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writes:So my girlfriend and I have been off and on the past year. Everything seemed alright she had been staying at my house for the past week. She got a DUI and has been worried, Christmas time makes her depressed. Any way I woke up at 5 am and she was gone.. My sister said she came down at 130 am and the door was open. I'm guessing she had a friend pick her up. There's a lot of scenarios I have no clue where she went, all I know is Christmas is about being with the ones you love, and it wasn't me, maybe she 302ed herself. But she left half of her personal belongings here and I'm not her storage locker I plan to throw her shit out, I've tried contacting her but it just goes to voicemail, what should I do? That was a heartless act and I'm tired of being hurt and I don't even see her try
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reader, Sincerely Yours +, writes (28 December 2014):
 Yup yup don't throw her shiz out! That's not helpful and is one way to make things worse.
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reader, Brokenv  +, writes (28 December 2014):
Be an adult. Collect her belongings and store them somewhere. This is pretty fresh and I understand your hurt but being a gentleman goes a long way.
Do not contact her. Let her return on her own. Tell her that you are done with this relationship and her belongings needs to go with her. If this what you want.
If you care, ask her what is going on. Maybe she is going through something and has been unable to communicate.
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reader, Dodds  +, writes (28 December 2014):
 Hey man, so sorry about that.
Personally I have principles and boundaries which if a girlfriend crossed, SHE'S OUT !!
Stay calm, don't react negatively or angrily whether alone or when you see her. Pack her things neatly into a carton box and leave them in a corner of your house.
Make a decision if you wanna purse anything further with this woman or whether her actions were unacceptable. Next step start befriending other women if you have shown her the door emotionally.
Be safe, stay calm and live your life. All the best
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