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Archived questions from: October, 2011 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

Lovers for 5 years. Both married, but not to each other. How can I deal with this much pain? He said he loved me but where is he now?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4552 days ago

31 October 2011 (F) - I starting having an affair with a man since 2006. We both are married and I lived a distance from him so I wasnt worried to get attached. Well I thought it would be just a short period this would last. We were together for almost 5 years. ...

Where do I go from here? Broken hearted. How long should I wait for to contact my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4552 days ago

31 October 2011 (M) - My girlfriend of one year recently broke up with me. We've been in a long distance relationship for almost the entire time, although I've bought plane tickets to visit her several times, and she came to stay with me for 8 weeks over summer where we ...

Relationship dilemma: how do I get her to believe in me again?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4552 days ago

31 October 2011 (M) - I'm currently trying to win back my ex girlfriend. She has a social anxiety disorder, and recently shut down and blew up on me (seriously yelled in person, screamed, cried, etc.) because of a few things I did. All of which was about a month ago. ...

In Turmoil. How can I resolve my Commitment issues? my girlfriend has given up on me :(

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4553 days ago

31 October 2011 (M) - Hi Folks, Commitment issues of my own have caused my girlfriend to give up :(! I'm after some advice, not sure if anyone can help, but basically the story goes like this: My girlfriend and I were together for 3 1/2 years. We had a long ...

After 2 bad break-ups I don't want to get serious with anyone because I don't want to be in love again, is there something wrong with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4553 days ago

31 October 2011 (F) - This post won't be very long, I just need a little input and help. I've had two VERY bad break ups within the last 4 years (I'm over them, by the way) and I've been sitting here thinking about why I'm not in a new relationship. I've been on man...

How can I break up with my boyfriend? I'm not in love with him anymore

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4553 days ago

31 October 2011 (F) - How can I break up with my boyfriend of 2 years and 4 months? I love him but I'm not in love with him anymore. This year was his 1st year of college but I could feel us drifting sorta. He even told me that for the past 2 weeks he's been wanting to ...

Were we never really anything? Was I a fool to believe this was something special? I don't know how he could have done this....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4554 days ago

31 October 2011 (F) - knowing someone online for over a year now. thought we were in a real relationship and now its all over as if it never existed. I deleted all my accounts I could not bare the pain. all I kept seeing was him posting away about a life he didnt have. ...

My bf is convinced I'm in love with my friend (which I'm not!) and now he wants to speak to my friend's pregnant and emotional wife to see how she feels about our friendship!!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4553 days ago

31 October 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend (I will name "Ned") for about 17 years. "Ned" broke up with me about two and a half years ago saying I wasn't "the one" and he wanted to find her and didn't want to waste more time with me. I had wanted to get ...

What do I need to know that can assure me I am making the right decision to take her back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4553 days ago

30 October 2011 (M) - My gf dumped me because she said something wasn't there, i took it like a man and didn't whine and ask why like so many of us guys do. I just said you're right this isn't working, and of course in the same conversation we were having about breaking ...

We have decided that we will go back out with each other in 2-3 years. Should I just move on now??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4553 days ago

30 October 2011 (F) - Well me nd my bf (now ex) decided to break things off when his baby momma threatened to put him on child support if he didnt go back.And im only 16 and he is 21 so we decided it would benefit both of us if we waited a few years to go back out. Well ...

She has been abusive but threatens that she can't live without me if I leave. please help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4551 days ago

30 October 2011 (M) - 2 years 3 months ago i was single and i was just out of an open relationship when i made friend with one girl on facebook.we started to chat everyday and she kept on telling me how her boyfriend was treating her badly....i felt very sorry for ...

I don't know whether to continue with my travel plans or try to get back with my ex

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30 October 2011 (M) - My girlfriend and i broke up at the beginning of the year - she said that I wasn't enjoying life which is true and that I need to go and do my thing in the world as i am often very depressed and disillusioned with the world (i don't see any point ...

How do I ensure I don't mess up this relationship? I've had a track record of having a crush on a new guy every single year.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4555 days ago

30 October 2011 (F) - Dear Everybody who reads this, I am an idiot. For as long as I can remember I've had a track record of having a crush on a guy every single year. If I got over one, I'd get one as soon as the new year came around. When I was younger I was really i...

We have broken up but still aren't over each other!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4555 days ago

30 October 2011 (F) - About a year and a half ago my boyfriend's father passed away in a car accident. SInce then there have been a lot of family issues that came up, along with the normal formalities of a death. Everything between us carried on as normally as it c...

Ex is ruining my high school life

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4130 days ago

29 October 2011 (M) - Hey, Dearcupid. I'm really sorry about the length of this, but I desperately need some help. I broke up with my girlfriend of 26 months recently because she cheated on me THREE TIMES IN ONE NIGHT and still had the nerve to get angry at me for ...

Hould I get back with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4554 days ago

29 October 2011 (?) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for the last 17 months. Just yesterday I broke up with him because I felt I didn't love him enough. He has always loved me like crazy. In fact he was the one to initiate the relationship in the first place. He ...

It's been one month and a half and my ex has contacted me out of the blue - should I ignore it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4555 days ago

29 October 2011 (F) - Sorry it's long but... help? This guy would wipe my tears away and told me he's not like those guys who use girls for sex, he's in it for long-term, and he'll wait for me for as long as it takes. We talked everyday. But then... two and a half mon...

Should I try to mend our friendship or leave him altogether in fear of falling for him again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4551 days ago

29 October 2011 (F) - I have a very long history with a boy who shall be called X . You see, I've liked X as more than a friend off and on for basically my whole life, and I know there have been times when he has liked me in the same way. To give a summary, we were close ...

Broke up with my girl, and I need advise on how to make friends

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4555 days ago

28 October 2011 (M) - Hello I am 19 year old male and I have no friends. I lost my female best friend 2 months ago and my girlfriend 3 days ago(it was a mutual agreement, she didn't dump me). I started studying economics this year and it is still hard for me to find one ...

Tired of dreaming about my ex boyfriend.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4507 days ago

27 October 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I stopped seeing each other two weeks ago. We were seeing each other for several months. I will admit that it killed me, but in hindsight I have come to terms that our lifestyles weren't compatible and that this would have happened ...

Should I write to my ex first or wait to see if he writes to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4557 days ago

27 October 2011 (F) - ok my ex and I broke up 2 weeks ago (I am over it already because I know we have no future because we are too different) and a few days later I had a kind of date with another ex (well it actually wasn't supposed to be one) but he was flirty and ...

Boyfriend cheated on me and now I can't trust anyone

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4557 days ago

27 October 2011 (F) - Why would he do that to me? what did I ever do to him:(? I loved my ex boyfriend so much, I thought he loved me too. He was so sweet and so lovely but then he asked to go on a break and started acting weird. Then he broke up with me saying h...

My casual LDR is becoming too serious, how do I let her down gently?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4553 days ago

26 October 2011 (M) - Heres the situation: i met this girl on holiday back in the summer and we hit it off straight away. With regards to looks she isnt what i go for, but she makes me laugh and we got on well so i just went with it. We stayed in contact and have visited ...

My girlfriend cut off contact with me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4558 days ago

26 October 2011 (M) - I've been in a serious relationship with my girlfriend for just over a year now. For the last month or so, things have been a bit hard, we've been fighting and arguing a lot and we haven't had much time together. She acts in a lot of plays and stud...

He lied about his uncle being dead so he didn't have to see me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4558 days ago

26 October 2011 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years now. I recently moved to another city for university so seeing each other has been stressful. But we've been planning a big massive holiday together, go away for three-weeks to the beach, just the ...

Should I keep trying to contact him or just cut him out of my life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4557 days ago

26 October 2011 (F) - I've been having trouble with my LDR boyfriend lately. We've been together for 3 years, things haven't been easy lately but I didn't think they were this bad. He was supposed to visit me two-weeks ago for my birthday, but he couldn't because...

I broke up with her when she demanded I propose, now she's emotionally blackmailing me!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4550 days ago

26 October 2011 (M) - I've had a very turbulent relationship with my girlfriend of the last 2 years. We've been long distance for most of our relationship, and that's made things tougher. At the start, things were fantastic, we got along perfectly and we couldn't wait...

I've realised I made a mistake and I was too needy, how do I make things right?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4556 days ago

26 October 2011 (F) - Hello agony aunts and uncles. I need your help badly! I broke up with my boyfriend who've I've been with for 6 months about a week ago because we don't live close enough to see each other everyday. He started to ignore my texts and when I'd call ...

How could he lose feelings for me then fall in love with someone else two days later?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4558 days ago

26 October 2011 (F) - Hi my ex dumped me over the phone last month, I found out from a friend a week later that he was in a relationship with a girl he'd been txting while we were together. I asked him about it and he said they had only been together for a week so he ...

What does he want?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4557 days ago

26 October 2011 (F) - my ex and I broke up a week and a few days ago but I am already over it because I know it`s better and we are not meant for each other! so my other ex(let`s call him max) and I stayed good friends even during my last relationship. he seemed pretty ...

Is there any way to get my ex back? I'm not willing to let go of something this powerful.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4557 days ago

26 October 2011 (F) - Everyone I know tells me to just move on. Even if my future self went back in time to tell me that it's not worth it, I would still continue. I've always took pride in having no regrets, but I'm at the point when I realize that there are special ...

While my husband and I were on a break I met another man, and now my husband wants to know all the sexual details! Is this normal?

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26 October 2011 (F) - My husband and I have had a roller coaster relationship. We were dating, then we broken up, then we got back together and married a few months after, then during our marriage we took a break a couple times for the same reasons. Anyways, this ...

My girlfriend said she was to depressed to date me! What does that even mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4559 days ago

26 October 2011 (M) - So i had my second girlfriend ever and we broke up about....a hour ago. I'm fine with the fact that she broke up with me, I knew she was too good for me anyway so i expected it. its just her excuse for why we are breaking up, apparently I'm a ...

Am I making the right decision or should I talk things over?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4559 days ago

25 October 2011 (F) - I am having relationship problems...I have found myself completely stressed out, depressed, and I'm afraid no longer happy from my relationship! I have suppressed feelings and resentment from previous issues, that I just can't let go. Also, I have ...

He's cheated and given me an STD! How do I confront him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4559 days ago

24 October 2011 (F) - Hi everyone I have just found out my boyfriend of a year has been cheating on me and now I have a std I really loved him but now he has been cheating on me I know I have to break up with him how do I bring this up to him I know he has been cheating ...

Even though I love my new boyfriend to bits is it possible I still love my ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4559 days ago

24 October 2011 (F) - Hello, just a short question. Even tho i have another boyfriend after my ex i think i still love him. I love my new boyfriend, but we have had some arguments. My ex hasnt spoke to me much since the break up he siad he still wanted to be friends, and ...

How do I get over the guy I love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

24 October 2011 (F) - The summer before last I dated a guy and fell in love with him even though I knew he was moving half way across the country (I live in Canada so that's really far). Needless to say, after he moved I couldn't bear the long distance thing so I broke ...

How do I ensure we do NOT break up? Between school, homework, and work, he doesn't have any time for me anymore..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4560 days ago

24 October 2011 (F) - Hello, I've been with D for seven months. He just started college and I'm still in high school and he barely has any time for me anymore and I'm getting fed up of being so lonely all the time. We both love each other very much and I do NOT want to...

When my ex said "I met a nice guy", was that her way of trying to make me jealous? Or does she really want me to leave her alone?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

24 October 2011 (M) - So I recently am going through a break that happened about 2 months ago or so. I was with this girl for about 8 months and I still miss her. The other night I got drunk (yes stupid) and texted her. I guess I just wanted to text her when I was sober ...

Should I end all ties? It will upset me. But my FWB guy wants no commitment.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

24 October 2011 (F) - Hi, I've been friends with benefits with this guy i've known since school for like 3 months now. We text each other constantly and are always talking to each other. We see each other about 3/4 times a week and when we're not with each other we...

Why should I stay with a guy whose mom truly doesn't like me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

23 October 2011 (F) - Why should I stay with a guy whose mom doesn't like me? I'm getting so fed up with everything, if I been with her son for 2 yrs why does she still sit there and acts like a bitch with me ? I never cheated on him or anything. Okay yes we have our ...

Extreme loneliness. Can I please have your opinions, before I discuss it with my therapist? I tried but her reaction hurt me

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4554 days ago

23 October 2011 (M) - As much as I try to suppress the feelings of loneliness, it always comes back to haunt me when I like someone. I'm 19 years old and I am an at home carer. I suffer from frequent periods of low mood, I have what I believe to be social anxiety d...

I don't want to date her anymore. How do I get her to move out of my life?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

23 October 2011 (M) - I have spent 9 months with this lady and now wana dump her . Well she hasn’t done anything wrong neither me but I have to dump her as I find someone else more attractive than her. She is my 8th girlfriends and I think there is nothing wrong ke...

He broke up with me saying he didn't love me...now he says he misses me and wants to be friends

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

23 October 2011 (F) - I broke up with my ex at the beginning of the year after I had suspected that he and one of my close friends were having a thing behind my back. He never admitted to it but he also never denied it. He told me he just doesn't love me and that was the ...

My GF cheated. I forgave her, but since then she's been acting like she hates me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

23 October 2011 (M) - A few things my girlfriend doesn't like for me to ask "can I have a kiss?" We used to kiss all the time but now she says it is just getting annoying. "what are you doing?" She hates this question now before she would always let me know what's ...

After patchup , do I own apology to my grilfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

23 October 2011 (M) - I think exactly 50 days back, I dumped my girlfriend who would yell at me like hell for small thing like why my room sounds like garbage with everything all over the place. Finally, I gave up and dumped her . We were together for 4 years and ...

Is he missing me? he has not directly apologized, but he is posting profile pictures of himself from when we were together

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

23 October 2011 (F) - If a guy starts posting his profile pictures as those from the time when you were together...but not exactly the ones you're in... is he just thinking of the general time or could he... possibly missing you. He has given other signals, like rea...

She says she loves me, but has shown absolutely no emotion or affection toward me since we got back together.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4562 days ago

23 October 2011 (M) - Things my girlfriend of 4 and half years dreads if I ask her:- "Shall we have a night out?" We used to have nights out at least once a week. Then we split up for 3 months in 2008 and got back, things have never been the same. Its as if she doe...

Do I become friends with my ex or do I move on?? or secretly wait for her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4557 days ago

22 October 2011 (M) - Its been about 3 months since I broke up with my girlfriend, we broke up because of past resentment, pent-up frustration and constant fighting (which was mostly started by me). I apologized to her and how my actions affected our relationship and ...

Ex is talking to this girl and saying she's just a classmate but why did he tell her he loved her?

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22 October 2011 (F) - my boyfriend and I broke up 4 days ago, (we both still love each other) after 2 days i checked his inbox and i saw him flirting with another girl i faced him with it and asked him about her, he said that they're only classmates and he consider her ...