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Archived questions from: October, 2018 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

I don't want to make things easy for my ex. Do I move out because he wants me to?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1994 days ago

29 October 2018 (F) - Hi This is gonna be long post . I am 23.lets call him A . We met in highschool and offically started dating. His parents and extended family approved of us and things were good. We were both young and immature .We had all ups and downin the relat...

I need your thoughts on how to sort this situation.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1999 days ago

28 October 2018 (F) - Recently with the past 2 months, my boyfriend of nine years and I ended our relationship. Our relationship had it’s good points, but overall was very toxic and tumultuous. He has a pre-teen daughter and myself an 11-year-old son. He’s been my ...

During a break I went to work on my flaws but he never took responsibility of his. Now hes forcing his way back into my life. What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1998 days ago

28 October 2018 (F) - My boyfriend and I of 2 years went on a 6 week break after many rows. This was mainly due to my insecurity issues, which caused many arguments leading to the break. During the break I wanted to make a huge change in my life and went to see ...

He’s a selfish date, do I get rid or give him one last chance?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1997 days ago

28 October 2018 (F) - Why am i such an idiot. i arranged a date with a friend of mine we decided to give it a go. He messaged me to say he was home and that i can go round so i got a taxi to his and knocked on his door a few times and he didnt answer. It was late dark ...

I'm hurt, confused, angry and betrayed.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1995 days ago

28 October 2018 (M) - So Last night I texted my gf and asked her how it started and she said that they met at a mutual friends house and he went up to her and they started talking about regulsr shit at first. Eventually they started chatting over what...

I cannot tollerate my ex husband so why do I feel angry and rejected?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2002 days ago

24 October 2018 (F) - I absolutely know that I cannot stay with my husband. We are near divorce and there are things I cannot tolerate about him. However, I still ache, I still miss the good stuff....and honestly word of his new relationship is killing me. I have ...

How do I change my desperate tendencies regarding men?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1896 days ago

19 October 2018 (F) - I have realized that when I get into any relationship my main goal is to win the over - and close the deal. This is all mentally obviously I never reveal my intentions out loud but with my bf two years ago he approached me asked me out etc and we ...

Should I fly 4,000 miles to go see my ex? Would it be cheating?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2006 days ago

19 October 2018 (F) - So... we’ve broken up for 5 years after an incident and subsequently I moved home to my home country. Contact was lost eventually as we were sick of crying over the phone. Recently, I thought I saw him whilst on vacation and sent him a text. He...

Strange things keep happening after my one-night stand!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2008 days ago

19 October 2018 (F) - Hi everyone I split up with my partner but we carried on living together until he found somewhere to live I went out and slept with someone it was just a one night stand I woke up and told him I had a boyfriend even though we had split up just cos i ...

Should I give my ex money back for a trip that he won't be taking with my family?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2010 days ago

16 October 2018 (F) - Hey guys. Since my last post I've taken your advice and no longer visit my exs social media accounts. I am actually in the process of moving on and have even met someone else :) I'm just writing because it's coming to the time where I sign ...

Girlfriend in jail. How do I handle that we have to move out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2012 days ago

15 October 2018 (M) - Girlfriend who has been living with me at my apartment for 5 months was arrested last month(drugs). Lease is up and all her stuff is here. I have been packing it up and cleaning the place to get the deposit back. So I have been there during odd ...

He said he'd break up with his girlfriend to date me but I just want to be friends

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2013 days ago

14 October 2018 (F) - Hi, I've just transferred to a new university starting second year where everybody already knows each other. I befriended a girl on my course and she introduced me to her friendship group on the course which has been lovely. I've particularly got...

Have I just been used?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2014 days ago

13 October 2018 (F) - I was seeing someone up until a few months ago, we weren’t together very long but I really started to care for him. Anyway he’d not long got out a relationship before we met, moved out and started his new life so wanted to take things slowly, he ...

I'm willing to leave my husband but my married lover isn't saying anything about leaving his wife

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2012 days ago

12 October 2018 (F) - Iv been having an affair for a couple of years now and decided to end my marriage. I'm living with a friend but my married lover is still staying put. I said it was my problem about leaving my husband but he said he was still worried for me. He ...

Engagement called off due to past relationship how do I fix things?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2011 days ago

12 October 2018 (F) - I was engaged to a wonderful guy.He is a virgin and have very high Morales and values.However, i lied to him about my past relationship and virginity. Engagement called off due to videos and pictures of sexual activity and intimate ones,ta...

What should I do to guard my heart and not be a fool?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2015 days ago

11 October 2018 (M) - Hello, everyone. I’m a 21 year old homosexual male. About three weeks ago, my toxic, 2 year relationship ended with my ex. Throughout the entire duration of our relationship, he emotionally cheated, meaning that he would inbox other guys on social ...

I'm dating a new guy but I'm still not over my ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2020 days ago

6 October 2018 (F) - I am 15 , 16 in a few weeks .About 3 months ago , me and my boyfriend of a year broke up and over the summer I gave myself time to get over him . Once summer ended I got back in touch with a boy that I’ve known for about 2 years , we started to hang ...

Struggling to get over ex and finding it hard to look at dating again!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2013 days ago

3 October 2018 (M) - Hi all, I guess this is a slightly multi-layered problem. Firstly I am single as of close to year ago. I mention this as I feel it potentially explains certain things as of yet mentioned. It was a strange breakup that never really had clos...

Why am I contemplating taking a job that makes my abusive ex my supervisor?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2025 days ago

2 October 2018 (F) - I'm not even sure why I am asking this question, when the answer seems so obvious. I think I am finding it difficult to trust myself not to get involved in this weird situation, out of desperation really, and because I've had to force myself to do ...

On social media he blocks me, unblocks me, friends me then unfriends, I don't know what to do.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2027 days ago

1 October 2018 (F) - I have no idea where to begin I am only hoping you all can offer some advice. So I was with my ex for three years, we were engaged at one point, but I broke it off after our twin babies were born stillborn. We stayed in a relationship we just ...