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Archived questions from: June, 2016 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

We had our first kiss and it wasn't magic as expected! Now what?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2856 days ago

30 June 2016 (F) - We had our first kiss and it wasnt magic as expected. I am dating a guy who has been hitting on me for three years now. I am 20 he is 23 i thought i had feelings for him but yesterday when we had our first kiss i didnt enjoy. It was strange, tasted ...

Boyfriend admitted his feelings changed... How do I move on?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2856 days ago

30 June 2016 (F) - I was with my (now ex) boyfriend for six months. The first four months were amazing, we were both very committed to one another and had great chemistry. During the past two months however he became very distant. Communication on his part went from ...

He's giving me the silent treatment right now, Will he return to me? I know he's abusive but I want him back

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2858 days ago

29 June 2016 (F) - I recently learned that the guy im dating is a narcissist. We've been through at least 3 cycles of devalue/discard and a recent cycle of re-idealization. He's giving me the silent treatment right now, will he ever return my calls or come ar...

How long can I "play" hubby for her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2859 days ago

28 June 2016 (M) - Me [25 M] in love with [26 F] living with her bf for the past 9 years with two kids It's really a tough situation because I have fallen in love with her and she with me. But as is always the case when someone has been with another guy for 9 years ...

Why can't I let go? Breaking up has left me feeling so low.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2859 days ago

28 June 2016 (F) - My boyfriend of six months broke up with me over text a month ago- I get it the relationship wasn't exactly a two way street. We did everythingn in his time and I put up with a lot more than I should have- like him bringing his friends over on date ...

Why do we keep on contacting each other after our breakup?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2860 days ago

27 June 2016 (F) - My ex broke up with me over 2 months ago now, during the time from then to now - we have been in contact a lot and just basically can't seem to stay away from each other, no matter how much we say we will. We have repeated again and again to eac...

Breaking up was the right decision so why do I feel bad now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2860 days ago

27 June 2016 (F) - I was okay for two weeks when busy traveling for work, but home now and thinking about this man I was seeing for the past four years. It was a difficult relationship and never really knew where I stood with him. If I was being real, I would al...

When is the right time to take an ex back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2858 days ago

26 June 2016 (F) - I have not been seeing or contacting my ex for two years now. He sent me a text yesterday just to say hi on social network. As we text he tells me he is still inlove with me and wants to be the best guy for me. He blames himself for the break up ...

Why do men always lose interest in me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2860 days ago

25 June 2016 (F) - Why do men always lose interest in me after two months? I dated three men for two months each and suddenly, at the two month point they cool way off. Communication drops, they stop making plans, and we just stop talking. I do my part. I don't over ...

Do I end the 25 year friendship ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2860 days ago

25 June 2016 (F) - I dont understand why my friend is trying to make me feel guilty. Sorry but this is a long story , I have a friend who lives in a different town to me its only a 10 minute bus ride ill call her A i also have a friend who lives in the same town as ...

Was it right for me to say what I said? will this break help us sort things out for ourselves?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2862 days ago

25 June 2016 (F) - A few nights ago, my boyfriend and I called a break because he and I wanted to find time for ourselves. Since we've been dating for four years, we thought it was time. We still love each other but I want a break for two weeks because I feel we ...

Ex boyfriend still has profile picture on facebook of us together 5 days after break up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2862 days ago

25 June 2016 (F) - We have been going out 6 years on and off. We are students (23) He started working a few weeks ago, he has been acting strange ever since. He didn't reply to my msg for 3 days, I heard from him the day after this saying how much he loves me etc....

Is it Okay to ghost in this situation? I feel that he's lost interest in me.

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 2852 days ago

24 June 2016 (F) - I've been dating someone for three months now. The first two months were great, he was very affectionate and planned thoughtful dates (as did I). He reached out daily and I reciprocated. We met twice a week. However this month he's been busy w...

Is there such a thing as relationship anxiety? How do I manage this anxiety?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2863 days ago

24 June 2016 (F) - I've had horrible experiences with exes. My first love cheated on me twice and both times he choose the other girl over me. That in a sense kind of left me emotionally scarred and since then I haven't had a relationship last more than a couple o...

Does he feel rejected? I'd like to know, how can this be fixed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2862 days ago

24 June 2016 (F) - I have a weird situation and need opinions please.. Talked to this guy online, Skype, phone for three years(I know I know "you never met him")... But it was budding pen pals to friends to romantic interest. There was a possibility of s...

I probably shouldn't take him back. Is what I did to him worse than what he did to me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2863 days ago

24 June 2016 (F) - I was involved with my ex-boyfriend for many years we are friends first so I've known him a really long time. We know each other very very well. He had some substance abuse issues and during that time cheated on me multiple occasions. When I fi...

I am low on his list of priorities!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2864 days ago

22 June 2016 (F) - I feel like my boyfriend does not have time for me anymore an am not sure of what to do! Basically there is a culture clash and his parents want him to have an arranged marriages which he has refused to do as he is with me But I feel like everyt...

We agreed to remain friends but I haven't heard from him!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2864 days ago

22 June 2016 (F) - A guy i was seeing for 5 months ended things with me a couple of months ago. From my persepctive everything was going well and had been fine between us leading up to him ending things so it really upset me as it was totally unexpected. When he ended ...

I'm shocked my boyfriend broke up with me because I wanted to communicate! Your thoughts?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2863 days ago

22 June 2016 (F) - We have been going out 6 years on and off. We are students (23) He started working a few weeks ago. He didn't reply to my msg for 3 days, I heard from him the 4th day saying how much he loves me etc...he sent me a msg saying he will take me out...

We kiss but don't make up

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2865 days ago

21 June 2016 (F) - I have an ex. We broke up cause a simple reason six months ago. But until now, he still ask me to meet him. Not just a simple meeting, but we do more than it. He asked to kiss me. I don't know what he really felt about me. I still love him and I ...

Should I feel guilty? I told every one he has a "needle dick" after he was playing games with me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2865 days ago

20 June 2016 (F) - Should I feel guilty? Hi I'm Ellie and I'm seventeen years old. In a nutshell, I had this boyfriend we had a thing since september, so about 8 months. I met him when I moved schools for sixth form and we had chemistry right away. In Febuary I fou...

My boyfriend wants to quit his job after only 1 week. I told him I'd break up with him if he does so!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2864 days ago

20 June 2016 (F) - Hello, I would like your advice on whether I am being too harsh on my boyfriend. My boyfriend was without a job for quite some months and recently landed a customer service job. He has experience working in a call center environment before so hi...

Help ! What should I do? He treats me like someone he wants to string along

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2846 days ago

18 June 2016 (F) - I was with a relationship for 2 years. A few months ago i found out he had been two- timing me with his ex (i was apparently the side chick). I broke up. He pursued her like a crazed stalker for a month but she left him for good. Then he came for...

Lonely in a foreign hospital waiting for medical evacuation to a spinal unit and despite this my Gf is uncaring about the severity of the situation. Time to get rid of the Gf?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2869 days ago

17 June 2016 (M) - I had a motorcycle accident last saturday whilst on holiday where I was initially paralysed from the neck down then recovered feelings. It will be a long term healing process as I struggle to walk, have spine damage etc. I am determined to do what I ...

My married man was upset I broke up with him! Was I unreasonable?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 2869 days ago

16 June 2016 (F) - I have been involved with a married man for 10 years, I waited until his children were grown up so I could make demands in my lover leaning his wife, they are 17 and 19 so not kids anymore....I asked him last night for us to be a proper couple now, ...

Money, jealousy, love and complicated families. How does one negotiate around these challenges?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2868 days ago

16 June 2016 (M) - I was hurt to see how people mostly think about money... I've alway had complicated relationship with my father and his family. Not to justify him or anything but he's a deeply damaged man. After leaving my mother he never supported me emo...

Do we still have a future together? Right now it seems not

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2860 days ago

15 June 2016 (F) - I've been in a relationship for 7 years with someone I fell head over heels for in college. He was my first proper relationship and at 18. I thought I had found the one. Things progressed really quickly and after college we moved back home which is...

4 years with my Bf. Do you think I am wasting my time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2872 days ago

15 June 2016 (F) - After 4 years with my bf i asked if we will ever move together and he started mentioning its too expensive and he just wants to live at his mom's house. Does this mean im wasting my time in here?...

Breaking up and I've developed a crush on another guy already. Is my idea of moving on viable or a terrible idea?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2872 days ago

14 June 2016 (F) - I need opinions... So my husband and I are ending things. For our own personal reasons. My husband was and is emotionally abusive and can't seem to change. We have a mutual friend that we both just starting hanging around. I, ( knowing th...

I broke the engagement, but what did I do wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2873 days ago

13 June 2016 (F) - Hello all. I'm new here and seeking some assistance with an issue I'm presently dealing with. I appreciate all who answer and want to apologize first hand for possible grammatical errors. Here goes: A little over two weeks ago I decided to call ...

Am I entitle to feel the pain of loss and grief over my parents' breakup? Including my loss of connection to the family home?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2874 days ago

13 June 2016 (F) - Hi there, I am 23 years old and live with my boyfriend of the same age. We've been together 3 years, lived together for 1. Recently my parents decided to divorce. They have sold the family home I grew up in and moved quite far away from me (...

How do I give up someone I know is the one?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2847 days ago

13 June 2016 (?) - First off, true love endures. It can withstand challenges, mishaps, and crisis. The important thing is, the one you believe to be the one, has to feel the same as you do; and be willing to struggle to keep it together as much as you want to. See,...

My girlfriend is mean but I can’t seem to leave her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2875 days ago

12 June 2016 (F) - I'm in a same sex relationship, and we've been together for about 9 months. There's something about her that makes me crazy. I've never felt like this before (I can say that honestly). But for the most of our relationship, she's been incredibly ...

Do relationships that start as affairs go the distance, or do they fail?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2874 days ago

12 June 2016 (M) - My dad left my mum (who his disabled with MS) for the 'other woman' - do these relationships that start as an affair (lies, deception) typically last? How can his new parter trust him? She must be insecure that if he can do it with her, he will DO ...

Should I tell my boyfriend that we have finished for good?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2875 days ago

11 June 2016 (F) - Should I tell my boyfriend that we have finished for good?. We have been in an on/off relationship for eight months. When he was 20, he had a couple of one night stands with women in their 40's and then had one other girlfriend before me, which was ...

Should I just end the relationship as I broke her trust?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2876 days ago

11 June 2016 (M) - Asking is it better to end a relationship if trust if broken??? I did not physically cheat but sexual videos btwn me and a girl got found and then she forgave me not only for me to get caught on a chatting site a few months later ..so she says...

How can I move on from what seems to be true love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2876 days ago

11 June 2016 (F) - FWB with a guy who much like my boyfriend without the title (we both denied feelings for each other but i think it was clear we were very in love and also we lost our virginity to each other and were together for 2 years on-off). Two years ago he ...

Is another woman the cause?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2874 days ago

11 June 2016 (F) - ok so my partner and i are have hit a really bad spot. He left my apartment in a mood with now reason a few days ago i don't even know why the night before we had a really great night and so much fun together then at 6am he was leaving saying he ...

Are there people who just break up and feel happy and relieved and never think twice about their ex again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2874 days ago

11 June 2016 (F) - After being together for 2.5 years, I've finally beoken up with him yesterday. He called me last night thinking that I was just 'acting up'. As soon as I heard that he was still out, supposedly driving home at 1am, I didn't want to talk and ...

When I asked for what I need and in response he broke up with me. How do I get over this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2877 days ago

10 June 2016 (F) - My bf broke with me unexpectedly Last week we were texting and after a couple of months of being in a relationship and me doing everything he wants The second I asked for some one on one time he had the epiphany that we don't see things eye t...

Do I wait for the new guy to make up his mind? or go back to Mr Wrong?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2874 days ago

10 June 2016 (F) - So, my (verbally abusive) boyfriend of 2 years and I finally called it off. A few months later, I reconnect with and re-fall for this brilliant, kind, handsome guy who I used to be *very friendly* with in high school. Happy ending? Nope! He decides ...

Do I risk losing her for good if I tell her, ''no we can't do this right now'' ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2854 days ago

10 June 2016 (M) - In our final year of university, a girl I have grown close with from my friendship group confessed that she liked me, just a few weeks after splitting up with her boyfriend of 2 years, who is also a pretty good friend of mine. I immediat...

Hasty marriage breaking me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2875 days ago

10 June 2016 (F) - Hi, I am from India and I am dealing with huge amount of stress due to a series of events since the last few months. I was in a long distance relationship since three years with the guy whom I married in January. We were not exactly a couple madly ...

Angry I missed the signs he didn't love me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2532 days ago

10 June 2016 (F) - My bf of six months just broke up with me over text and I wanted to know if im the one that missed the red flags. We met through mutual friends and there was an instant attraction - he was the one that asked me out and within two weeks of knowing...

Has anyone been in a lasting relationship where there was an age difference?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2877 days ago

9 June 2016 (M) - When I was 28 I was in a 4.5 year relationship with a younger girl, she was only 18 when we started dating. We had a son together and when our son was 18 months old she said she made a mistake settling down with me and wanted to experience her yout...

My ex messaged that she wants to try again after years of little communication!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2878 days ago

9 June 2016 (M) - So what do you do when an old time ex suddenly wants to get back? When we first met I was 20, she was 17 we texted and went on a couple dates then i asked her to be my gf over a text message (very amateur of me right). The timing was awful, she was ...

I want to break up, but what of the presents she gave me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2877 days ago

9 June 2016 (M) - If you are seeing some one for let's say four months, an you don't feel the same way, so you decide to break up with them, an the night before you do this they give you a few presents, do you keep the presents or give them back, an tell them it's ...

I still love him, but he wants out. How can I get through this challenge'

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2879 days ago

8 June 2016 (F) - Hello. My husband and I are going to get divorced, he asked for it. We are now completing the legal papers. I was really shocked when he told me that he cant live with me anymore and that I cant give him what he wants... We had a lot of financial...

I want my Bf back. How can I attempt to achieve that aim?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2877 days ago

8 June 2016 (F) - I want my ex boyfriend back , when i first met my ex there was something special there and i felt so comfortable with him as tho i had known him years . But after our first meet he kept cancelling we had a break and decided to try again but agai...

I'm stuck in a one sided relationship with a guy who tries to deliberately belittles me. Can someone please advise what to do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2871 days ago

8 June 2016 (F) - So heres my problem, Ive been in a relationship with my boyfriend since October (9 months) and have lived with him for 8 months. We are always together. For the last 6 months, I havent been happy in life or in our relationship. I keep trying t...