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I feel I can't do any better than him and will never settle down

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Question - (29 December 2014) 1 Answers - (Newest, 29 December 2014)
A female age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Plz help, I'm so down, and before I go any further information do have a two year old and know I'm lucky to have her.anyway...

Everywhere I go my closest friends all seen to b having babies or getting married or even just very happy with the partners. Wheres there's me I want a baby and I really want to settle down, I've recently found out my bf who moved away to work has been seeing someone else and has got engaged although he's won't ever admit it to me, I've basically lost him,

I can't stop thinking of it is love him and he just doesn't like me although we do talk most days (I know it's wrong but he's to blame aswell)...I feel I can't do any better then him and will never settle down

What can I do I'm not sure what to do I'm so down when nobody's around me

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2014):

Maybe it's just me but I seem to have confused myself with your post . So please tell me if what I've grasped is wrong. Your around mid 30 and you have a two year old Daughter ? Your bf has left you and is engaged to someone else but keeps texting or in touch daily with you.

Is that right?

If he has moved on and is engaged to someone else, you really need to let him go if he is not your child's biological father then cut him lose. You are not an adolescent but a grown women with her a two year old . Focus on her and enriching both your life's and then when the time is right you will met Mr right . Everyone is diffident and not every relationship lands on your plate .

Take your time .. and take care

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