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Archived questions from: May, 2010 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

I need advice regarding an overbearing mother!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - It's a bit like daja vu! I was on here just over a year ago with exactly the question!! My boyfriend and I split up because his mother didnt like our relationship, but we worked through that issue and became close again but it was in 'secret'. ...

Is he keen or just luke warm...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - I have two children with a guy i was with for 8 years we broke up in january. 3 months later a friend of mine hooked me and his friend up we started dating and have been together for about 2 months. he doesnt lie to me or hide anything but he never ...

I feel like she owes me a proper explanation of how she feels at least!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5072 days ago

31 May 2010 (M) - My ex-girlfriend dumped me after we started University last November, saying she didn't want to be in a relationship at that time. We were together for around 5 months after a friendship progressed and I had helped her through a suicide attempt and ...

Why has my partner suddenly changed his tune and wants to break up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - i have been with my b/f for over 3and a half years and he told me yesterday he didn't want a long term relationship with me anymore. i have recently moved house and live with my son, who has mental health problems. a year ago i asked my b/f if h...

Girlfriend and I were over before I knew what actually happened! And still don't!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

31 May 2010 (M) - Now I accept that our relationship is over.. I'm hurt yes blah blah but I'm trying to move on as soon as I feel ready. More on that in a sec. But my backstory has me asking questions and would love to know if anyone has been through something ...

My partner found me on the street with another man, and now he has broken up with me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - Hi please can you help me here , I was with the father of my son for 6 years now there was ups and down but we solved them and get back together again, but now He found me on the street with a guy around 9 at night ,he just came and i went to him he ...

I'm so confused, have I made the wrong choice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - So i kind of need some advice, i dated my ex for 7 1/2 months and we broke up because he made out with my ex bestfriend and now im with a new guy and i love this new guy but when he is away i brake down in tears i feel like my heart was ripped out ...

How do you break up with a "nice guy"?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - I have fallen out of love with my boyfriend. he is a wonderful person, kind, considerate I just dont love him any more. My question is how do you break up with someone who has done nothing wrong? Iv only ever been in messy breakups where i have ...

How do I get over the pain of the relationship and be able to date again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5073 days ago

31 May 2010 (M) - About three months ago my girlfriend of about 5-6 months broke up with me saying I don't want to be in a relationship at the time. The following day She went out with my friend and she insulted me when I told her it upset me and so did my friend. ...

I broke up with him, and want him to fight to get me back

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - i thought my boyfriend was cheating on me he denies it. and i still broke up with him. me and my boyfriend has a on again off again relationship . we just cant seem to stay away from each other .. my boyfriend isnt an emotional person but i want him...

He says he never loved me and just wanted to have sex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - Help! I broke up with my boyfriend about a week ago and I feel like im missing something. Its really strange because it always happens whenever i break-up with a boyfriend. also he keeps on texting me sayin that he never loved me and he just wa...

I need to end this relationship with a married woman!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5066 days ago

30 May 2010 (M) - I have being having a relationship with a married woman for 1.5 years who is a work collegue. Everytime I try to end it I always end up going back.She kind of panics and makes me feel guilty to a extent that I will hurt her. She doesnt want me to ...

Hanging by a thread!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

30 May 2010 (M) - well me and my girlfriend had a steady long distance relationship for the past 3 years. she was always caring and loved me a lot. we had loadz of good times all along.i would go and meet her up during holidays n stuffs she was a very studious an...

Three days ago everything was good -- what's going on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5071 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - hello, I need help please: tree days ago, everything was good between me and my boyfriend, he was caring and very romantic even if I didn't have much time to be with him because of my exams but the last time I called him he was not as he used to be, ...

She was too immature to be in a relationship after 9 months but had the biggest crush on me for 2 years!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5065 days ago

30 May 2010 (M) - Hey there everyone, I have been going out with a girl for 9 months and we just recently broke up. She was saying that she is too immature to be in a relationship. She just wasnt ready for any commitment. I wasnt asking much of her. She wanted to ...

Her mother wants us to break up

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5072 days ago

30 May 2010 (M) - i'm in very hard situation with my GF cause we are obliged to brake up and we both don't want to see the problem it with her mom cause she is too afraid for her daughter she don't want her to go out with me because she heared that i broke up with ...

I really love him and want him back, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - ok im a 15 year old girl. i really miss my ex boyfriend ( we have been separated nearly a year) and i cant get over him. we had been going out about 4 months when my depression got a lot worse and i ran away a few times. i had previously been ...

I think he's been cheating, but he denies it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4320 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - i broke you with my boyfriend whom ive been with for 6 nonths because i felt like he was cheating on me. we had an on again off again realtionship.. he just wasnt doing rite by me i felt therefore i ended things with him while he in training inthe ...

I'm afraid he's gone forever..will he come back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4478 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - I met this guy 2 months ago, through mutual friends, completely unexpected..and we really hit it off. Totally clicked, and yes things went fast. Neither of us to blame, we just really felt a major connection and decided to just go with it. No ...

How do I forget this guy when I don't even know why he stopped talking to me..?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - Hello dear cupid well right now im feeling really sad and depressed because of a boy, so this boy and i met on myspace we hit it off well and i gave him my number we texted for like a month and then he came to visit me oh yeah he lived in LA while ...

Will he come back to me and our baby?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - I was with a guy for one year we were engaged and I am curently pregnant with his baby. He left me for a girl 14 years younger than him we were having a few problems but nothing that couldn't be fixed. I love this man with all of my heart and want ...

Do I pick the guy who I have the history with, or the guy who makes my heart skip a beat?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - i am torn between two guys. the first guy i have known him for 8 years, we have been friends with benefits on and off for about 6 years, i always felt like he was the love of my life. didn't matter who i was with i always ended back with him. but in ...

Having doubts after break up

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5002 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - I ended things with my long distance boyfriend of 1 year, a month ago. The distance was hard, we were fighting a lot the last 2 months, and I figured it was best to end it. We haven't spoken since, as I decided no contact is best for me to heal, ...

How can I make him stop loving me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - My ex and I broke up about a month ago. He's suffering so much because he loves me a lot and it seems he has a difficult time accepting it's over. I love him too, but I don't want a relationship with him anymore (we had many issues because he was ...

Should I accept the relationship is over?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - two weeks ago i asked my husband to leave after yet another argument after he had too much to drink. he left and has now rented somewhere. we met up i thought to sort things out, he told me after much thought he wasn't coming back, because he ...

I can't get over him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - How can I get over a guy? My case of break up might be one of the harshest. Before our 9th month 9 a few days ) he just said he didn't love me anymore and he broke up with me. I was left to cry there alone and sometimes now I still cry even t...

Split up over him talking to another girl and lying about it, I am so hurt!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5074 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - So my boyfriend and i went to dinner yesterday, we had a good time and talked and stuff(we recently got back together). while we were separated he started talking to this girl, which i had no problem with because we were not together, when he came ...

How do I get him back when he does not want to communicate with me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5075 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - Broke up with my boyfriend 3 months ago,but I still love him. I was honest with him about everything going on in my life, especially finances. He gave me advice which I was not able to follow at that moment and time. He was upset that I did not ...

I'm beginning to consider walking away from the one man I've ever loved. Is this a good idea?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - I have a question about guys who get into their comfort zones. So I've been with the same guy for the past nine years. A typical Ross/Rachel type relationship - soulmates.. not always OFFICIALLY together.. but never really been apart.. you know...

I feel like it's ending and I've fallen so hard for her.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

29 May 2010 (M) - I knew my current girlfriend in the beginning of this year, in February. She lives in the the countryside, in a city that i used to live and it's where my mum lives as well. So I go there almost every weekend or fortnightly.. after almost three ...

How do I tell my boyfriend I just want to be friends...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5075 days ago

28 May 2010 (F) - Basically i was with a guy for 2 and a half years up till the beginning of april, he then broke it off with me on the terms that he didnt love me anymore because i had changed and not told my parents we were engaged. i decided to get talking ...

Punishing myself for the sake of my daughter

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5071 days ago

28 May 2010 (F) - should i give it a try? i am a divorcee mother w one kid. marriage failure was due to family violence and unreasonable behaviour. as i was e one who initiated the divorce, i feel sorry for my kid extremely. i jus wanna shower her w lots of l...

He rejected me because I wasn't a virgin, but I don't want to live without him

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

28 May 2010 (F) - I was in a relationship for 2 years,but after that we broke up,and i had sex with him,he didn't cheat me but we are not perfect for each other,so we decided to broke up,then after that now i am in a relationship with another boy from last 4-5 ...

He doesn't trust me, now I've broken up with him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

28 May 2010 (F) - I just broke up with my bf. Cause my feelings for him were sort of gone. But now i feel bad for him. Should i get back to him? But 1 things that he doesnt trust me sometimes and which made me sure to break up with him. But now what should i do ?...

Aprehensive about moving with my boyfriend..and now starting to consider getting back with first love who is still keen..

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

28 May 2010 (F) - Hi,I have been in a long distance relationship for the past two years plus but recently my ex-boyfriend has gotten back in contact with me and told me he has feelings for me and he knows I have a bf but he asked me think about getting back with him. ...

Please help me: After discovering his porn obsession my confidence and life has plummeted, I'm depressed, not aroused and coucilling is doing nothing

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 5068 days ago

28 May 2010 (F) - Where to start, well my boyfriend of three years looks at a lot of pictures of nude women on the internet. I discovered this almost a year ago, and before I knew about it, I was very confident about the way my body looked, not in an egotisti...

I feel I need to be single but am scared to break with this wonderful man..

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

28 May 2010 (F) - I need so much advice. I'm only 20 years old and I'm in this relationship with a wonderful man. He is caring and sweet and I love him very very much. But, I'm unhappy because i feel like I'm growing up too fast. The last couple of years of hig...

How do I get over someone who I've had feelings for, for the past 9 years??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

28 May 2010 (F) - I was 8 years old when I first met this guy, i am now 17. Our mothers work together and are best friends. We used to go over their house all the time. And me and him used to take their dogs for a walk. One time, when we did, he asked me to be his ...

College break up still upsets me even though we are married now.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

28 May 2010 (M) - I am trying to discover why I am having such strong emotions about a breakup my wife and I had back in college. Today we are very happily married. We met in college and are now in our early 30s. When we met she was a freshman and I was a sophomore. ...

I asked him to forgive me, but now, he won't contact me! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5076 days ago

28 May 2010 (F) - I met my boyfriend from his cousin, my sister was married to her husband's brother. He hired me to clean his house almost 3 years ago. He wanted to ask me out last summer, but he didn't know how i would feel about it. I live with my sister and last ...

Using Male Psychology to Win Him Back!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

28 May 2010 (F) - How to win back your ex boyfriend can seem like a daunting task, but with some simple tips, you can have him crawling back to you in no time. Unlike most information about how to win back your ex I've seen on the web, this guide focuses solely o...

Every time I see her I just love her more

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5064 days ago

27 May 2010 (M) - Right.. My Ex-Girlfriend broke up with me 5 months ago. I have been in love with her for 5 years. We were going out for 6 months and it wsa really good and working well until she broke up with me because she thought we were having problems.. Duri...

My husband left for another woman but I still love him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

27 May 2010 (F) - Hi i am a 39yr old women married to a 39yr old man, we have been together 24 years and married 17 together we have 3 children. 5 weeks ago he woke me up to let me know he had met someone else, he met her 2 weeks before they started texting each ...

I love him so much but I need to leave.....but how?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

27 May 2010 (F) - hi i have been in a relationship for almost 4 years and we have been through a lot together we were living together for the most of the time we have been together and i had moved out after constant arguing as it was swinging me in and out of ...

How can I heal my broken heart?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

27 May 2010 (F) - This is a long story so I apologize in advance… My heart is broken and I cannot stop crying. My boyfriend of four years, broke up with me out of the blue on Sunday. Things were going good between us and then all of sudden he was upset with me and w...

He's trying to break us up.. Is her reaction reasonable?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

27 May 2010 (M) - A guy in my girlfriends last period class is trying to break us up so that he can date her... He gave her a kiss on the cheek and was trying to get her to kiss back, but she wouldn't. He was telling her that I don't treat her right and that he would ...

She says she has issues

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

27 May 2010 (M) - I was dating this girl for four months and we were having the best sex ever. Hears the problem she has been married twice both of them the guys have cheated on her and she has four children between the two marriages and her last husband molested one ...

Is it a good idea to ask her why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

27 May 2010 (M) - Me and my ex have been broken up for 2 1/2 months now going on 3. The reason's behind the break up are to this day not entirely clear, it was a quick break up, meaning she never really allowed me to have a say or express my side of the story. For ...

I'm too controlling in this relationship, please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

26 May 2010 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years, since I was 16 and now am 20 going on 21 and we live together now. I have always been "the boss", perhaps I can say... In my relationship! meaning that, its mostly all about me. I am a very bitchy mean ...

Still in love with my ex...what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5077 days ago

26 May 2010 (F) - Last year I met a guy I had a relationship with for 3 months. He was perfect for me, except for the fact that he didn't want marriage. We decided to see other people, but were still "together". I ended up leaving him for another guy who did want ...