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Archived questions from: September, 2016 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

How do I deal with him moving to the other side of the world?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2718 days ago

30 September 2016 (F) - the love of my life is moving back home to the other side of the world to me and I don't know how to cope with this change and the build up to him leaving. Our relationship has a terminating date. What should I do to cope with this situation? ...

The definition of moving on has a very different meaning for dumper and dumpee?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2765 days ago

30 September 2016 (M) - Is it normal that Dumpers always want to be friends or find it cool than how a dumpee views it? And Im not talking about right after a breakup, but after time they seem to just be cool to maintain some truce or form of contact. It is clear tha...

I feel bad for my pregnant sister as her mother in law is so mean to her. Sometimes I wish she would get divorced. What can I do to support my sister?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2765 days ago

29 September 2016 (F) - Hello everyone.. I have a problem that is about my sister.. It really affects me and i feel so bad for her ! My sister has a mother in law or should i say a devil in law... She has done nothing but try to ruin my sisters marriage.. Cause...

Why he'd come back after 3 years after things ended so horribly?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2765 days ago

29 September 2016 (F) - Long story short, I was briefly acquainted with a man 3 years ago and it went downhill very fast. We were supposed to be strictly friends and things started getting weird and complicated with attraction and feelings and miscommunication. We were ...

My boyfriend just broke up with me and I am devastated

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2766 days ago

27 September 2016 (F) - My boyfriend of less than a year just broke up with me. I am 31. I feel so alone and devastated. He was everything you could want in a guy except he suffered from depression. He couldn't seem to get himself in the mainframe to love someone else. He ...

My bullying ex has made me feel so worthless. How do I cope as a single mum?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2764 days ago

27 September 2016 (F) - Ive never felt so low in my life. At the weekend, after another row, I finally decided to end things for good with my ex. We have a 6 month old baby together and I also have a 6 year old son from a previous relationship. Our rows have escalated s...

How should I handle her reaction? I feel I'm being completely blown off by my FWB friend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2768 days ago

23 September 2016 (F) - So I've got a Fwb relationship that's been on going for quite some time now. Roughly 10 months. We have been friends since 2012 but the sleeping together started last November. This is not your typical fwb relationship. I've never had a relation...

Should my ex and I get back together? We were Bf and Gf together since adolescene until we broke up in February

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2772 days ago

22 September 2016 (F) - I split up with my boyfriend in Feb. We were together nearly 20'years but we had a rocky relationship as he has a lot of issues. He had a rebound relationship pretty quickly after we ended and now he has split from his girlfriend. ...

Should I hang on to this relationship or part ways so we both can recover and finally move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2772 days ago

22 September 2016 (F) - Hi , my boyfriend and I have been seeing each other for almost 9 months now and it's been a long distance relationship since the beginning ! We had entered this relationship thinking that we wanted to marry each other . He had even proposed...

I can't get over him (he seems interested too). But he's in a long distance relationship!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2772 days ago

21 September 2016 (F) - (Sorry for the very very lengthy explanation, there is a quick summary at the end if you want to skip the novella) A while back a guy started in my office and I was immediately interested. We started as friends but I knew he'd never like me ...

Broke up with friends. What was my former friend trying to say? should I be worried?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2773 days ago

21 September 2016 (F) - I had friends who i just broke up with because they were beginning to be close friends with someone I know very well. She can't be trusted. I explained to them why i don't trust her and since we live in the same commune i know her better than they ...

Since the breakup of what I thought was a perfect LD relationship I can't stop thinking about him. How do I cope with this situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2772 days ago

21 September 2016 (F) - Hi, I feel like I need a reality check and I don't have many people in my life to ask for advice or open up to. I was broken up with 2 months ago by the person I loved. The relationship ended solely because of distance and the fact that his jo...

Will he come crawling back again, soon, to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2773 days ago

21 September 2016 (F) - Hi I have gone my separate ways from my on off boyfriend again. We don't live together, and he has recently started back to college as a mature student and he told me hes very stressed out and has loads going on around his head and has family i...

Do you think he just wants to have me in his life in some type of way??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2774 days ago

20 September 2016 (F) - After almost 2 years and no advancement I guess moving on is best, but what's confusing is when I cut him off he makes effort with the "I miss you and I love you" and he tells me he does want marriage and to be happy with me but he never stress me ...

Should I go home? How do I ask if I can go home? Please help

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2772 days ago

20 September 2016 (F) - Dear Cupid, I left home 6 months ago before I sat my final school exams because I was in a really bad place emotionally and I felt I needed to get away. The day I left my mother begged me to go home and I told her i couldn't do that. But now I wa...

Am I wrong to break this off?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2775 days ago

19 September 2016 (M) - Hi guys, This could be a bit of a long one but ill try not to waffle too much. Bit of a backstory: Got myself into a huge pickle with a girl, we're not speaking anymore but we were doing for 2 years, it started out both of us wanting somethin...

What can I do about my very controlling aggressive abusive husband? I want out of this abusive marriage

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2728 days ago

19 September 2016 (F) - Hello i have a very serious problem. My husband is very controlling and he has been disrespectful to my Mom and my children. He has called my daughters stupid bitches and he calls my son a dumb mf. He says thats just the way he talks but i hate it!...

Should I separate from my husband? Or push on in what feels like a dead marriage ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2775 days ago

18 September 2016 (F) - I've been with my hubby for nearly 11 years now and his cousin is one of his best friends and as a product of that, his cousin is also MY best friend. In fact we are closer than my hubby and his cousin is, our style of communication is the same...

Unexpected break-up. Can anyone give me any advice? Advice from guys would be much appreciated.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2773 days ago

17 September 2016 (F) - Me and my boyfriend were together for nine months and I was so happy. Suddenly, he broke up with me on Monday and I don’t understand why. He said he thinks we’re not suited and have different life experiences but I don’t understand how this can...

He runs hot or cold. Should I continue to pursue him, or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2772 days ago

17 September 2016 (M) - Hello agony aunts and uncles, I am a 26 year old gay man in the need of advice. My story begins with a man that messaged me from afar on a dating app. In the beginning, I thought it was just going to be a long distance kind of thing that would fa...

Break up and make up again and again. Should I just end it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2778 days ago

16 September 2016 (F) - We met on Face book back in 2011 and met in person a moth later.We had strong connection but the distance eventually took it's toll and he broke it off since neither of us were in a position to move. After time part we would recon...

Is it right to take a lover now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2778 days ago

16 September 2016 (F) - I am a twenty two year old married Indian woman. My husband has been working overseas for the last four years. He last visited me in August 2014 when we spent two weeks together I spent my twentieth birthday in December 2014 with my parents,...

I can't fall in love again..why?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2776 days ago

15 September 2016 (F) - Since coming out of a two year long toxic relationship way back in February, I've been finding it really difficult to fall in love with anyone else. I really loved the guy I was with and still believe I feel something for him as he was my first love ...

Advice: should I ask him back, or try to move on (and how?)

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2779 days ago

15 September 2016 (F) - Hi, I was with my partner for 4 years, we lived together for over 2, we broke up 5 months ago. I am rationally wondering whether the relationship should not have ended. I am hurt, which affects my job. Asking advice on whether to contact my ex an...

I feel sad that he lost all interest. What can I do to avoid this happening again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2777 days ago

15 September 2016 (F) - I need some advice! A few months ago I started a relationship with my housemate but it didn't work out, and I'm worried it's because I freaked him out and made him pull away. I'd love to know how best to move on and learn from this. So we were onl...

Why go through the trouble of introducing me to friends if it was just a fling?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2779 days ago

13 September 2016 (F) - I dated this guy for about 3 weeks. In that last week, we had sex. This is something I've never, ever done before (ever!) so I can't believe I slept with him so quickly. But I did, and things kind of fizzled out after that. We haven't seen each oth...

My terrible ex has moved on but I'm unable to..

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2781 days ago

13 September 2016 (F) - I have written here a couple of times asking for advice since I'm going through a real tough time- and would appreciate advice again - I was in a brief relationship with a man that basically was a total jerk to me. through therapy in the last three ...

What does it mean? I'm 18 and don't want to date anymore. Haven't felt a connection with last 4 people I dated

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2783 days ago

11 September 2016 (F) - Well the last few days I have been thinking and I realize I don't want to date anymore... It's crazy because everything in my life feels like it's slowing down. I know what a guy wants in a relationship and what I want, but never have I not wante...

Has our phone relationship been all lies from the start? Will he call again? Three years and he's never taken me out

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2783 days ago

10 September 2016 (F) - dear cupid, i been talk with this man over 3 yrs on the phone. we never went out. we talk about going out and now he tell me he's sick over past month and half i ask him does he want me to stop call him he told me that a good ideal i the one to ...

I need help with a fading relationship, please? Can I make him happy again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2784 days ago

10 September 2016 (F) - Dear Cupid, I started talking to my current boyfriend early on in the year. We talked all the time and everything was perfect - we made each other happy, nothing ever went wrong and we trusted and understood each other. We started going out...

I have a new BF now. So why do I will feel the need to check up on the new Gf of my ex, via social media?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2782 days ago

10 September 2016 (F) - A guy broke up with me 5 years ago. We had built up imagined plans for a future together and I was devastated. I visited him and slept with him several times after the break-up, hoping he'd realise we had something and it was worth trying aga...

He's so ready to give up on our affair. What should I do? He's married, and he's unjustly accused me of being unfaithful

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2784 days ago

10 September 2016 (F) - Hello everyone I need advice on something I've Been messing around with this married man for about 2 years. I haven't spoken to this man in 3 weeks over the labor day weekend I believe he seen me talking to another man an now he is acussing me o...

How do I deal with this? He broke up with me due to the lifestyle of my Uncle, who died 23 years ago.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2785 days ago

9 September 2016 (F) - Hi, My friend of 1 year 3 months decided to break up with me because of "society" as he says. Because my family background doesn't match up to his expectations,my uncle(my dads sister married him)the uncle in question,who died 23 years ago was a ...

Are we just wrong for each other? Should I stay or should I go?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2759 days ago

9 September 2016 (F) - What to do if I love the man I'm with, but unhappy in the relationship? I've been dating this guy for almost 9 months now. We met at a friend's party and clicked immediately. We have similar views on a lot of important things like family, social i...

He got a strip dance and lied to me about it. Should I stay or move on?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2783 days ago

8 September 2016 (F) - 29 F dating 1.5 years. We talked about how I did not like strip dances. I told him I was fine with him going with friends, but not get a dance. He ended going with just his best friend and went to a private room and got a dance. He lied to me ab...

I haven’t spoken to my boyfriend in 3 days! I need advice!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2786 days ago

8 September 2016 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 3.5 years. I am in a different state than him now in grad school. I went to see him last weekend and he complained about how broke he was the whole time (something that has been a peeve of mine the last 3 ...

Is my boyfriend a total loser I should lose or am I missing something?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2784 days ago

8 September 2016 (F) - I have been seeing a man in his 40s for six months. I am also in my 40s. He has told me he cares about me and we've talked about a future together. Four days ago my father was rushed to the hospital. He had two large blood clots in his lungs and...

Not sure I want to be in this relationship anymore. Two babies and he's rather play a computer game. I'm not sure I want to be in this relationship any more. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2786 days ago

8 September 2016 (F) - As a quick bit of background info: I’m a stay at home mum of two (2 year old and a 6 month old). I do have a job but was on maternity which has been extended due to having cancer and dealing with all kinds of other crap... My partner is the m...

Somewhere along the way I got lost and upset her. Is our relationship over?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2783 days ago

8 September 2016 (M) - Hi, I have been living and dating my partner since January this year. We have done a lot together in this time and also share a family pet. i have a lot of stress from work related matters and been off work temporary with a back problem. Over ...

I didn't cheat on my girlfriend, but she is convinced I've been unfaithful. Do we have any chance of getting back together?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2785 days ago

7 September 2016 (M) - My Girlfriend thinks I've cheated on her. Throw me out, saying I've no respect, can't really love her and I've lied. The thing is I haven't cheated I had a weekend with my brother and we stayed in a hotel up in London. I didnt tell her I was s...

Should I say anything to my best friend about her new relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2784 days ago

7 September 2016 (F) - Just wondering what people's thoughts are on this. My best friend has been single almost constantly for 10 years and obviously at times this has got her really down and I've often had to pick up the pieces. She saw a guy briefly for about three ...

Is my past affecting my current relationships? what can I do ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2788 days ago

7 September 2016 (F) - I really feel that my past has been having a very strong affect on my relationships. I grew up with my grandparents, one of which was only my grandparent due to marrige. I lived with them most of my childhood ,things there caused it to be unsafe a...

What can I do? She can't bring herself to believe me, nor let it go.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2788 days ago

6 September 2016 (M) - The relationship between me and my girlfriend of a little over a year has been pretty rough lately. We recently took a break that was originally supposed to be a month. It ended up only being a week. Anyway, during the break I bought some condoms,...

My Cheating Girlfriend.... What do I do?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2784 days ago

6 September 2016 (M) - So here it. As I write this my girlfriend is at 35,000ft with the guy she has been cheating on me with on their way to Tenerife. I had been with my girlfriend for almost 7 years. For a couple of months now I had suspected she was cheating a...

How do I cope with my troubled and tormented thoughts of her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2787 days ago

6 September 2016 (M) - I am a mid aged guy and 7 years ago, I began seeing a woman from work. I was separated from my wife and 2 teenage girls but used to still see my wife on a friendly basis and help her out and still occasionally had sex with her. The woman is m...

Is this relationship over? My Gf and I were caught trying to make out and her cousins told her parents.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2787 days ago

6 September 2016 (M) - Ok long story short i was over at my girlfriend's house for a labor day cookout and we were trying to try to find a place to make out in private and we got caught sneaking around by her cousins. They told her parents and now i can't go over to her p...

Was it just an excuse? Or am I being selfish thinking 15 minutes away was not far?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2789 days ago

5 September 2016 (F) - I have been dating a new guy recently and I have no car, so he usually has to pick me up and take me home. He ended things because I was too far away, despite only being 15 minutes away. Am I selfish for thinking I'm not that far?...

Do I break up with L and choose an untested but potentially amazing relationship with S ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2787 days ago

5 September 2016 (M) - Three years ago I met S., and we dated for a little while before he said that he wasn't ready for a relationship because he was getting over a recent breakup. Over the next year, he kept changing his mind between wanting to be friends and wanting ...

What is my ex boyfriend feeling?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2789 days ago

5 September 2016 (F) - Basically me and my boyfriend had a typical break up however I pushed for it because he was feeling so depressed and I knew he was gonna push me away I didn't want to be hurt. His depression had taken over and he said he felt nothing about anything ...

Does he care? Or am I crazy? Am I obsessed with him? Or am I just in love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2788 days ago

5 September 2016 (F) - It's taken me a Few moments to figure out how I should ask my question, but the Fact is The question Is just as confusing as the story..... A couple Of months ago I met this guy, I had just gotten out of a relationship Three months prior to the ...