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Archived questions from: November, 2011 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

Will the relationship ever work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4524 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - me and my boyfriend was together over a year he broke up with me monday cause the same girl that has been giving ur drama and touble since the day she found out we first met. he said he was tired of the drama and he was tried of me listening to the ...

Ex wants to try again but how can I after I seen what turns him on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4523 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - Hi everyone, could do with some strong advice before i cry. I split up with my boyfriend a few days ago as i caught him lying to me. He moved out and i stopped all contact. Then thismorning he sent me an email and when i went to reply i found an...

I've just broken up with my LDR......I'm in pieces and need to know how to cope and be strong

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4525 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - i need some advice please. Ive just ended it with my ldr boyfriend, after being messed around with yet again and now as i sit in here in tears, my heart is broken and i feel sick, I just need to know how to be strong over the next few weeks. We had ...

Who do I choose? The ex who abandoned me and our son or my current boyfriend who's a wonderful guy?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 4512 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - My ex and I were together for 6 years. We started dating when we were teens I gave birth to our son when I was 20. A few years after that, we broke up because he was not ready to take the responsibility. He was kinda immature that time. Then I...

How do I move on from here? I feel horrible!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4525 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - Lived with my boyfriend for 4 years. When we started dating, he was dating someone else and lied about it. Didn't come clean until she burst his bubble. I did something before him that I am ashamed of. I slept with a married man and denied it. ...

I love my GF but I think she is cheating. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4525 days ago

30 November 2011 (M) - Help needed with troubled relationship should I trust her, do I end it and is she cheating. To cut a long story short I have been with my girlfriend for around 2 years and love her very much we've been through alot together. At first it was gre...

He seemed to have completely moved on just one day after we broke up!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4523 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - I've broke up with my ex of 5months... before that we are loving couple;he loved me,respects me,he covered and put up with my flaws... problem we had was that we argue too often..mostly about loyalty,trust and cheating I love him but I always do...

My boyfriend is abusive. Help, what do I do? Because I'm falling hard for my boyfriend's brother.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4525 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - Ok. I am in a situation that I really badly need help with. I have been dating my current boyfriend for 2 years now off and on. The first year was terrible. I always caught him talking to his ex girlfriend. He was telling her he loved her and that...

How do people cope with multiple family pressures and still cope? Where does one go to for helpd?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4525 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - After rewriting this 5 times I've just decided to be blunt. I'm feeling really down. It's been gradually progressing for a while now, starting off when I lost my nan 4 years ago. I was really close to her and I was devastated but I've never been...

I only lied to avoid a fight. She's aggressive and doesn't trust me. Should I break if off with her?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4499 days ago

30 November 2011 (?) - I'm an insurance agent by trade and I sat down with one of my girlfriends friends. I sold her a policy. But recently my girlfriend called her up, and asked her if anything is going on between us. I think it's inappropriate, along with her constan...

Should I stay committed or move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - First off, I'll go ahead and tell you that im only 14. Laugh if you want, but I take this seriously. I was with my boyfriend for 14 months.. Then we broke up, about two weeks ago told me he cant go a day without thinking about me. he knows im still ...

Am I being cold-hearted?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4525 days ago

29 November 2011 (M) - I have been married for over ten years and have 2 kids. For the last two years I have been unhappy in the marriage. When I started thinking about divorce, I went to my wife and would tell her things that were bothering me and that i would like to ...

He would cancel dates and I got mad at him. Does he still care about me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - my boyfriend and i broke up three times and we got back together and for the last two times. We plan to see each other, then when the day comes he will call and make up something, that he cant come over. Then the last time he did this i got mad said...

I have major trust issues because of my ex. How can I ensure I do not ruin things with my new guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - Hi there..last year i was very very heart broken. i found out that the guy i had been dating for the past year had been engaged to someone else abroad. he lied to me many times...i genuinely thought he was my soul mate. He has recently split up fro...

For years this has being going on, do I fight for him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - Hello Agonies. I'm dealing with a rather tough situation here. My bf, whom i just broke up with, is such a pain in the butt. Okay, i tried sticking it out with him for a while now, throught the cheating, lies, disrespctful ways, etc. Recently, he ...

I said I'd wait, but should I not talk about feelings any more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

29 November 2011 (M) - My girlfriend and I broke up about 2 weeks ago. At the time, I was really confused about what had happened between us. Last week, I confronted her about the break up. She said that she was still in love with me... but problems had come up. To keep ...

My ex boyfriend is going to call me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4527 days ago

28 November 2011 (F) - I broke up with my guy a month ago, we both are 31. He said he's not 100% sure about me and said he needs time to think about our relationship. He wanted to talk with me later, but I said no, because he always said I'm the one who spend his li...

Girlfriend of 19 years left me for a married man and is now pregnant

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4520 days ago

28 November 2011 (M) - Hi me and my partner were together for 19 years , and had 2 kids , we both now have a child each . we split up 13 months ago and she is now pregnant .i was in hospital and when i came home she had left, it was 2 weeks before i found out that she ...

Was low self esteem a factor in the demise of these relationships?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

28 November 2011 (F) - Hello guys :) I would really appreciate some insight on an issue! In the past 3 years (basically since I started dating), I've been badly hurt by 2 men. I was involved with each of them for around a year, so they wasn't exactly short-term r...

I broke up with the woman of my dreams. Why did I do that? What can I do now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

28 November 2011 (M) - I'm 33. She is 30. Last year I met her and she was the best woman I have ever met. Gorgeous woman, had her own home in a great part of town, was referring to me moving in with her but for some reason I decided it wouldn't work. I ended up mee...

I want to break it off with him. But its like he has me on a leash. How do I find the strength?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4528 days ago

28 November 2011 (F) - Hi I'm 17 and I've been with this guy for about 6 months now. He's my brothers friend, well they're not really friends but they know each other. He was so nice and sweet in the beginning but now oh my god he is the worst. He treats me like s^^t and...

I'm in a panic over his impotence. What would the average person do? Stay or go if their man is impotent?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

27 November 2011 (F) - Would you stay with your husband, if he can't get an erection when you try to have sex, and he has no idea why? It started suddenly after a a huge argument, when he said, "I never loved you, I just stayed with you". Then 2 weeks after this, hi...

Why am I the bad guy for leaving? She lies and cshe heated on me 5 times.How do I get her to leave me alone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

27 November 2011 (M) - I have ended my 4 year relationship after catching her cheating for the 5th time. She still tries to contact me, bitterly and never mentions or changes the subject, when i try to tell her why we have broke up. She used to blame me for driving her ...

I can't simply tell her I lied, can I?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

27 November 2011 (M) - Hi everyone, really need some help here. My and my girlfriend just got into an argument about trusting each other (I told her I didn't trust her fully because I have trust issue, I told her I had been cheated on- which wasn't true) and I think we ...

I left him because he was depressed and unfaithful. Now he wants me back...what to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

27 November 2011 (F) - I recently brokeup with my boyfriend of 2.5 years. Actually this is our second breakup because last year I ended things when it felt like he really just didn't want to be with me anymore. But to my surprise he said he felt the exact opposite and ...

Do I stay a friend to him or do I let him go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4528 days ago

27 November 2011 (F) - I dont know if I should stay freinds with my ex stressing me out some he is a demanding type and that is why I asked him to move out we have not been broke up long someone mentioned compromise has to be in a realtionship and to me he aint about ...

Why do I feel so bad about leaving him??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

27 November 2011 (F) - hi it's my first time posting here! i just wanted to ask is why am i feeling so bad for leaving my boyfriend? we were going out for almost 2 years and i endured his lies secret conversation with girls, secret outings with his immature friends...

How do I prove to her that I've changed and want her back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

27 November 2011 (M) - Dear Cupid, 3 weeks ago I broke up with the most beautiful, perfect girl a boy like me could ever hope to meet. We had been going out for a year and a half and in the last few months I completely lost track of how much she meant to me and what was ...

I've realized I'm gay -- how to tell my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

27 November 2011 (F) - I have a boyfriend who ive been with for half a year now but i got with him unsure about my sexuality and now i know, i'm 100% gay. I need to tell him but i'm too afraid, plus we live together with 6 other people as i'm in uni. so it's going to be ...

Should I just accept that its over should I leave everything alone? Will she ever come back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

27 November 2011 (M) - Hi my name is vincent Ive been going with this girl for 3 years since our junior year in high school and we had some problems off and on 6 months after we started dating we broke up and she had sex with her ex she came back to me apologizing saying ...

I don't know if this guy is being a kind friend or likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

27 November 2011 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend a while back. I don't he is capable of being faithful to anyone. When we were breaking up I talked to a couple of mutual friends (then a couple) to try to understand what was happening. Anyway since then this couple h...

My ex-boyfriend broke up with me two months ago and he's already seeing someone else

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

27 November 2011 (F) - My ex dumped me barely two months ago. I am still in love with him, but have just found out that he is going to ask another girl out, and that he has found someone else. It felt like my heart just got broken again. How do I move past this? ...

Should I continue to wait and see, or contact him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

27 November 2011 (F) - Not sure what I should do if I very much would like to get back together with my ex-fiance. My ex broke it off with me a little over a yr. ago. When he ended it his only reason at the time was that he was not happy. Yes, we did have our problems ...

Please help me summon the courage to leave her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

27 November 2011 (M) - Dear Experts, Ive finaly hit rock bottom in what is supposed to be called a relationship and i require some support to find the courage to leave, after 4 hard years with my soon to be ex partner i cant take anymore of her crap, november 2010 our...

My abusive husband threatens to label me a bad mother if I leave him

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4524 days ago

27 November 2011 (F) - Our daughter is four. the other night I was so ashamed when my little girl tried to stop my husband hitting me. She physically tried to push him away. He is always kind to her and he waits until she is asleep before he starts to be nastier to me. I...

Will I be single forever? Or are some men ok with a girl being good looking?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

27 November 2011 (F) - Hi this is a question for the men. All my friends amd family tell me how good looking I am, but I don't think I am. Men always seem to have a problem with my supposed good looks. Every man I've been out with has broken it off with me. What is it...

I don't believe there is a switch that just turned off his feelings. I want him back

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

26 November 2011 (F) - My boyfriend broke up with me eleven days before our 3 year anniversary. He is currently in Korea, teaching English to Elementary school children, while I am still in America. He said he couldn't be with me because he "could not reciprocate his ...

Three year LDR. It's not working. Should I tell him how I am feeling now, or wait until I get back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4510 days ago

26 November 2011 (F) - Ive been with my long distance partner for 3 years. I am travelling overseas and planning to live with him when I get back. But I don't believe in our relationship anymore. I care for him and want him to be happy. I do love him, but we have bare...

I love him. How do I cope with him? Or even move on from my married boy friend, who cheated on me, AGAIN?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

26 November 2011 (F) - hello aunts, i am still obsessed with my married boy friend who cheated on me 3 months ago. Since then i have been living in tears as i love him so much. I know he is bad, but i cannot make up my mind. He cheated on me even before and i forgave ...

How did he get over our relationship so quickly ? He broke off with me and three weeks later was in a new relationship.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

26 November 2011 (F) - i was in a relationship for a year with a guy that i was sure i was going to marry. we were talking about getting engaged and looking at rings and everything.well,about 6 months into the relationship,we started arguing about different issu...

Is it just sex to him? Or does my ex really want us back together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

26 November 2011 (F) - my exbf broke up with me 3 months ago. Tuseday morning he sent me a message said he wanted to talk and apologize, and he insisted he's not drunk. so we went out and grab some coffee that night. and he apologized to me about what he did before a...

He moves on to new woman so easily! Am I being unfair to feel he led me on only to drop me again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

25 November 2011 (F) - To all those people out in the world, that gift their time to answer our problems.... I thank you! I would be so grateful for opinions on my situation. My partner of 4 years and I split up six months ago, because I found he had been lying and I co...

Does he want me back? He told me by msg to delete him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

25 November 2011 (F) - I was dating guy for 3 months. Every thing was great until one day he sent me a msg saying i think it would easy if you delete my number ok because i have 2 cancel a date the same day because my was dad taken to hospital so i went to see him so i...

Should I move on or wait for my boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

25 November 2011 (F) - Well my bf and I decided to split cuzz im 16 and he 21. Its safer. I love him alot, I would do anything for him! We planned on gettn back together when I turn 18, we still see each other and call each other! Just like were still dating. But I dnt ...

My depressive ex gf is really confusing me. Any opinions?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

25 November 2011 (M) - Hi all. Ex and me was engaged and been together for 5 but had a LDR. ANW she left me two days after she bought her dress for the engagement. I tried everything , even showing up on her door step 3000 miles away with flowers. Nothing. I st...

No matter how much I ignore him I cant get over him! Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

25 November 2011 (F) - I'm still in love with my ex who dumped me 3 months ago. I have to see him every day, and I cannot seem to get over him. He turned his emotions off like a switch and just wanted to be friends. I said no, I needed time to not talk. And we havn't ...

Should a girl ever truly trust a man 100 per cent?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

25 November 2011 (F) - I was wondering should you ever trust a man 100% or give your love 100%. I am 25 good looking and have two degrees but recently I find it hard to be in a relationship or even wonder if a man is ever worth giving your all. I was in a five year rela...

I miss him terribly, how can I get him back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

25 November 2011 (F) - Today would be my ex and I's one year 4 month anniversary and I miss him horribly. He has said he still loves me, but doesn't like me, to his best friend, who is also a very close friend of mine. How can I get him back? ...

Is it possible to love someone you don't have (on paper) a lot in common with?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

24 November 2011 (F) - Hi! I'm 23 and just need a bit of an unbiased ear. I'll try to keep this short but basically in August I asked my guy friend out. He had been single for 6 years and me for 3, we'd v=been flatmates for a year and although very different, grew ...

No emotional bond in my marriage and my in laws hate me. Any advice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

24 November 2011 (F) - i have been married for 3 yrs with 12 month old baby girl, my inlaws hates me and my husband is not standing for me,he's always on the side of his family whenever we traveled to the family house,the last time we traveled i was humiliated, rejected ...