said no because I thought I'd be better if we stayed friends. Well, he just kept liking me for a while. Even this year...

I want to be happy since our breakup but I'm not sure how to be!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

27 April 2011 (F) - My ex broke up with me on mid Dec. It has been truly hard for me because I do love her. She has acted like a royal c*nt because i refused to stay friends. I mantained no contact for a while... recently, I have picked up the phone when she calls, all ...

How do I get this unfaithful guy out of my system? Any suggestions appreciated please

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4738 days ago

27 April 2011 (F) - Am really unhappy. I meet someome 6 months ago, and felt in love with him. He had a girlfriend who he said was treating him mean. Like an idiot I listened to his problems - then we would make love. He left the country and promised to come back and...

Is it really over and how to heal a heartbreak?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

27 April 2011 (F) - I have been seriously dating this guy for a while. We started off with me still being in a relationship with my ex. Within a month or two, I broke things off with my ex and had full intentions of being committed to this new guy. I've always had ...

Its been 3 months since we broke up, can I wish him a happy birthday?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4737 days ago

27 April 2011 (F) - Split up with my fella after 7 months - he said he thought the world of me but needed to be alone, wanted space, couldnt handle our relationship as he wasn't over his ex - they havn't got back together and won't be, i agreed to give him space, it's ...

How do I move on? I need to get her out of my mind for my kids sake....

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4738 days ago

27 April 2011 (M) - I am 40 years old and married with my 35 years old wife for 17 years.we have 4 children and our relationship was not going good.ten months ago my wife had an outburst and she left me leaving our 4 children with me to look after.she said to me she ...

Does this FWB thing make me a slut?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4738 days ago

27 April 2011 (F) - Last year, I got to know a guy in my class, S (lets call him that for now) We hit it right off and became really good friends. To the extent that we had people asking us every few days "are you guys going out?" Our friendship progressed and we ...

Do you think he had me in mind at all when he started writing such things on his page?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

27 April 2011 (F) - After a year I finally had to walk away from my boyfriend who I was in love with. He was addicted to weed, verbally abusive and had severe mood swings and manipulated me. He is very spiteful and hurt me so much through the relationship, but I did ...

Will he forgive me and let me in again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

27 April 2011 (F) - Im in therapy because Im in love with a man I hurt so bad he tried to commit suicide. I tortured him for 2 years because I was bitter from being cheated on by the man before him. He lost his job and home because of how much a I messed with his mind. ...

She's too nice to break up with my friend but likes me better!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

27 April 2011 (M) - Im 13 years old and i like this girl. I said i would be her best friend just to get closer to her. She has a boyfriend that is one of my good friends but she clearly likes me better. Shes too nice to break up with him so what do i do?...

3 years, and I want to end things. How do I do it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

27 April 2011 (F) - I need help breaking up with my boyfriend. I love him, I do, but I'm young and the serious, committed lifestyle isn't for me. I don't want to be tied down so young. I'm 21 years old and what I like to do like goin to clubs with my friends, he ...

Why did he tell everyone that he broke up with me when it was me who ended things?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4738 days ago

26 April 2011 (F) - Hii, So bacicly ive just been out with a boy, he kept asking me one day at school. Recently in the easter holidays i saw him we went out me him my bestfriend and her boyfrined the first day he was fine but all others he messed me around had me and m...

I know the relationship didn't work but I want to get back together anyway?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

26 April 2011 (F) - my ex and i broke up on good terms a week ago because we both saw it coming and knew it was inevitable. he and i have a child together and i'm still living with him until i find a job to move out. i was verbally abused quite a bit in the relat...

I just cant move on even after I quit communicating with her. Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

26 April 2011 (M) - Hello everyone. Please help me. I just need your 10 mins. I need love. It has been 2 months since I was dumped by my girlfriend of 3 years. I live and die everyday. I moved to USA from Pakistan 2 months ago and after 10 days she dumped me. After...

My ex wants his wife back for a Visa, so why is he still wanting to see me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

26 April 2011 (F) - I split up with my boyfriend after 5 months as i was not happy. My intutition kept telling me something was very wrong. I eventually found out he was married, still trying to get back with his wife - he has cheated on her since their honeymoon and ...