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Archived questions from: June, 2014 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

My ex boyfriend wants me to drive him to his work.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3586 days ago

30 June 2014 (F) - so me and my ex have broken up but its only been about 1 month or so... he says in a another relationship already like he has a new girlfriend... now he has been contacting me saying that he loves me even when we talk on the phone its love you... ...

My ex had facial surgery and I'm scared of my reaction when I see her

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3586 days ago

30 June 2014 (M) - My ex and I have been broken up for months now. I still do have feelings for her and we have remained close friends over the time. We communicate often and go out. We're not back together because we were just incompatible and realized a ...

How can I overcome my jealousy and my fears that he might cheat and my insecurities?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3569 days ago

30 June 2014 (F) - Please help guys. I need to stop being so insecure all the time with my boyfriend, I'm so scared im going push him away. I just get so scared he's going to cheat on me or whatever do something. He hasn't really given me a reason to doubt him he t...

I think I'm falling out of love. What can be done to improve the situation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3550 days ago

30 June 2014 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been dating for almost a year now but it doesn't feel like we're dating anymore. we dont go out much, we never really did, but we would always go to each others houses and hang out have sex and chill. i keep urging him to do ...

Was I right to throw the creep out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3571 days ago

30 June 2014 (F) - When your kids hate the guy you are dating....watch out. No telling what they will do. I had been seeing a fellow for about 6 months or so, and my two girls could not stand him. He was trying to play the concerned parent part. He never lived in...

I'm 57 and husband left me for another woman, how do I start over at this age?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3584 days ago

28 June 2014 (F) - My husband left me and said the reason was he didn't love me anymore,but in my heart I knew he had found someone else even though he said different.Our 11 year old told me she thought it was a woman from a softball team and that he alway's sits with ...

How do I deal with breaking up with someone this mentally unwell?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3589 days ago

28 June 2014 (F) - I need some reassurance and general advice. I've been with my fiancée for nearly four years and then last weekend we broke up. It was the next step in what has been a month of hell. Through out our relationship, she has battled with depression. ...

My story: Oh dear, I just realised what a narcissistic and manipulative person my ex-boyfriend was...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3586 days ago

28 June 2014 (F) - Holy crap - it just dawned on me how much of a 'what label should I give it? - manipulative, narcissistic, controlling' - boyfriend he was to me at the time! Now I was no angel but looking back over the course of our relationship - it starts at t...

What are your opinions on this close friendship my BF has with this long term friend who's a girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3589 days ago

28 June 2014 (F) - Dear cupid, Ok so am new to this however I will appreciate the advice you guys give me. I am currently with a guy i am in love with. We celebrated our 3yrs anniversary of knowing each other earlier in June. He and I are very happy together now b...

If we break up will he give up on our daughter too? I am tired of his abuse and his behaviour

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3589 days ago

28 June 2014 (F) - I know he treats me bad but sometimes some people re abusive because they love you too much, this is my baby daddy and he is emotionally abusing me. He left me pregnant and came back when baby was 3 months blaming me for making him leave. We ...

Am I in a hopeless position re my Bf and confused? I very lonely here, my family lives overseas

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3589 days ago

28 June 2014 (F) - Being with this Muslim guy for about 4 months. Is the second time he break up with me saying that he's a bad guy and I am too "drama" for him.. But he changes his mind 10 min after and is like everything is fine.. Then he says he wants to be only...

He's lost his job and now I feel like we're over. He's cold and distant. Is this relationship over?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3588 days ago

27 June 2014 (F) - He's lost his job and now I feel like we're over? My bf was the sweetest, caring and very attentive when he had a job. But he's lost his job 6 months now and he's just so distant and cold. He hardly calls or texts me. We argue every time w...

I bent over backwards to make it work, but he still dumped me!

This question has 52 answers - newest was posted 3551 days ago

27 June 2014 (F) - My bf, of 4 years, and I just broke up like 20 mins ago. I saw it coming for months now. Since January nothing had been the same. He was distant, disrespectful and basically seemed to live to make me miserable. I tried to work things out for the ...

Does anyone have any ideas on how to fix this broken feeling that my wife has? Is there anything beyond talk therapy that might work?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3590 days ago

26 June 2014 (M) - My wife and I have been married for six years. We have one child (a toddler) together. About a year ago, my wife stated that she was questioning whether or not she wanted to continue our marriage. I was in absolute shock. She stated she had been ...

There always seemed to be a push-pull dynamic, and now she's broken up with me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3590 days ago

26 June 2014 (M) - I was in a relationship for about two years. It was always very difficult to describe. We were very much in love. When we were together, two people couldn't have been better friends or better partners. We literally completed each other and made each ...

My boyfriend broke up with me out of the blue!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3591 days ago

26 June 2014 (F) - I have been going out with my boyfriend for a little less than two years. We met at work and were friend for a year before getting together. I moved to another town for grad school 7 months ago, but we still see each other at least once a month and ...

I fell pregnant, he left me and now I'm having to deal with a miscarriage on my own

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3590 days ago

26 June 2014 (F) - Hi, I had been in an unstable relationship with my ex for 2 1/2 years. He cheated and lied to me god knows how many times and for whatever reasons when he promised to be a better man i always took him back. The final straw was when he turned u...

I called off the wedding. But how do I get past the guilt if I leave him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3590 days ago

26 June 2014 (F) - I was until recently, engaged to be married. I called off the wedding because my fiancé yells a lot, is very stressed (life choices, poor planning, disorganization, plus regular stresses of job, kids, etc.), blames me and others for everything, ...

Just broke up with gf of 2,5 years for lying.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3591 days ago

25 June 2014 (M) - Hey everybody, So my gf and I went on a vacation last week. On the third day of our (up untill this point lovely) vacation I noticed her recieving a text message and her acting shady. In all these years I have NEVER allowed myself to be jealous. S...

Broke up with my boyfriend but I still love him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3582 days ago

25 June 2014 (F) - So my (now ex-boyfriend) was dating for almost 3 years. We just recently broke up do to a huge argument. He kept bringing up my past mistakes I've done in my relationship (no I didn't cheat on him) and his jealousy was out of control. I was the one ...

How do I tell him that enough is enough?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3592 days ago

25 June 2014 (F) - Hi and thanks, I am confused about my relationship status because my bf breaks up ALOT and on Monday he said technically we're friends. I questioned him but as usual he was being cold to me. We were off and on for over 2 yrs, in this time I f...

I'm worried that my on/off boyfriend is leading a double life

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3592 days ago

25 June 2014 (F) - It's been about 10 months of a on again-off again relationship on his part. He comes up with reasons to break it off. I have yet to be invited to his home. He swears that he's just a private person that does not let every girl he meets into his life ...

My boyfriend keeps playing games, breaking up with me, taking me back and being controlling. Please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3592 days ago

25 June 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid My bf of 2 years plays break up game with me often these days. It goes like this: i'll make him angry by not keeping our place clean as I came late from work or ask him what's wrong when he is sulking or demand I need attention from h...

Can we be more than friends? I think I'm stuck in the friend zone!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3593 days ago

24 June 2014 (F) - I have a male friend who I am very fond of, well being truthful I am madly in love with him - but we are just friends. He was dating and has recently broken up, I have been a shoulder for him to cry on and tried to be there for him. The problem ...

Dating for 9 months. Now she's decided that she's not ready for a relationship? What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3592 days ago

24 June 2014 (M) - She told she is not ready for relationship, I've been dating her for nine months. Now and all of the sudden this happens. What do i do ? Do i wait ? We headed off since we first met everything was good we had great conversations we wen...

Is it okay to cry after I dumped him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3593 days ago

23 June 2014 (F) - So me and my boyfriend (now ex) have been together for almost 3 years. I just recently broke up with him because we both got into an argument and neither of us could stop mentioning our mistakes in the past so I broke it off (after thinking about it ...

Feeling conflicted about being in a relationship yet I don't want to break up. How do I resolve this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3592 days ago

23 June 2014 (F) - Hello agony aunts! I've never really opened up about this particular thing to anyone in fear of people judging me. Basically, I want to stay in a relationship but at the same time I really don't. I've been with my partner since I was 15 a...

My husband wants me to act like a porn star and said I've ruined his life

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3594 days ago

22 June 2014 (F) - My husband told me I was a fat disgusting pig! And he watches porn because I'm boring in bed and I have no ambition. These are things he has never said before to me ,we got into a fight and told me he needed to get things off his chest. I have ...

I am my ex boyfriend's booty call .....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3595 days ago

22 June 2014 (F) - My boyfriend split up with me in February, because "he didn't love me anymore and the spark wasn't there".. He has been sleeping with ALOT of girls, and drinking ALOT! I have been sleeping with him still, but now I'm starting to get jealous and have ...

His family and friends influenced him and now we have broken up!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3595 days ago

22 June 2014 (F) - Hi. Need help! My bf brokeup after 4 years together because of fights, he said he can't handle it. The real reason was he let him family know about our issues and they asked him not to see me again (It was so stupid of him and I believe his personal ...

Should I block him on facebook, and should I end the relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3597 days ago

20 June 2014 (F) - I'm worried. My boyfriend is acting weird. He has Bipolar Disorder. He wrote to someone that sent him a letter recently. he put his address and phone number on the letter and he mentioned me. I'm worried because he has told me things about that man. ...

Why is he looking for sex so soon?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3596 days ago

20 June 2014 (F) - Boyfriend needs a break to figure things out between us. Together nearly two years and plans to buy a house next year. Great sex, got along real well. Just one argument come up over the time we were together. Anyway had one massive row about this ...

I thought I deserved more than goodbye and N/C

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3597 days ago

20 June 2014 (M) - My ex and I just broke up this past Sunday. We were together for a year and a half. Very serious. The whole thing completely blind sided me. We had just gotten back from an amazing vacation the week before where we both really reconnected - bo...

I broke up with him because of my insecurities

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3574 days ago

20 June 2014 (F) - My boyfriend got a facebook a few months ago, and usually I don't think anything of facebook. He's hardly on it, to be honest. But recently, he added his ex-girlfriend. It made my heart drop when I saw it. It actually made me very uncomfortable be...

He's a recovering alcoholic, not yet divorced from his wife and 3 months post-breakup with his girlfriend. Is it reasonable to keep dating him and see how it goes?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3597 days ago

19 June 2014 (F) - He's a recovering alcoholic (2 years and 3 months, attends AA) He is separated for 2.5 years, not yet divorced, while he is paying his wife for the business they had together He broke up with his girlfriend 3 months ago. I have been seei...

Will he regret breaking up with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3597 days ago

19 June 2014 (F) - I've been with a guy for over 5 years now - 3 years being a long term relationship and living together for 2 years. About a week ago, he went out with work colleagues and out of the blue he said he didn't want to be with me. He told me that he ...

I know she was justified in breaking up with me but I want her back!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3597 days ago

19 June 2014 (M) - My girlfriend and i were together for around 3 years and 9 months,before we broke up last thursday. The reason for the break up wasnt one,but yes i could pin point what the biggest obstacle was. I could never stand up for her,i promised her that i ...

I've been faking it for a year and don't know how to tell him, so I'm thinking about breaking up with him so I don't have to explain!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3598 days ago

19 June 2014 (F) - Hi. I need help! Background info: 25 years old, up until very recently I thought that I was incapable of orgasm, I thought maybe something was wrong with me because I've never orgasmed during sex, figured out that I'm pretty normal and can only ...

Is she over me? Does she have someone else? Do I opt out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3599 days ago

18 June 2014 (M) - I have been with my girl for five years now. We lived together for four, under the same roof. She lied to me on a few occasions and I caught her a few times, always forgave her...now I had to travel out of the country...I am working on getting her ...

We've broken up but she still calls and messages. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3598 days ago

18 June 2014 (M) - I don't know what is it but I promised my gf that I will be back after making my career. At the time we broke up before some days, but we broke up clearly and promised each other we won't contact each other through emails, sms or calls, but she agre...

I feel like I need to move on, but I'm not sure how! Help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3599 days ago

18 June 2014 (F) - I've got a question and I don't want to be judged I just want some light shed on the situation Basically I was with my ex partner for 5 years we had a son together had a relatively happy relationship. He did after our first year together cheat o...

My ex is on a dating website already. Does that mean he never cared?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3599 days ago

17 June 2014 (F) - I just broke up with my ex after nearly two years and he's on a dating site now, does it mean he never cared? It was a 'break' and shortly after a 'break up'. Too many arguments and such however for the most part we were really happy, enjoyed e...

She's in love with me but she's interfering with my studies, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3600 days ago

17 June 2014 (M) - my question is not any complicated I just want to know was I right or wrong...so let me first tell you about my life....I am a student and I am not ready for any kind of relationship and there is a girl whim I met in social networking website who is ...

How do you know when men just want a break and when they want to end things

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3599 days ago

16 June 2014 (F) - How can you tell if a guy wants to "take a break" in a relationship because he's not sure you can make each other happy? Or if he's just trying to let you down easily and not feel so guilty? Me and the boyfriend of two years have been arguing a l...

Are things repairable?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3602 days ago

15 June 2014 (F) - My fiancé and I have been through a lot. We got together and it was great. We were both single and worked together and formed a relationship quickly. We had sex every day... Sometimes twice a day. I used to call him from work and tell him I was ...

She hasn't called me for three weeks, does she hate me now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3603 days ago

14 June 2014 (?) - iam having a sad love life.it all started when my age was 18 and my girlfriend age was 14.not we have crossed two and half years of our love life.at first everything was going fine,but when i finished my school life,i had selected a college,faraway ...

I really want to leave but I have no money and feel trapped in this marriage

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3601 days ago

14 June 2014 (F) - I have been with my partner for five years. We have a 3 year old son together, my partner works full time, i work part time (i don't earn very much) but my partner is the one who brings in all the money and pays most bills (i do help out too). I am ...

Should I try consoling her or should I let her get through her grieving alone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3603 days ago

14 June 2014 (M) - My friend (ex crush) have been down in the dumps lately. It wasn't until recently that I found out she broke up with her boyfriend. I confessed to her my feelings a few months back but she said that she only saw us as friends. It was difficult at ...

Is it bad that I don't get invited to parties or go out every week other than work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3604 days ago

13 June 2014 (M) - I'm a 17 year old junior about to be a senior after the summer and me and my longtime girlfriend broke up I miss her of course but shes moved on and found somebody new but ever since I just feel lonely. I mean I have friends and all and sometimes we ...

My last relationship was an open relationship but my reputation in my small town is ruining my chances in my current relationship with an amazing girl

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3604 days ago

13 June 2014 (M) - My last relationship was an open relationship, we had one night a week that was open to other, we tried swinging, and had more then one threesome, it started out fun and exciting but quickly turned bad. Living in a small town people know your bus...