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Archived questions from: December, 2019 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

I'm worried about my mental health.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1575 days ago

31 December 2019 (F) - I'm scared i'm sinking into depression and can't pull myself out of it. I'm a Mum of one (teenager) and came out of a long term relationship in October. When I had my child, I battled post-natal depression for several years and so I think I c...

My ex and I remain friends, he has invited me to a family party.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1578 days ago

30 December 2019 (F) - my ex and I dated for two years we have been broken up for a year now we still remain friends and hang out almost everyday he has invited me to a family party what should I expect...

My Ex Girlfriend has told me the only person who will raise our son is her.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1579 days ago

29 December 2019 (M) - The mother of my child and my ex girlfriend got a new boyfriend. We’ve been broke up since October 28, of last year. So roughly 14 months ago. About, May of that time period, only a month or two after our son was born. We were at my senior ...

My boyfriend's good side is wonderful, it is why I have stayed so long.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1581 days ago

27 December 2019 (F) - Over the last year, I've spent 5 months total with my bf. Let me give you a timeline. January-gone half the month working February-gone half the month because he was mad at me but we took a trip to Florida where we reconciled but then I flew acro...

I feel a complete romantic disaster!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1581 days ago

27 December 2019 (M) - Hi all, and happy holidays! Any help or advice is much appreciated. A few years ago I liked a girl at my school (so much that it became more of an unhealthy obsession than a crush), but was never able to muster up enough courage to finally ask h...

My boyfriend is financially dependent on me, did I make the right choice?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 1581 days ago

26 December 2019 (F) - Dear Everyone, I am writing this today because to be completely honest, I feel completely lost. I have been in a relationship for about 7 months. It started pretty slow, I didn't necessarily plan on being in a relationship so fast. We started ...

He's ready to break up with his fiancee to be with me but is it the right thing to do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1583 days ago

25 December 2019 (F) - Hello agony aunts, 7 years ago I was in a relationship with this man whom I met in college. We were so in love however I had to finish my higher education outside the country for 2 years. We were trying patiently to manage the LDR but after I ...

Split for a month and I slept with someone else.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1575 days ago

23 December 2019 (F) - Hey aunts and uncles I am in a real dilemma, I have been with my man over four years,we have had our ups and downs and he often goes away for a few days and ignored me. A few times we have agreed to split and the last time we did was for a month. I...

My boyfriend and his crazy ex .... I'm wondering if I should just leave them to it.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1586 days ago

23 December 2019 (F) - My partner and I just got back together, and he has female friends and he slept with all of them. This one in particular that he keeps in contact with I really hate her because she was his gf before we got back together and she did some really nasty ...

I'd rather stick pins in my eyes than take him back, but I feel so lonely.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1588 days ago

20 December 2019 (F) - Hi all, Sorry to being negativity to the table but i'm feeling lonely and wasn't sure where to go to with this. Basically I recently broke up with an abusive boyfriend of many years. I've had a really busy couple of weeks in work and so h...

I'm compensating my lonliness by filling my life with material things.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1527 days ago

20 December 2019 (F) - Hello all, I've been having a really hard time controlling myself spending a lot of money. It all started 3 years ago when I first started university. I lost contact with my friends from school, they kept cancelling plans whenever we wanted to ...

I've recently broken up from my manipulative boyfriend, however I'm feeling sadness and jealousy.M!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1589 days ago

19 December 2019 (F) - Hello agony aunts, I've recently broken up from my manipulative boyfriend, however I'm feeling sadness and jealousy. When we were still together, I've always told him that one of my friends is really pretty and I do admire her beauty, he said that ...

Do I tell my boyfriend that while we were split up I slept with someone else?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1590 days ago

16 December 2019 (F) - I split up with my boyfriend for a few weeks and in that time I slept with someone else, we have since got back together but should I tell him?...

My ex is at college with me and he comes up and tries to start arguments with me. How should I act?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1594 days ago

12 December 2019 (F) - Hello agony aunts. I broke up with my boyfriend a week ago, because we basically went through a lot of arguments the last couple of months. It's been a really stressful relationship and very toxic, and every time during a fight he would blame me for ...

We broke up, I said I understood but I want to message her. Should I?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1598 days ago

10 December 2019 (M) - About four months ago I broke up with a girl i had been seeing for around the same amount of time, four months. She ended things with me. She had many great qualities, she was sweet, interesting, beautiful, she was Spanish but spoke many languages ...

She moved on, married, had children, but I never got closure.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1599 days ago

6 December 2019 (M) - I met a girl about a year after my divorce and it was a year after her divorce also. We both fell in love and dated each other for about four years. She wanted to get married and have children. I was afraid to get married, so we basically started ...

My estranged husband is still trying to rule my life.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1605 days ago

3 December 2019 (F) - My "estranged" husband is always trying to keep tabs on me and I feel like it's an invasion of my privacy. We are separated and no longer live together. We have a young child (under 10) who lives with me and will stay with him on the occasional w...

I broke up with him because he put everybody else first, now I am missing him like crazy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1606 days ago

3 December 2019 (F) - I have broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years and it was quite a nasty break up and a lot of shouting names and verbal abuse. Basically he started putting other people before me the past month and became unreliable and kept cancelling on me. So I ...

Husband I intend divorcing had a mutual friend contact me for information.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1602 days ago

2 December 2019 (F) - I’m writing this question for people’s views and it will help put my mind at rest. My husband lives in a different country from me, he has been quite abusive towards me in the past and I did everything for him. I also believe he is a narcissi...