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writes:Here it goes.. I'm a 20 year old girl, I have a 21 year old boyfriend and the woman in question is 30 years old. I met this woman on holiday, we got drunk together, I'd say a little bit flirty but nothing major. She was at a party the other week and she stared at me a lot, but that's it, however...I'm blocking my boyfriend out of my life who would give the absolute world for me, yet someone who hasn't shown me any interest hardly, who I never ever speak to (which is the 30yr old woman), I can't stop thinking about and it's ruining my life as I am completely and utterly obsessed with everything about her. She is my first thought in the morning, and I try to stop, but I physically and mentally cannot switch off my mind. I'm isolating myself from everything and I hate myself for doing that. I feel guilty, ashamed and lost.I constantly flick through social networking sites hoping I will see her name, hoping it will give me an insight into what she is doing/thinking/feeling. It's not fair, but I can't help how I feel. I constantly think about her, I think up 'what if' scenarios in my head all the time, and I hope, desperately hope every single day that she is going to send me a sign, as she sometimes likes my photos...When something good happens at work or in my life she is the first person I want to tell. I post pictures of myself having fun on Facebook to get her attention.... Help me
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2014): I've got to say, I know you've changed the location but I am sure that you are the person who has posted about two or three times about fantasising and obsessing over this cousin's friend you met on holiday http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-cant-stop-thinking-about-her-i-know.html . And I remember everyone saying just to dump your boyfriend because you clearly don't have that strong feelings for him if you're continuously obsessing over someone else for a long period of time. If you don't listen to it this time, then please stop posting about it.
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