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Archived questions from: June, 2008 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

I want my ex back but he won't talk to me! What do people think?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 102 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - My problem is that I would like to get back with my ex but he won't even talk to me. We broke up 9 months ago-he said he wasn't ready for a relationship and broke it off suddenly after getting heavy, making long term plans for us etc. I texted him ...

She told me she was never in love with me at all. Did I make the right decision to end it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 103 days ago

30 June 2008 (M) - I'm 20 and Ive just broken up with my girlfriend and I'm crushed. We had known each other for bout 9 months but been together six months. In which time she has been telling me that she's so in love with me. However the other day she told...

How can I break this off without looking like a jerk?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 103 days ago

30 June 2008 (M) - I no longer want to have any contact with a girl who has been interested in me for six months. The girl had been using me as a back up for her rocky relationship with her boyfriend. (She never told me she had a boyfriend. I found out through her ...

How can I gain her trust back and get a second chance with her? Please help I need some good advice....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 101 days ago

30 June 2008 (M) - Please help! Me and my ex girlfriend broke up about 2 months ago now after being together for a year. I love her so much and I want us to get back together, but I dont know how to convince her to give me another chance. The reason for us breaking ...

Should I feel used? Do you think there is any hope that we'll get back together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 104 days ago

30 June 2008 (M) - my g/f broke up with me about 2 weeks ago and i'm still depressed. she was my first g/f and i'm 18 and she's 17. i thought everything was going great but i had noticed somethings but ignored them, thinking i was paronoid. after visiting her for a fe...

Please help a guy in love and in need.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 104 days ago

30 June 2008 (M) - Hey everyone...help a guy in love and in need. I've been seeing this girl a good few months now, and tonight we argued a lot...I got/get very angry about her past (she used to be a drug addict), I feel like i'll always come second to the need she ...

I currently live with my dad but I want to live with my mum!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 104 days ago

29 June 2008 (M) - I am 13. I lived with my dad for a long time now about 8 years with my younger brothers. I now want to live with my mom, but I don't want to hurt my dad's feelings. What do I do?...

He says he wants to stay but does not want to regret the choice in a couple of years time. How do I convince him?

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29 June 2008 (F) - i have recently broken up with my partner of 12 years we have 5 children together i want him back but dont want to push him away he says he stills loves me but he is with another girl says he wants to stay but he doesnt want to regret stayin in a ...

He wants space but I want him back before this other girl gets him!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 104 days ago

29 June 2008 (F) - he wants space but i want him back before this other girl gets him my bf of 3yrs told me he wants time to rethink our relationship so we broke up. i want him back but he doesnt seem to care about me now. when i speak to him he's always in a rush...

If she doesn't want me, why does she get back in touch with me every time she tells me that she doesn't want me to contact her again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 86 days ago

29 June 2008 (M) - My girlfriend has broken up with me after five years and is so angry at me that she won't even let me show her the changes I'm willing to make to get her back. Here is some background - She is the same age as me but her culture is different to min...

Why doesn't he show that he cares??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 100 days ago

29 June 2008 (F) - Im 15, He's 16. We like each other, but were not going out just yet. We are on the verge of going out though. Im totally unexperienced, and he is experienced, he has had sex more than once, and i haven't gone out with a guy, i haven't even kis...

My ex said I was too clingy...we messed around...and now he says he "kinda" likes me. What does this mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 105 days ago

29 June 2008 (F) - Hello, Recently, my ex broke up with me in May. Yes, he dumped me because he thought I was scary (-_-), and We've been talking for awhile and became friends. Now, Its June, and I came to his house yesterday for help in math. I don't know why b...

I don't want to break his heart again so what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 105 days ago

29 June 2008 (F) - i have a boyfriend that i have ben dating for 5 months we dated before that though and the first time we dated i broke up with him and it broke his heart i started missing him so i got back with him now this time that we are dating im starting not ...

Getting married in a month, but I don't love my fiance! I know we'll be divorced in a couple of years....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 104 days ago

29 June 2008 (M) - My fiancee and I have been together for almost 11 years, engaged for a year and a half, and are getting married in a month. I don't think I have ever really loved her. Its hard to summarize our history, there's a lot and not much of it is pretty....

My husband said he doesn't love me anymore. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 99 days ago

28 June 2008 (F) - My husband said he didn't love me anymore about 2 1/2 months ago. Then I kicked him out because I was fed up with his crap. I did not think he would stay gone this long and I have tried along with our 11 year old son to get him to go to counseling ...

What should I do - she doesn't like roller coasters, should we break up?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 102 days ago

28 June 2008 (M) - I've been going out with my GF for a year a a few months, i think she's great and we have alot in common.I found out recently that she doesn't like roller coasters (although she has only been on one). The problem is i absolutely love roller c...

Can you forgive after cheating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 105 days ago

28 June 2008 (M) - Four months ago I got back together with my ex,who is a good friend that I've known all my life. We never made it official, because we knew the relationship was going to have to end soon when she left town for 6 months. Despite this we agreed to be ...

Please help me save my relationship!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 99 days ago

28 June 2008 (F) - how do you say "im sorry and i will never do it again" to a man I cheated on twice? I really really regret it and I love him to death. I am so mad at myself for ruining this relationship. He left me after 6 months of finding out. I tried EVER...

I miss my ex girlfriend, I miss my kids' mom and feel terrible. My boys have never seen me cry and I fear they might hear me at night...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 94 days ago

28 June 2008 (M) - Hello. This is somewhat difficult for me to talk about but here it goes. I am a 36yr old single father of twins. I have raised them since they were born. Their mother is in prison and is out of the picture. I have no regrets about raising my ...

My boyfriend still gets mad about stuff I did in the past. Help me please!!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 69 days ago

28 June 2008 (F) - Hi, I have some issues, I feel totally lost, like I don't know where I'm going in this relationship! Ok, my bf and I have had our issues because he asked about my past early in the relationship, and I lied about it, and later when I came clean, he b...

My relationship ended because of jealousy, arguments and mistrust. Am I crazy to not let this go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 105 days ago

28 June 2008 (F) - My ex and I were in a relationship for 3 years, ended b/c of jealousy, arguments and mistrust. we reconnected after 7 months of not communicating and it seemed as though everything was going well(even though he would constantly bring up the nega...

I spoke to another man and it seems to have ruined everything!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 105 days ago

28 June 2008 (F) - In my nine year relationship I messed up. I began talking to another man. There was no sex involved but just alot of talking and we worked together. We never hung out we went to a dinner break at work once. My boyfriend found out and I told him I ...

We are having a break and have agreed to dating other people, is my BF using me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 105 days ago

28 June 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and half. We have had a rocky relationship but lately things have been going well. The other day he suggested that we 'take a break'. He said he needs his freedom because our relationship is like a ...

Two guys, only in love with one but can't get rid of the other, what shall I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 102 days ago

28 June 2008 (F) - Ok this is rather complicated and i am really stuck with it... Ive met a guy (boy 1) nd he is really sweet he asked me out and i said yes. But, there is another guy hu loves me(boy 2), i like him but not in that way and he tld me tht the only thing ...

Do you think he cheated/left 'cos he couldn't take the insecurity anymore?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 105 days ago

28 June 2008 (F) - Hi, My boyfriend and were together for 18 months. He left his girlfriend of 7 years for me, who he's cheated on all the way through. He'd also cheated many times on his girlfriend of 5 years before that but dumped her for the next. He told...

Does my ex really have a new girlfriend...? What do you think??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 103 days ago

28 June 2008 (F) - Me and my bf broke up a couple of months ago. We have not spoken since. However, his best mate has told me that he has a new gf apparantly. But I dont know whether or not I should believe his friend because his friend lied to me so many times during ...

Is my gf done with me??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 105 days ago

28 June 2008 (M) - Ive been with my highschool sweetheart for over 2 years now. I miss the days when we had sex constantly, sometimes 3 times a day. Now I feel unloved and neglected. we have sex 1 or 2 times a week and it always feels like im pressuring her or like ...

I think I have committment problems, I really need advice!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 105 days ago

28 June 2008 (F) - Hi I think I have commitment problems but really need advice as it could be something else. I was very unhappily married for 10 years with a man who used to be emotionally abusive but felt really stuck and trapped in that marriage - I married young ...

I want to end my relationship with him but I love him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 106 days ago

28 June 2008 (F) - i really need help with this. i met my boyfriend 2months ago and we barely know each other before dating.he told me he was an investor and he loves spending and he was also a young millonaire. we met through myspace and hookd up and afterwards ...

Dating this guy for 15 years and he's said..he'll never marry me! How do I move on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 106 days ago

28 June 2008 (F) - i have been dating the same guy off and on for fifteen years. He often tells me that he's never going to marry me I want to move on but I don't know where to start. Can you give me some tips?...

Do you think the fact that this guy knew all this means my ex still has feelings for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 105 days ago

27 June 2008 (F) - Ok this has been playing on my mind and I could do with a bit of insight. Last weekend I went out in group which included my ex (we split up year and half but stayed friends) Some of the people we went out with were my ex's workmates that I had not ...

Do these things mean he is losing interest in me and wants to break up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 106 days ago

27 June 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for about a year and 1/2 everything seemed to be doing great, until recently. It seems that he is losing interest in me.. and getting to the point to were he cant stand me. He points out to me, what wrong with ...

What can I do about my suicidal ex boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 106 days ago

27 June 2008 (F) - What can I do about my suicidal ex boyfriend? We broke up on Wednesday after a year and as a result he took an overdose and has been in hospital since. I've visited him every day because I feel responsible, he says he's going to change for me so ...

Why did he stop speaking to me all of a sudden?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 106 days ago

27 June 2008 (F) - I just got out of a bad relationship. It's been hard for me, but I overcame it finally and my life is being put back together. I still think about my ex, but I don't care for how he did me. I datd him for a year and some months, everything was going ...

I emotionally cheated on him 3 years ago and he can't get over it! What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 106 days ago

27 June 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend of nine years are in a huge fight. It's to the point where we haven't lived together in over a month. I take complete responsibility. Three years ago I had a emotional affair with someone, no sex. Well three years later he can't ...

She led me on and then completely broke my heart, and It still hurts like hell!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 106 days ago

27 June 2008 (M) - I'm hoping someone can help me to get a better understanding of what's happened to me recently. I was seeing a lovely girl for three weeks. It was only a short fling, but she was very keen and things got quite intense quickly, mainly because she ...

Relationship over and need to find a boyfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 106 days ago

27 June 2008 (F) - I have just come out of a breakup and feel really lonely as my boyfriend was my best friend too. I don't feel like I will meet anyone ever again as I live in a big city and it's hard to make new friends. I also don't go out drinking regularl...

Help! I might want to break up and still love him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 106 days ago

27 June 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for over 3 years. We have lived together (rented) for two years and have two cats together. We have the same friends and our families love us. I have been feeling uncertain about us for about 5 months and now it's get...

How can I leave this man?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 106 days ago

27 June 2008 (F) - Im pregnant,and the father asked me to have an abortion. I considered this, but unable to go through with it. I have told him that I have chosen to follow throught with the pregnancy. He has stated that he would stay by me. But when I bring up the ...

We are both in relationships but I like him. Does he really care about me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 106 days ago

27 June 2008 (F) - just wanted some advice. I have been working with J for two years. I love him. We both have partners but have said we are unhappy. We have always been there for each other etc.... I am leaving soon ( in three months) and i love him so much I ...

My boyfriends just come back from a boys holiday and said he wants to be on his own. Whats happened???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 106 days ago

27 June 2008 (F) - Hi, I have been with my boyfriend for a year, we were very happy, inseperable, he stayed at mine pretty much every night and it was a very equal relationship, however he has just been away on a lad's holiday to tenerife for a week and came back to ...

My fiance of 9 yrs has split with me and I don't really know why! He has cut all contact with me. Whats going on???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 106 days ago

27 June 2008 (F) - Hi i need some advice, i was with my ex partner nearly 9 years, and we got engaged at xmas (he did this, it was not planned)... i was so happy and wanted to arrange a marriage, this is when things turned horrible - he said he didnt consider getting ...

I don't hear from her now we've broken up, and it's bothering me.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 106 days ago

27 June 2008 (M) - I know this may seem like a weird thing to say but...I broke up with my girlfriend about 3 weeks ago...and about a week ago...I haven't heard anything from her (by that I mean she hasn't been on my messenger) I don't want to sound worried but it's ...

Will he come home or should I just move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 107 days ago

27 June 2008 (F) - My boyfriend left me almost 2 weeks ago. He moved out a lot of his stuff but left a lot too . He called me while I was out with a friend like crazy because one of his friends saw me out and told him he talked me into driving home. We talked briefly ...

Should I just leave him be, or try and work things out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 107 days ago

27 June 2008 (F) - I am in need of words of wisdom and encouragement from an aunt or uncle. I'm sorry, but I'm kind of a longwinded typer.. My long distance boyfriend (he's in school, only 4 hours away, not a problem and its only for a year) and I broke up b/c bas...

He dumped me via email! How can I move on and regain trust in men?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 107 days ago

27 June 2008 (F) - I just got dumped today by my boyfriend (now ex, I suppose) of 4 months by email today. He sent it to me in response to my calls yesterday when I had a horrible feeling that he was avoiding my calls. In the email he said that he will still st...

He asked for another chance and messed around on me. I caught him and now I want REVENGE!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 107 days ago

26 June 2008 (F) - i split up wiv my long term partner of 8 yrs last yr.i have a 4 and 2 yr old kids and they took it hard.alot was trust issues.i had herd rumors about him sleeping with other women but always took his word for it but he never trusted me ie;going to ...

Confused about my boyfriend and some insight would be really helpful

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 107 days ago

26 June 2008 (F) - I lived with my boyfriend for few months and he told everyone and his family about me infact to get married though he's much older. I'm 19, he's 36 and everyone is aware and I must say this is true love. The problem began when i moved out you kn...

What does it mean if this person stays by your side?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 106 days ago

26 June 2008 (F) - hello! i would just like to know your opinion on this situation. if you're in a relationship with someone but are not ready for sexual intercourse, and the other person is... so later you both break up,,, however this person still stays by your side ...

Since I've started seeing this other guy, my ex has been back, asking me out again....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 107 days ago

26 June 2008 (F) - im hoping some people can offer some advice. my ex broke up with me 5months ago after 6years, he met someone new a few wks later. i was devastated but he didnt want to know. i then met a guy for drinks, he heard and since then has been back ...