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Archived questions from: April, 2013 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

The Crying Game: what to do other than leave this relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

30 April 2013 (M) - Im 40 years old and tired of a four year relationship with a 33 yaer old woman who cry's all the time. Ive asked and tried to comfort but she does it and has done it so much it infuriates me to hear her whiney voice and its always over attention she ...

He told me to keep the ring but I think he should have it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

30 April 2013 (F) - I was engaged to be married to this wonderful man,we were dating for 4 years and then he asked me to be his wife,we were engaged for 8 months and were to be married soon!BUt things took a complete downfall at his work,and he started taking those ...

Should I feel guilty? My ex-husband and I live together and take care of our kids, we haven't had sex in over 2 years, and I have started seeing someone!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

30 April 2013 (F) - my ex-husband and I live together and take care of our kids we have had no sexual relations in over 2 years he hasn't even tried. he doesn't kiss me or tell me he loves me. He doesn't even touch me in anyway. I have talked to him about it. he said ...

I broke up with my boyfriend but now I'm not sure if I did the right thing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4013 days ago

30 April 2013 (F) - I dated my boyfriend for 8months and we started drifting apart. I attributed it to the fact that he was working at that time (it was vacation. We're both college students) so maybe that's why we couldn't hear from eachother much. That was actually ...

Does it mean my LDR is over?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4010 days ago

30 April 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship. We talk about our future plans sometimes and decided to live together in Aug. He studies abroad and has a part-time job. He has to work almost every day so he can afford the rent and other ...

How do I get my girlfriend out of my house? I'm sick of her lies and her cheating...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

30 April 2013 (M) - I have been dating a girl for almost two years. She has constantly lied and told me she was not talking to guys. She talks to guys that don't help her I help her financially and emotionally, and I have taken care of her when she is sick or car ...

I've lost my boyfriend and a lot of my friends and now my lifestyle has changed dramatically, where do I go from here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

30 April 2013 (F) - My 3 year relationship ended recently. Not only have I lost my boyfriend but I've also lost a majority of my friends because a lot of my friends were my boyfriends friends. They're all still friends obviously and are always doing things together ...

She moved on, why did he succeed where I failed?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

29 April 2013 (M) - I broke up with my ex of 2 years because the relationship was very toxic. She treated me very badly and I didn't respond in kind. She had a very tough past and kept remnants of it. After 2 prior breakups, I realized that this one was for good and ...

I feel ignored by my boyfriend.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

29 April 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for several months. We live about 30 miles from each other and used to see each other 2-3 times a week and we would communicate daily through text. Right now I have not seen him in two weeks and only hear from ...

I kept waiting for him to leave his g/f but he never really did so I ended things. Did I do the right thing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4014 days ago

29 April 2013 (F) - I'm confused that I already made a mistake as he asked me to wait for him to breakup with girlfriend of 6 years he told me they are in verge of breaking up but I didnt do it. I just stoped waiting and said goodbye a month ago. I've waited for him to ...

How do I handle this unwanted breakup? And yet he still says he wants to be my 'friend.' Help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3950 days ago

29 April 2013 (F) - Hi i have had terrible times with my guy friend. we have been really good friends ever since 2011. We have been very close and had intimate sex. But every-time he tells me he doesnt feel for me more than a friend. So finally in the month of Nov...

Why does someone leave a good marriage, or relationship for someone yonger?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

29 April 2013 (F) - i need help understanding something. why does someone leave a good marriage, or relationship for someone yonger? and i dont mean just a few year either. im talking 20 years or more. and why would anyone want someone that much older? i have read all ...

Should I submit and be treated like dirt because I'm pregnant or should I simply abort?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

29 April 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am 26 years old 2 weeks after meeting a guy I discovered how rude, controlling, short tempered and impolite he is and so I ended it. Now I jus discovered I'm pregnant I text him messages telling him of my suspicions and he has flatl...

Ways in which I can get my emotions out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

29 April 2013 (F) - This question should be realitively short, but basically i'm trying to find ways to get my emotions out? And it sound strange, but I need help. I have one or two mental health disorders, and I have always beleived the reas...

My boyfriend/boss might be let go at work and now, he wants to officially meet my family, go out more etc., but I have some big concerns!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4013 days ago

29 April 2013 (F) - My boyfriend/boss might be let go at work and now, he wants to officially meet my family, go out more etc. No one knew about us but some did suspect a little not because we did anything but because one time, during a small meeting where it was a bit ...

We were happy until I had a miscarriage. After that we argued constantly and broke up.I miss him. So what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4014 days ago

29 April 2013 (F) - Hi everyone my ex and I broke up middle of march after a 4 month relationship we had known each other to speak to for 5 years then we got together the relationship was intense we both fell in love moved in together i fell pregnant which w...

Is he too busy with work, school and raising a child? Because right now I feel ignored by my boyfriend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4012 days ago

I'm ruining my girlfriend's life with my drinking but she won't leave me. Should I break things off?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

29 April 2013 (M) - Hey, I met a girl 3 years ago at a bar in which she happened to be a singer,her voice spoke to me,it was beautiful I used my contacts and got her work at a higher end place..we eventually started talking and then dating..her career graph is reaching...

I need help in ending a 2 year relationship. She has done nothing wrong and I don't know how to do this!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4014 days ago

28 April 2013 (M) - Need help ending a relationship. Even thought marriage counselor looked at me and said "do not start a new relationship" when my divorce started I did. The person was wonderful and supportive and sweet and I can say nothing but nice about h...

Boyfriend broke up with me and is now dating a girl who looks like me and has my name?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4015 days ago

28 April 2013 (F) - I have been with this guy for 3 years. Lived together (with parents) for 1 1/2 years. I go to texas for a week with family and during this time he tells me that he cant do it anymore and tells me he is moving out. He still loves me but his heart is ...

'that was nice, good to see you looking good' How do I interpret these remarks by my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

28 April 2013 (F) - I will bullet point this to get the main information you need across; We dated for a year Split up last nov 12 - agreed to remain friends. Stayed in contact but only saw each other for the first time since the split last weekend. It was really...

My head says the break up is the right thing, my heart is telling me no

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

28 April 2013 (F) - Basically, me and my boyfriend have just split up from a 2 year relationship, one of which has been long- distance as I am at university. I am 19 and he is 20. We're both absolutely devastated as we both still love each other and were also best f...

I haven't told my parents about him. If I break up with him he'll tell them and I'll be homeless.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

28 April 2013 (F) - So I have been with my boyfriend for 2years and want to break up. If he breaks up with me that's all fine and dandy his family knows everything about us. But if I break up with him... I dont know what he would do my parents don't like him and they ...

I want to break up with my secret b/f but I'm scared he'll tell my parents and ask for his christmas gift back!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

28 April 2013 (F) - So I have a boyfriend of almost 2 years... He is smart funny sweet gentle loves me a lot... My parents don't like him and made us break up but we got back together and they don't know. On top of that Christmas he gave me a really nice gift that I ...

Breaking up with a married man.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

28 April 2013 (F) - Hey everybody. Thanks for choosing to take the time to read this. So, I was involved with a married man. Over time, it started taking its toll on me. (He initiated the flirting, I stayed away because I knew he was married, he started initiati...

I want him to end the friendship yet he won't. What can I do about this situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

28 April 2013 (F) - I have a male friend who is currently going through a divorce. We were friends for several years, however, he tends to be a bit self absorbed and while I have listened to his problems for the past several years, he has not been exactly atte...

She does not want us to break up. Yet I feel doubtful all the time. What can I do? Because I want to get to know someone else.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

28 April 2013 (M) - I have been dating my first and only girlfriend for almost 4 years now. i am 21, shes a couple years older. for most of the time we've been together, about 1 and half years after we started dating, we've been in a long distance relationship, seeing ...

He didn't want a relationship, so why has he contacted me after 2 months of no contact?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3991 days ago

27 April 2013 (F) - I had a relationship with a man for 5 years. in the beginning we had sex, but after 6 months it became just friends as he didn't want a relationship with me. For the next 4.5 years I struggled with being just his friend as I loved him deeply. ...

How do I deal with his anger?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

27 April 2013 (F) - I have a boyfriend... we have been dating for lets say 4 years. In the last 3 years everything was perfect but lately as we have gone to college....i am facing a lot of problems because of him. he keeps yelling at me when he is angry with some one ...

Did she cop out of the relationship and choose her career?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

27 April 2013 (M) - Did she Cop out ? We were together for 1 year and like any couples we have our ups and downs.Im not perfect and never claim to be but then again who is? The last 4 months have been a right test for both of us because we were going to move in toget...

My ex. When I see her now I get a burning feeling in my stomach and tears are always close. What to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

27 April 2013 (M) - I need help dealing with this. I've recently broken up with my first serious relationship. Anyways i feel like I'm bipolar. I am sad then depressed then I'm ok for a short while, then back again. I miss her a LOT. I don't know how to handle...

Could she still have feelings for me? Or has she moved on? Or is that she does not hold grudges?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4016 days ago

27 April 2013 (M) - I saw my ex on Thursday night and it was strange because things ended very badly with us, I was an idiot and was reckless the way I did it. I know I acted very insensitively after too so I didn't help the situation. So of course I expected her to w...

Is she being practical or shallow? Dumping me for a rich old man? Can our relationship be saved?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

27 April 2013 (M) - Yeah, I'm a 25 years old guy working as an architect, ambitious and I love what I do. Always recommended by higher managers, you can say that I make good money compared to a new starter, and receiving better job opportunities from other companie...

He can't seem to feel love for me. He does care about me. Should I break up with him? Or are there other options to consider?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

27 April 2013 (F) - My bf and I have been together for 2 1/2 years we live together and get along great. All the arguments stopped once we started living together and everything flows great. The one problem we still have, is that he can't seem to feel love for me. ...

Yes she is married. At the last minute she ripped up the divorce papers.How can I be friends with her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

27 April 2013 (M) - I’m in a sticky situation. I’m in love with a married woman and she’s my first love. It’s really hard. See they were getting divorced but still sleeping in the same house(different rooms and beds}. She had the papers and everything suit ...

He's moved on and he's happy. What do I do? How do I stop missing him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4017 days ago

27 April 2013 (F) - About a month and a half ago my boyfriend broke up with me. Over Facebook. We were "that" couple and everyone loved us. We got along on every level and always had such an amazing time together. The last couple weeks we had been fighting because ...

Where is my marriage ending? Unhappily ever after?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4017 days ago

26 April 2013 (F) - I'm unhappily married to a man more than twice my age approaching his 70s. While we dated, I knew he was not the right person for me. I however admired his maturity and intelligence. I was at downnest point with no money, career and basically messed ...

So many questions I never had an opportunity to ask my ex. Why can't I move on? Why can't I stop thinking of her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4017 days ago

26 April 2013 (M) - Why, do I keep thinking of my ex? It's been almost a year, I don't think I am missing her. I never got my last words in, never got to tell her what what I needed to say, like why did you break up with me? I keep thinking what I want to say to h...

We both lost our feelings for each other overnight. How does this happen?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3989 days ago

26 April 2013 (M) - On January 20th, I met this girl at a club and got her number. The next day, I texted her and since we were both bored, we ended up going meeting at the mall later on. Instant connection... We had the best time. Afterwards, we continued textin...

How long could it take to get over my first love? Is there any hope to be friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4017 days ago

26 April 2013 (M) - how long does it take to get over my first love? i dated this girl since oct 2012. she was the one who went after me. i had the biggest crush on her to scared to say anything. she was just amazing beautiful kind funny and very tall 6 feet. we were ...

Does she love me or is she crazy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4017 days ago

25 April 2013 (M) - hey guys i need some advise. me and my ex broke up about a month ago a 6 month relationship. she went back to the guy before me. she said she was sorry but i dont care what she says. shes done this a couple times the guy is a jerk but im not here to ...

I don't know if I want this relationship any more...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3679 days ago

25 April 2013 (F) - My boyfriend of a year and a half,and i broke up. We broke up about 3 days ago. We went through each others phone and he saw my fb messages.where guys would hit on me and flirt and i would go along.i would always end up blocking them or cutting ties ...

We don't have any kids and I even hate to mention this, but should I run before it's too late?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4017 days ago

25 April 2013 (F) - My husband is a jerk and very careless with money! I don't even know where to start!!! Ok, I've taken a few deep breaths and I think I'm ready to explain. My husband is very naïve when it comes to all things money. For example, he wants to tak...

It's over, but he still wants me around?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

25 April 2013 (F) - My ex boyfriend of 5 years dumped me 4 months ago and won't let me go. He broke my heart. He told me he wasn't fully sure I was the one for him and he couldn't go on feeling these feelings of uncertainty any longer. He told me he loved me and...

I don't want to break up. What can I do? She wants to tell everyone we are dating and I am not there yet.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

25 April 2013 (F) - I am in a very complicated situation. I've been dating this girl for a couples of months now. I had never dated a women before and before I met her I always considered myself straight 100%. I don't like women, I just like her. I have actuall...

Do the good guy's ever win back the one they love, from the bad boy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

25 April 2013 (M) - Hi, girl's. My question is after women break's up with a good guy, she's been seeing for a little while, because her ex, the bad boy want's her back, the one who treated her bad, he cheated on her , hit her, just a bad guy all around. They alwa...

He's separted from his wife but still legally married . We've been dating but now he wants a break. What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

25 April 2013 (F) - Hi aunts and uncles, this may be long so I apologize in advance. I have found myself in a situation I can't really talk to anyone about, except all of you. For seven months now I have been in a relationship with a gentleman who is separat...

Which cheater is worse? I want your opinion of the women in these scenarios.

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

24 April 2013 (F) - i was just having a discussion with someone and i was wondering what you guys think of these 2 situations. my question is regarding the females of these situations. Scenario A: a couple (Tom and Lisa) has been together for 1.5 month. the girl,...

If I stay with him is it possible that he will just make me even more unhappy? Because he's not the Bf he used to be. He takes me for granted.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4019 days ago

24 April 2013 (F) - My bf and I have dated for almost 3 years. We've never dated before so being in a relationship with eachother is our first. I have made a few mistakes in the past such as lying. When I first met my bf I lied to him about a few things such as g...

We will be breaking up after the summer. Is it a good idea to keep dating now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4019 days ago

24 April 2013 (F) - Next year my boyfriend and I are going to uni, different unis but not that far apart. I told him that he meant a lot to me and I'd like to try to stay together at uni because I didn't want to lose him, but after a lot of time of him thinking about ...