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Archived questions from: February, 2009 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

Why would girls prefer the chasing of a guy instead of the safety of a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

28 February 2009 (M) - So I just had to break up with my gf of 7 months today because I found out that a month earlier while we took a one week break she asked an ex of hers out and only took me back because he rejected her. I know it's not like she cheated on me but ...

A married woman and me...Relationship complex??/

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

28 February 2009 (M) - Hi I answered few questions of the group... all of them related to relationship with a married woman. My question is to seek ways to come out of the feelings left out in my mind even after I stopped the relationship. Really shattered. I sometime...

How can I stop this mindset and get over him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5536 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - I lived with Tim for 8 years. We owned a home together and moved out last April. Main problem was his ex-wife and his kids. The Ex harrassed and stalked me during those years, I did have a restraining order and she broke it 21 times. The kids ...

Do you think dating other girls can make her jealous or do you think my hope is lost?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5525 days ago

28 February 2009 (M) - I dated this girl for about a year, pretty much all throughout our senior year of high school. we took things very slow and over the course of the rest of the school year and into summer we fell in love. We were each other's best friend and told ...

Myex made me think his feelings for me were rekindled but he likes someone else, how do I get over him?

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28 February 2009 (F) - Hi, well this may be long so bear with me please. well basically me and my boyfriend split up last year around october time and it was the worst point in my life as he was my everything, and well he broke up with me over txt!, after kissing me whils...

Are his thoughts as abnormal as he thinks they are?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5537 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - My husband and I seperated in January 08. I don't think he really has any problem but I need to support him so I am looking for advice. He has always looked at other women, and I have never had a problem with it, in fact I would point out attrac...

I don't know if I should break up with my LD b/f or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - I dont know if I should break up with my long distance bf or not. Now, usually, I am the type of person who is very determined and commited to making something work, especialy realtionships. I dont give up easily on things- I always try my ha...

I fight alot with my b/f and now I've been out with another guy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5537 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - okay so,im 16,my boyfriend is 18 we have been together for almost a year now. he broke up with me after a month of beging together,and we got back together a week after. a few months after that, i broke up with him for another guy..(huge mistake!) ...

Does this mean you never loved me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5537 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - rite!this is a question for the guys neh! if i dump u and u didnt seem t0 care,u dont b0ther calling,when u see me u juts pas me by,u dont beg 4 forgiveness in fact u seem prity okay bwt the brake up of a two year relationship but u know that i ...

How do you get over a young love bad relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5508 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - How do you get over a bad relationship.. In short: Fell inlove He ran away to come be with me Spent lots of time together Had sex He wanted me to be pregnant I wasn't He went back home Broke up Lots of arguing Found out I had an STD ...

I'm getting mixed messages from my ex - what is going on here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5536 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - About 5 months ago the love of my life broke up with me, said he didn't love me anymore.. after I had just went up to El Paso, Texas to visit with him. I fell in love with him all over again and then I started nagging him and I think thats what ...

Is he just afraid?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5537 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - He says he loves me in many ways. We were together for 8 months and broke up for 2 months. We got back together and it was great. But then there was some jealousy on his part due to an older man saying hello who knew both of us he said I should h...

Why are my ex and his friends accusing me of these weird things?

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27 February 2009 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend of nearly 2 years at the beginning of this year, as our relationship has not been good since I started university in October, and we had serious trust issues. Unfortunately things did not end that well between us and we ...

Knowing how serious they were...I'm not sure I can be with him anymore!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5537 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - My partner cheated on me in 2007 but we got back together after 6 months, 4 of those months he was with the woman he cheated on me with. When we got back together he said that she'd meant nothing to him, that she just showed him some attentio...

How can I erase him from my head when she keeps talking about him??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5537 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - I cant get this out of my head and i know i should. I used to go out with this guy dave. when we started talkin, i found out he just got out of a on and off 3 month relationship. I didnt really care since he was single, because whats the harm in ...

She doesn't care about me but I still do her...how can I move on??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

27 February 2009 (M) - I love her so much, It hurts alot when i'm trying to forget her. She said to me she likes me and i told her i love her too, we are together about 3 mouthes for a serious relation, and one day she told me that her x-boyfriend want to return to her a...

Why do girls do this to good guys?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5537 days ago

27 February 2009 (M) - So I just had to break up with my gf of 7 months today because I found out that a month earlier while we took a one week break she asked an ex of hers out and only took me back because he rejected her. I know its not like she cheated on me but thats ...

Will this help give me closure?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - So.. right or wrong I'm writing this letter to my ex and sending it via the internet. I wrote to him a few weeks ago, and we spoke for a while and then he just didn't answer me. The last thing I said was "I'm glad you're happy". That was a week ...

He swears he won't hit me again, should I get back with my ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5537 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - Should I get back together with my ex? I dated this guy almost a year ago we were together for 4 years before that. While dating, he did a lot of things to me. First everytime I wanted to hang out with my friends he would try to guilt trip me an...

Is there a possibility that I can get back with her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5537 days ago

27 February 2009 (M) - We been couple for 2 years and we broke up because my parents didn't agree with her. Every day we always met each other, we are like the best couple in church. So I told her that I'm sorry I can't take you any more, but I still love you. Her heart ...

Is he really gay or is this a sick prank... I'm confused?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5537 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - Ok so me and my boyfriend are on a break and I see him every once in a while because he is in college so I get on my facebook account and he's posted pictures of another reavealing his penis and the album title says my secret life and lover.. so ...

My long term b/f has caught me on several dating sites and left. Shall I forgive him?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - My long term bf has caught me in chat rooms and several dating sites over the last 9 months. We argue,like a child he walks out and doesnt come back for a week or so. All i do is harmless flirting and the odd guy i text. We broke up and this time i ...

My boyfriend said he was bi-curious, but found out he's more... help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5537 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - I am a female who wrote a question about my live in boyfriend. I wrote that I was worried because he had been bi-curious before he had met me. He and I had been dating for 4 months then moved in together. After several weeks I came accross some ...

Will it really take 7 years to get over my abusive relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5537 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - I have been having these emotional outbursts from anger to sobbing but mostly sobbing for the last couple of days feeling so bad for my man how much I am going to miss him, the pain he must be going through to why did he do this to me, goodness you ...

I want to break up but I'm afraid of what he'll say about me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5537 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - hello dear cupid friends francy is back on track again............ lol... well i have a problem with my current boyfriend , we have been dating for a year and two months now...... the thing is ,he once cheated on me with a girl in the same town as ...

Should I be loyal to a relationship that no longer exists?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - My girlfriend abruptly broke up with me about 5 weeks ago after I had confessed to her that I had been doing speed for a week straight. A quick background: She left a abusive relationship in June. We became exclusive in November. She had d...

Sad..confused..not used to these feelings!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5538 days ago

27 February 2009 (M) - Hello All... I feel like I'm falling apart here and have no control over it. I was married for 3 Years.. split in April.. 3 months later I was officially divorce legally. Now almost a year later and I still have feelings for my ex. A person who the ...

My ex boyfriend is driving me nuts with so much confusion!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5538 days ago

26 February 2009 (F) - My ex boyfriend and I broke up 3 1/2 months ago about. We have been friends throughout the breakup because he wanted to be. We do have sex but that has stoped, unless a rare occasion that I ask him- because he doesn't ever bring it up so I know that ...

I hurt him but I want him back. What more can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5538 days ago

26 February 2009 (F) - I need advice. I had a wonderful relatively new relationship and I messed up. we had an almighty argument. I said things bang out of order, he gave back, so I said things worse. It was awful, and sadly all done by text. It was out first ever ...

I'm not really sure what happened with our relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5538 days ago

26 February 2009 (F) - I recently asked for a break from my boyfriend. We have been together for 2 years and I suddenly got frustrated and tired that he was now depending on me financially. i have been the one funding our meals transport and everything. He has a job that ...

He dumped me because I nagged too much. Is it too late?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

26 February 2009 (F) - Hello everyone! Basically I'm writing because my love broke up with me. We had been dating for around 1 year. We had an intense relationship and it also got a bit serious because we would spend time with friends and his and my family. I used to...

How can I avoid awkward moments?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5538 days ago

26 February 2009 (F) - I guess a little intro is due just to understand better, so here goes.. I just got out of a 3yr relationship about 3 weeks ago. I hadn't been happy with a lot of things but I tried staying in the relationship and make things work, only the problem ...

My husband is a loser! How can I get rid of him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5539 days ago

26 February 2009 (F) - My husband is a loser! i knew that long time ago and was just in denial. Now, my problem is how to get rid of him. For the past 2 years we've been together he cheated on me 3 times, or at least that's what he admitted to, because i caught him; he ...

Should I fight for my love for him or just go our separate ways??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5538 days ago

26 February 2009 (F) - hi, i have been with my boyfriend for over 2 years... and i just found that there has been another woman in his life for at least 4 months.... what should i do??? should i fight for my love for him or just go our separate ways??...

He left me for no reason

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5538 days ago

26 February 2009 (F) - The same bf tht gtt mad @ me over a picture tht he didn't get just dumped me...I tried to ask him y he wz mad buh he would never tell me and then he was like just don't talk to I'm done with you but he didn't give me reason I've been nothing but ...

They tell me he'll realize he made a mistake and will come back

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

26 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend broke up with me. We started dating at 17 and I know he wants to experience flirting with chicks and getting wasted at the bar and doing whatever other guys do. We've decided to hang out as friends. His friends and family say give him a ...

How can I get my friends to stop talking about my ex in front of H?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5539 days ago

25 February 2009 (M) - Hi, well I'm having girl problems again like always. My girlfriend (ex now) and I broke up because she said she liked someone else and I appreciated that she told me instead of keeping it a secret and I accepted the fact that she left but I really ...

I want to hang out with someone but I have a hard time making friends. I need to get my mind off him...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

25 February 2009 (F) - So my boyfriend and I broke up. I want a relationship but we agreed to be friends and hang out. I am supposed to go to his place this weekend and I can't wait. We had been living together and that meant that I was almost never alone. Now I am moved ...

How long before I can date again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

25 February 2009 (F) - I have been in a relationship for 2 years but things got sour and we broke up the other day. This was because first my mother wasn't supporting the relationship and she had banned me from seeing my boyfriend. The last time I saw him was in May last ...

My abusive ex boyfriend wont leave me alone!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

25 February 2009 (F) - hi everyone, I broke up with my ex over a year ago (31/12/07) because he hit me. things were not going well before that because he was a bully and used to called me names like ''fat'' and ''ugly'' to hurt me. I made a police statement at t...

I'm feeling guilty for ending it all and not remaining friends

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

25 February 2009 (M) - i have broken all contacts with this girl and have gone away from her life forever. ours was a long distance relationship for one year and i had gone to her place in berlin a couple of times to stay with my grandparents during my holidays and really ...

He says he only wants to be friends, but I want to make our relationship work...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

25 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I just broke up after 4 yrs dating and 1 1/2 yrs living together. I had to move in with my parents. We had been having money problems and so our sex life suffered. He says that he doesn't want a relationship but he's ok with being ...

I'm trying to get over a guy and looking for support

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

25 February 2009 (F) - Im trying to get over a guy and looking for support. Ive liked this guy for a while but he's treated me badly in the past and is currently ignoring me. He only talks to me when he wants sex. It hurts so bad to see him able to talk to everyone else...

How do I get over the father of my daughter?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5540 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend of 3 years broke up 2 months ago, we noticed it wasn't working out. We also have an 8 month old daughter together. I thought it would be easy to get over him but it's not. It hurts me to even think about letting him go and I ...

Should I break it off, because I can't accept his child in my life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - Here is my story and wonder what should I do? I am back with my ex boyfriend that I was with when I was 16 (now 21) we dated until I was 18.. I had to move to the mainland after high school. I cheated on him before but he took me back and our ...

I don't want to be the reason she does something crazy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

24 February 2009 (M) - So I broke up with my girlfriend last night. we have been dating for 2 years. I am very much in love with her, but She cheated on me more than once. Last night she came over to "talk" she started to cry and then after a while of begging me to take ...

How can I make a guy I briefly dated move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - Ok let me break this down. 1) Casually dated this guy 3 months ago. Was very brief. He was not only older than me by 6 years; it was pretty evident he has always had a stern and mature approach to relationships in the sense that he wants to sett...

I think he's immature and scared, but what's really going on with him?!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5540 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - Where to start.... Ok, started dating this guy over 15 years ago, my first everything. Dating for years then reconnected this summer after about 4 years. He was breaking up w/ this girl and we got pregnant. Spend an amazing weekend together ...

Please someone tell me am I going bonkers and reading far too much into this or is she really sniffing round him cos she fancies him...?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - I don't know where to begin! I had been with my partner for 12 years. We fell out and were both too stubborn to make up. We sold out house and went our seperate ways. Before this I tried to reconcile but he didnt want to know. He had started going ...

Should I try to make it right with us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5540 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - ive been dating this straight women for about 4 months the problems is that she has a b/f. i really love her and in many ways she shows me that she loves me but recently we broke it off because we didnt get along anymore due to the fact of age ...