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Archived questions from: April, 2016 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

He's drunk and abusive. How do you reason with someone like this, for the sake of your kids?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2906 days ago

30 April 2016 (F) - I've been with my partner, "Bill", for 12 years and we have a family together. Tonight he told me for the umpteenth time that he was sick of my bad attitude and that I need to "know my place". Then he told me it's over and to expect all my thing...

Is my cheating any worse than the abuse he inflicts or threatens me with, regularly? Is getting help as impossible?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2910 days ago

30 April 2016 (F) - My husband and I have been married for 8 years.I'm cheating on him. My husband has been abusing me for the last 3 years.Apart from the physical abuse which he exercises every day he abuses me verbally as well. He calls me all the names under the ...

What are the main reasons that would motivate a woman to want to break up with a guy?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 2909 days ago

30 April 2016 (M) - I would like the opinion of the lady's an men who write in all the time, my question is what's the main reasons for women to dump the guys? Is it they found some one new, he cheated , he treats her bad, got bored of him, he was to nice, came on ...

He thinks I stole his money! I’m so hurt! Should I leave?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2912 days ago

29 April 2016 (F) - Dear cupid I’ve been seeing a man for almost 6 years I’m now living with him he say he lost so I'm money and the first person he blames is me because we are the only 2 people live in the house but his son is always comes in as he please a...

Our break-up was awkward. Should I get in touch with her, after 2 years apart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2912 days ago

29 April 2016 (M) - Okay, so here's the deal. Once upon a time, when I was 16, I was utterly and madly in love with this girl who I met through one of my friends. We were in a relationship (officially) for about 6 months and I can undoubtedly say she was the first lo...

Was this a normal variation for a penis shape?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2911 days ago

28 April 2016 (F) - Hey guys, so I have a question that's gonna hit a rather touchy area, especially for men, so please keep in mind; I have very little sexual experience (I've never had full intercourse)! So I was recently dumped by a long term boyfriend, and a friend...

We are back together, but he is still talking with the girl he dated when we were split up!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2909 days ago

28 April 2016 (F) - I've been dating my ex boyfriend again for the last 4 months. We were broken up for about 6 months and he was dating someone else for 4 months out of the 6 months we were broken up. He says they were not that serious but they did like each other. ...

He broke up with me but I believe we will be together again in the future!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2911 days ago

28 April 2016 (F) - I recently was broken up with by my now ex boyfriend, and even though it hurt for days it now hurts less. He told me a lot of things when he broke up with me, which now I am a 100% sure he was telling the truth. He has never lied to me, and I know ...

The 'what if' person

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2905 days ago

27 April 2016 (F) - Hey guys! I'm new here but felt like I wanted to share an experience with you which kind of made me lose sight of who I was. So there is a guy who for the past four years has decided to come in and out of my life whenever he fancies. He sav...

My social anxiety has resulted in me having just one friend! Please read the rest of my post and give me some advice!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2915 days ago

26 April 2016 (F) - so I have pretty bad social anxiety to the point where I only had one friend and as much as I tried to make other friends (and I continue to try) it justs exhausts me and people just ignore me. anyway so I've known my friend has liked me pretty ...

I want a second chance, how can I show him it will work?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2915 days ago

25 April 2016 (F) - Hi all, me and my ex decided to be friends because we didnt get to spend much time together ( together 4 month ) and thought itd be better as friends even tho we both still want the same things . he said he wanted to keep me in his life and wanted ...

I really liked him, we made out and the next day he pretended it never happened! What made him not like me anymore?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2916 days ago

25 April 2016 (F) - Hi i had this boy i knew i really liked him and he liked me and one day we made out at night.The next day he pretended like it never happen like he never liked me and i texted him and told him did it mean anything and he said no and that broke my ...

I’m afraid he’ll just drop me one day! How can I overcome this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2916 days ago

25 April 2016 (F) - I am in a relationship but because of past experiences where men I was dating ended the relationship with me by just not calling or contact in me, I have this fearvthat this man will just one day drop me and leave me devastated. How can I overcome ...

Does he want to go back to casually sleeping together? Or just friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2916 days ago

25 April 2016 (F) - A guy ive been exclusively seeing for two months recently ended things with me. We were previous drunken fuck buddies for three months beforehand who ended up getting feelings for each other and decided to give it a go. We never really went out on ...

How can I get over him and move on? My ex boyfriend is blanking me and I can't move on

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2916 days ago

24 April 2016 (F) - Hi, me and my ex broke up last Sunday. I ended the relationship. He was texting me and said "can't we still talk?" So I said "if you want to" he said "yes I do" so i said me too. I ended the relationship because my mum made me because he was ma...

Can I ever encourage this man to come back? He broke up with me after finding I was once engaged to another man

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2916 days ago

23 April 2016 (F) - I met this guy one (Mr. X) and half years ago but we started dating about eight months ago. before him, I was previously engaged to another man, who called off the wedding just one week before. We had had engagement ceremony, as is custom in my c...

Why do I still want to know how my ex is doing?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2917 days ago

22 April 2016 (F) - I was dumped 3 years ago. It was a serious relationship. I was desperate and have been through every step after the breakup. We're not friends on Facebook, and this did help me a lot. After 3 years, I can say that I'm finally over him now. But I ...

My ex boyfriend wanted the truth about his ED. Is ED a good enough reason to end a relationship?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2918 days ago

22 April 2016 (F) - I had closure with my 45 year ex boyfriend last night. The problems around our sex life weighed heavily on this new relationship. Is it a good enough reason to end a relationship because I cant have penetrative satisfying sex? I love making l...

How do I get over him? Should I try to be friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2917 days ago

21 April 2016 (F) - The guy i've been seeing ended things with me and i just cant seem to get over him. We've been on and off for six months which originally started as a friends with benefits thing and eventually we decided to start seeing each other. He's messed m...

Just stop talking to him or be straight up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2919 days ago

21 April 2016 (F) - I am currently talking to a guy and his been trying to talk to me for 2 maybe 3 years now and I either ignore him or talk to him but for the 1st 3 min only. Well this time i decided to talk to him and we have been talking for quite a while bu...

My partner or my daughter? I feel so very upset about what has happened. What should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2917 days ago

21 April 2016 (F) - I have lived with my partner for around 5 years. My daughter (now 24) lived with me....(or between my ex husband and her b/f's parents) She never paid any board money and rarely did any housework. (but that's my fault for letting her). We often ...

Should I continue with this relationship? Or break up with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2914 days ago

21 April 2016 (F) - Hello Aunts! I'm not sure if I'm in the right relationship. My bf and I have been dating for two years now. Sometimes I feel I love him very much while sometimes I feel I don't love him that much to get married to him. I broke up with him about a ...

Could a man lose interest in a sex buddy as fast as a few weeks?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2920 days ago

20 April 2016 (F) - There's this guy who I have started having sex with. (I told him that I wasn't looking for a relationship. He's fine with that.) So we started to have sex and he was my first time. A couple times he has gone a two weeks without needing to see m...

These old friendships are haunting me, any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2921 days ago

20 April 2016 (F) - I was excluded quite rudly from a group of uni friends over 6 years ago. The ringleader suddenly decided her friends at home didn't like me, so when her friends came to visit she refused to mention the night to me - a couple days before the night I ...

Does human love really exist? Do you really believe in love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2909 days ago

20 April 2016 (F) - My love life is not exciting at all,all relationships i have been involved they were nothing but heart breaking.I realized that that i was meant to love or dating for that matter. I will never love again. You give your all to your partner,but som...

Should you ever give flaky guys a second chance?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2922 days ago

19 April 2016 (F) - When I say flake, I don't mean cancelling or calling beforehand to reschedule or calls afterwards to explain the bizarre emergency situation in which he was unable to call. A flake to me , Is someone that makes plans with you. You set the date...

Should I hint to him that I want this, or should I leave in the hope that he will ask instead?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2922 days ago

18 April 2016 (F) - I had a drunken one night stand with a guy in my first term at university and we eventually became friends with benefits. This carried on for three months, until we both developed feelings and felt the best thing to do was end things as neither ...

Do I end this friendship with my ex? I'm feeling very hurt and confused

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2919 days ago

18 April 2016 (F) - I'll start off by saving for the past 5-6 months I have been in an emotional tornado regarding my ex boyfriend. It has been hell for me, seriously. And I'm extremely confused about everything I was with my ex boyfriend for over 3 years, HE broke ...

Any solutions possible? I have a difficult time trusting women because of a past ex

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2917 days ago

17 April 2016 (M) - This is a whole pretty complicated story, I'll try to explain it as quickly as I can. My mother has been putting a lot of pressure on me lately to start dating, especially since I've been out of college for a year. I want to be able to date,...

I have tried everything but to her I am dead!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2921 days ago

16 April 2016 (M) - I have only had one girlfriend in the past which was a LDR from my state to another state, a 14 hour drive. I was with my ex from the age of 19-24 and we had a lot of ups and downs. I was going through a bad time in my personal life with the de...

How should I approach my roommate to tell her that it's time for her to find a better BF?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2927 days ago

14 April 2016 (M) - How do you tell your roommate that she just needs to move on? Sooo my roommate has broken up with a guy for 5 months who basically threw her out on Christmas but she is still pursuing him. From what she says he is awful to her and Ive heard hi...

Did I make the right decision to give him space? because now I find he's dating someone else

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2927 days ago

14 April 2016 (F) - I'm pretty upset about a decision I made yesterday. My ex boyfriend broke up with me about 6 months ago but told me he still loves me and that maybe we would get back together in the future. I respected his decision and left him alone but he wan...

Should I marry him even though it would mean that I would be stuck in a life I would hate?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2925 days ago

12 April 2016 (F) - Ive going to marry soon this year and im having dillema about my future. I think its normal to worry about my future life and im not telling or discussed this with anyone. Its making me depressed by the time pass and it keep worse. We have been t...

Should I stay with the boyfriend I met on facebook? He was taking drugs so I broke up with him.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2923 days ago

12 April 2016 (F) - I was with my boyfriend for 44 days. I started dating him over facebook. I didn't know what he looked like so we met up and kept meeting then he asked me out. I dumped him because he was taking drugs, getting garried (a pill you swallow and it m...

Are they turned off by my virginity?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2930 days ago

11 April 2016 (F) - I loved two different guys once upon a time... The first guy was into me, we had alot in common. We went on a couple dates and we discussed sex, marriage etc. When he found out I was a virgin tho , he said he couldnt be with me anymore.. The...

Would you be thinking there's more to the story here or just a guy wanting to get away at a casino, all by himself?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2930 days ago

10 April 2016 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating about 2 years. We have been arguing a lot lately and have broken up some but then gotten back togther. I have never doubted his faithfulness to me. And I know he feels the same about me. So trust has never been an ...

How can I best deal with my insistent ex? He's weirding me out

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2931 days ago

10 April 2016 (M) - My ex has reached out 5 years after we broke up. We haven't seen each other since we broke up. He has intermittently throughout the 5 years making efforts to keep talking, but I moved countries, grew up, had new experiences blah blah I feel li...

Whats the best way to handle this ending of our relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2932 days ago

9 April 2016 (F) - I am trying to gently end a three month relationship with my 40 year old recently divorced boyfriend who has made excuses not to see me to discuss our communication problems. I am always willing to talk and I think I have gently supported him a lo...

Am I being a drama queen for blocking him? And why wouldn’t he have checked on me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2932 days ago

9 April 2016 (?) - Hi , last week I posted a question about what I should do about the situation I am in. I am 5 weeks pregnant and currently going through an abortion I am just waiting for the second lot of pills. I am so upset and distraught about the whole ...

What is it with men? Do they want what they can't have?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2930 days ago

8 April 2016 (F) - I wrote a question back in November, wondering if this guy was still a player or not. Long story short, I did cut contact with that guy, So for months I hadn't heard anything from the "reformed" player (nor have I laid eyes on him) until today when ...

What should I do so he could leave me alone without hurting his feelings?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2932 days ago

8 April 2016 (F) - My ex and I broke up about a week or 2 ago because he felt as though we weren't "compatible". I ve been coping with it and I honestly don t want to talk to him nor see him because it makes getting over him easier. Ever since we broke up he s been ...

30 years and she still wont listen to the truth!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2933 days ago

8 April 2016 (M) - Just found out some one I like over thirty years ago been mad at me all this time, our last date she thought I put something in her drink, a drug, I didn't, she left me that night and went home with this other guy, who was trying to make me out the ...

Should I tell her that her boyfriend has been cheating on her, without me ever knowing until now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2934 days ago

7 April 2016 (F) - I met this guy named "A" in the fall of 2013 (he then 24). I had issues because I recently had gotten out of a relationship and he suddenly came along. We talked about my break up and got to know each other. He would call me day/night daily....

Is it morally wrong, and selfish on my part to tell him how I feel, and tear him away from this woman?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2933 days ago

7 April 2016 (F) - I dated a slightly older man for about a year and half until I left to finish my college education. We had decided to break what we had off since we weren't keen on the idea of a long distance relation ship and we had different goals to focus on...

His New GF dumped him. Why he would choose to apologize to me after all this time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2934 days ago

7 April 2016 (F) - I'm confused about my ex and the sincerity of his apology. He treated me terribly but ended up apologizing to me 8 months later. When I first met him, he was intially really sweet and kind towards me but after about 4 months, I discovered that ...

Is this a typical rebound situation. or the real thing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2934 days ago

6 April 2016 (F) - My ex of one year broke up with me 2 months ago. Said he fell out of love with me because I wasn't the girl he fell in love with anymore. Weight gain caused depression and I withdrew, so his claim is somewhat validated. Asked to move in together...

She can’t have a simple argument, she blows everything out of proportion! I’m in a pickle!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2933 days ago

6 April 2016 (M) - I have been in a relationship with a woman for the last three years. Throughout that time we in the main have been really really happy. We don't live together but have spent a lot of time with each other. When we do occasionally have the odd ...

How to cope with the fall of a 4 year relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2936 days ago

5 April 2016 (F) - I am a couple of months out of a four year relationship and struggling to cope. Unlike the end of my five year relationship before this, where I was very angry and that anger just faded into nothing- this time, I am just so sad and very disappoi...

My ex gave a weak excuse for breaking up

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2933 days ago

5 April 2016 (F) - Dear cupid I think my boyfriends excuse for breaking up with me is a cop out and that he won't tell me the real reason why he wanted to break up. He told me that he wanted to break up because of how neglectful I was the first 3 months of our re...

I’m in love with my boss, why can’t he pick me? I’m in pain!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2934 days ago

5 April 2016 (F) - Hi, I am a Personal Assistant and have been sleeping with my single boss for a few months. I have always had a crush on him from the beginning but I never thought that sleeping with him could happen. When we started sleeping with each other...