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Archived questions from: September, 2012 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

He treated me badly, I knew we couldn't marry so why do I still miss him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4218 days ago

30 September 2012 (F) - SORRY FOR MY bad ENGLISH.... I met my boyfriend one year ago,it was a rebound relationship, I was so much attached to him, we used to talk 7-8 hours in day. He used to tell me he wants to marry me, but we both belongs to conservative fam...

Is my ex in denial over our break up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4218 days ago

30 September 2012 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend last week over his bad temper and slight emotional abuse. Anyways we live together so it's hard to completely cut it off and not see him anymore but he said he would be looking for another place to live. We've been doing ...

I have concerns about returning to my FWB. What should I do though? He wants to resume, but his past actions concern me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4219 days ago

29 September 2012 (F) - Hi I realise there is a lot of questions asked about this thank you for any answers in advance I just need some opinions on this situation I have been in a FWB for 18 months now he asked me if it could just be me and him sleeping together and not ...

Can I regain his trust? He doesn't trust me anymore, he says he loves me but he doesn't know if he wants to be with me anymore

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4219 days ago

29 September 2012 (F) - last week i said to my boyfriend that maybe we should break up but i was stupid for saying it i just thought it would make him happier. ever since i said it things haven't been the same, he doesn't trust me anymore, he says he loves me but he doesn...

My g/f isn't "the one" -- but her best friend might be

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4219 days ago

29 September 2012 (M) - so ive got myself in a bit of a jam. im 25 and have dated around a lot trying to find exactly what im looking for. I started dating a new girl about 3 months ago and a few red flags are up...I know she's not the girl for me. The problem becomes ...

I'm having a hard time letting go... help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4220 days ago

27 September 2012 (F) - This guy and I went on and off for 8 months. We moved extremly fast, moved in 2 weeks of our relationship., the first time we split he said he wasn't ready to be in a commited relationship, and the pain felt unbearable. 2 weeks after I was just at ...

His actions are confusing, is he over me or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4218 days ago

27 September 2012 (F) - My ex boyfriend and I broke up 5 months ago due to differences in religion. I ignored him for very long after that as I was angry he gave me up because of religion. However, recently we started talking as we are colleagues and we became close ...

Did I make the right decision to leave my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4221 days ago

27 September 2012 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years a couple of days ago. We were living together for 2 of those years and frankly I was beginning to despise him. I'm not sure why I have so much anger towards him. He was really expressive with his love, always ...

I'm confused about our current status

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

26 September 2012 (F) - I've known a guy for about two years. He recently got divorced, the marriage was a very hostile and difficult one. He was married for 4 years. We were seeing each other for about 5 months, when he became distance, saying he needs to get his divor...

Every time a budding relationship ends I get more depressed

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4218 days ago

26 September 2012 (F) - Hi there I am really suffering in many ways. I was seeing a guy after a very bad break up which led myself and partner abroad only to realise that we were not compatible living together. It was heartbreaking. I went back to uk he stayed in ...

I'm breaking up with my boyfriend because I found him on dating websites

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4220 days ago

26 September 2012 (F) - hi, not going to be a long question but, i found out my boyfriend of nearly a year has been going on dating websites. He knows i know now and i told him im leaving him, but hes begging me not to saying he loves me and all that waffle, honestly im ...

Is he being honest or is this his way of trying to end things?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

26 September 2012 (F) - Over a month ago I met this guy in a bar. He seemed like a nice guy but I was not particularly physically attracted to him and I was only recently out of a six year relationship at the time and only looking for superficial relationship (so hot guys ...

Messed up real bad! Need help and advice.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4220 days ago

26 September 2012 (M) - Hello! I am new to this but I am trying to get all the help that I can get at this point. Well here it goes. Four days ago my fiancee and I got into a little fight at a wedding and left there right away which turned into a bigger fight down the ...

My married lover has moved on to another girl and I am so hurt, what should I do now?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4186 days ago

26 September 2012 (F) - I have been cheated by my married Lover, he has moved on to a "new girl"(another victim).he has completely removed me from his life,We both are in the same office, spend 8 hrs together, sitting besides each other, but we dont speak at all. he cut ...

Why does my ex still keep letters and pictures of me, when he was the one that broke up with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

26 September 2012 (F) - Well my ex and i were together for 7 months and i recently found out he still has a spot where he stores all of the letters and childhood pictures of me. i found out because his mom only knows im currently dating right now but why does he still have ...

Why did I mean nothing to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

26 September 2012 (F) - I really don't understand this and I feel so hurt. I know i don't deserve this but I just want to understand why. This guy I've known a long time, hes always been odd with me, sometimes abit negative but people said he was shy. He had gfs and then...

Why is he ignoring my requests to return my things?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

26 September 2012 (F) - Hi there. I had been dating a man for just over a year. We had spoken of getting married ETC. He suffers from depression therefore it was not uncommon for him to be distant sometimes. A few months ago he told me that he would like to leave things ...

I feel for a senior, and I thought he felt the same way about me, but when he left for college, he told me I meant nothing to him. I miss him and I'm heart broken, how do I get passed this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4211 days ago

25 September 2012 (F) - This might be long, but I'll try to keep it short.. At the beginning of my sophomore year of high school, I started dating this guy who was a senior. He was on the football team, captian of the restling team, popular and of course gorgeous. But I ...

She broke my trust in her... what shall I do now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4223 days ago

25 September 2012 (M) - i met one girl proposed her, she accept me with one condition need time to settle her other time pass love which is without sex, i said yes. in one year she went her ex room to settle with him lots of times, since i trust her i never said no to ...

I no longer feel that I can trust my LDR boyfriend. Should I break up with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

25 September 2012 (F) - Hi everyone! I am on a long distance relationship for 3 years, I really love this guy to the point we were getting engaged and such. He hid from me the fact he went with a female friend to a concert, even after I confronted him. He delet...

Should I let go and move on or fight for him?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4221 days ago

25 September 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going out for a year now. He is an Anglican while I am a Catholic. Met his parents on three occasions and they looked forward to having family lunch/dinner with me to also get to know me better and more. The problem is ...

Where can I find the strength and security to let go of someone I still love.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4223 days ago

25 September 2012 (F) - I am in a struggle and I desperately need advice. I have sought out seeing a counselor but at this time cannot afford the cost. I have been in a relationship with a man I care deeply about for 5 yrs. the relationship progressed slower due to a lon...

Younger b/f ended relationship because of my face book friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4223 days ago

25 September 2012 (F) - hi! am march 40 yrs and had a perfect relationship with a young man at 23. just 5 days ago this perfect relationship ended just because he discovered that i had a new account at fb. and i have male friends there too. we had been living-in together ...

My boyfriend and his child are a pair of spoilt brats!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4220 days ago

24 September 2012 (F) - Okay, so i have been with my bf for two years now, he has a 4 yr old of his own and i have a 6 and 8 yr old. My bf takes his son every weekend and whenever his son is here i dread it, i know i sound horrible but i treat all children the same so if ...

Maybe I shouldn't have broken up with him over his post?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4225 days ago

23 September 2012 (F) - I had this boyfriend(S),we were together for about 7 months and everything was going fine. i really liked him and (S) was one of the few people i've been with that was good to me. about 4 months into the relationship we had sex. it was the first ...

Both somewhat newly single, but we get along so well!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4224 days ago

23 September 2012 (F) - Hi agony aunts/uncles. Here's my situation... I just got out of a relationship of 1 year. It started out somewhat mutual but then it became me breaking up with him. I had been feeling off for a while, at least 2 months, and was already done with the...

How to regain my girlfriend's trust

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4225 days ago

22 September 2012 (M) - I while ago I broke up with my gf because my (former) best buddy lied to me and made me believe that she had tried to cheat on me with him. At the time she told me it was the opposite; that he was the one who wanted to be with her and could not take ...

I need to get over him. I need any ideas you can suggest to help me get over him completely

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4217 days ago

22 September 2012 (F) - Hi I need Advice here is the case: before 4 years my BF and I were together for about a year then I got pregnant. That time he didn't have job I have a job, he told me we gonna be together and he will do his best to get a job, a give birth and af...

I don't know if my boyfriend is the one for me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

21 September 2012 (F) - I have never written in any love advice sites before, but have been enjoying reading this site, so I decided to give it a try. Thanks for reading. I have been with my boyfriend for almost 11 months. From the beginning, I thought he was not the r...

My threesomes have come back to haunt me

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4221 days ago

21 September 2012 (F) - I am really in a bind and I don't know what to do. A little over a year ago I met my now fiancé. When we met we clicked instantly and became an item right away. He is charming, intelligent, attractive, educated and an all around great guy. About...

What exactly does 'take a break' mean?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4227 days ago

21 September 2012 (F) - What does "do you want to take a break" mean?? My boyfriend and I are having some ups and downs at the moment, and he asked me this. I don't even know what that entails. ...

Do you believe in 'if you love them let them go'?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4227 days ago

21 September 2012 (F) - This is just a random poll question: You know how in movies or TV there's always the theme of "if you love him/her, you'll let them go and be happy"... do you agree with that? Given that the relationship in question is pretty good but not ...

Where should I break up with my boyfriend of 3 years?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

20 September 2012 (F) - Hello Cupid I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 3 years. This is the first serious relationship for both of us. Sadly the feelings aren't the same for me and so I've decided to end the relationship. I live far away from anywhere so breakin...

After 3 years of a FWB relationship, I broke it off. Did I do the right thing?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4227 days ago

20 September 2012 (F) - I guess what I'm really looking for is affirmation that I did the right thing. I think I did, but it takes one varying opinon to make me reconsider what I did. Anyhow, I've been seeing this guy (not seriously for 3-years). I have dated and "...

We argued, she left, and blocked me in every way. How can I get her back?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4227 days ago

19 September 2012 (M) - I'll try and keep this short. My girlfriend and I had a silly argument nearly 4 weeks ago, and because of a misunderstanding she stormed off and I haven't heard from her since. She's completely avoiding me to the point of deleting me as a Face...

His behaviour and attitudes are unsettling. Should I leave him while I can?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4203 days ago

19 September 2012 (F) - Before we married, my husband was really into me (always holding my hand, kissing - being intimate in every way but no actual sex). I thought our honeymoon would be non-stop, but over the course of 10 days we had sex maybe five times. I was very...

Why has my friend of 10 years cut me off? I'm so confused. I've dug deep to try to figure out why she's mad at me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4229 days ago

19 September 2012 (F) - I have been good friends with another woman for almost ten years. We met right after we graduated from college and moved to the city. Throughout the years we shared a lot of laughter and tears. Two years ago she and her husband had a ba...

I need to stop! But how? I can't stop contacting an abusive ex boyfriend. Any tips on how to get stronger?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4229 days ago

19 September 2012 (F) - I can't seem to stop contacting my ex! Any tips? I was with him for 3 years and he turned out to be verbally and emotionally abusive that recently escalated into physical abuse on more than one occasion. We had a condo together and he stil...

Is lack of physical attraction a valid reason to break up with someone?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4229 days ago

18 September 2012 (F) - My boyfriend isn't attractive to me. I'm not implying that he's ugly or that other people might not find him good looking but I don't. He's a good person and treats me well and we're getting to that age where we're thinking about serious commitme...

7 year itch. Why would she leave without even talking to me and telling me what was wrong?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4230 days ago

18 September 2012 (M) - I am still a little confused about why my wife left me. She says she left because I was having an affair with a friend of mine, which I wasn't and she knew this, we have been together for 7 years, always have been able to talk, but in the last few...

Is this the way? I want to make him jealous. In retaliation for how he has treated me.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4230 days ago

18 September 2012 (F) - i want to make my ex jealous. do you have any ideas on how to do this? He has always told me that i need him and we are meant to be together, but I am done. I think he wants me back, then dump me. Every two months he comes crawling back to me. I w...

Should I break up with the love of my life?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4229 days ago

18 September 2012 (F) - I don't know what to do. My relationship has gone in a downward spiral from the minute it started. We met while I was visiting the East Coast from the West Coast. He moved to the West Coast for a job, and for me. We lived together in a nice little ...

Does regular sex with a psuedo vagina have the same health benefits as any other form of sex? And is it OK to date while I am separated from my wife?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4230 days ago

18 September 2012 (M) - My wife has recently left me, so I have been using a fake vagina for release. I was wondering if having sex with a psuedo vagina has the same health benefits as having sex with a real person? Also I was wondering if it is acceptable to have sex with...

He cheated on me in the past but now he is trying to make up for it, even though he is engaged to someone else. I love him so what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4231 days ago

17 September 2012 (F) - HI all iv posted on here before about an ex that seemed to trying to get back into my life, just wanted a little more advice. We split because within the first year of the relationship he cheated. We have a child together now. Hes showi...

I want to make my marriage work but we are completely lacking a sexual bond and intimacy.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4231 days ago

17 September 2012 (F) - My husband and I met when I was just 20. At the time, he was essentially a rebound as I had just broken up with my first "true love". I picked him on the basis of rational thought; he was reliable, very intelligent, caring, trustworthy, and capable. ...

How do I get my boyfriend to take responsibility for what he did?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4230 days ago

17 September 2012 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend a couple of days ago because he got violent and went for me repeatadly. now hes claiming that i attacked him....i was sober as a judge and remember everything, he was drunk and admits it though says if i fight like a man ...

I want to leave but have no money, and my husband says if I ever leave he will take the kids as he has the money to give them a good life. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4231 days ago

17 September 2012 (F) - Me and my husband have been married for 4 years. We have 2 boys, 5 years and 1 year. The last year have been crazy, we fight ALL the time and his verbally abusive. I think it's time to get out but I have no money and no place to go. I've been a ...

She filed for divorce claiming I verbally abuse her, how do I save this marriage?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4231 days ago

17 September 2012 (M) - So, here goes nothing. I have never posted anything like this before but an looking for unbiased opinions. I am married to someone that I truly care deeply for and we have been in a relationship for over two years. She recently filed for divorce and ...

He left me to figure things out with his ex wife, slept with her then realised they are just friends. Now he wants me back....any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4231 days ago

17 September 2012 (F) - Well.... my boyfriend left me to figure things out with his wife that he was seperated from. I know she harrased me and wanted me away but did not want to be with him. They were seperated for two and a half years. When he left me three months ago ...

He broke it off, but wants to see me again, what is this guy's motive?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4231 days ago

17 September 2012 (F) - a guy i was seeing 2 months ago has got back in contact, he broke it off. reason being he did not have enough time for me. when we started seeing eachother 6 months ago i was not wanting anything serious, i am not ready for a relationship. then...