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Archived questions from: April, 2008 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

Is she my friend or is she just screwing with my head?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5824 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - I have a rather involved question. In high school I developed romantic feelings for my best friend who was also a female. At the time though I wasn't totally willing to admit to it, and I really tried to push those feelings away, and as such I ...

Has he been pressured into breaking up with me because of the age gap?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5838 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - Hi, i'm 20 and was seeing a man of 47 years old who is separated with 2 children. We met at work and started seeing each other when he had problems with his wife, who he eventually separated from. For the past year we were seeing each other and got ...

Are all guys put off by their girlfriend's sexual past?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - I'm a 19 year old who has been harshly judged by her past. Let's see... I'm now single, I guess. My (ex) B/F left me yesterday, over an issue from my past. Not the first time he's done it. However, yesterday he broke up with me, and today he wen...

I'd like some suggestions as to how we forget the past?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5838 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - I was with my boyfriend for a long over a year before we broke up. Things weren't good. When we split up, i was devestated, and rebounded almost immediately with a boyfriend, who treated me like a god. My ex and i began to get in contact again, a...

How do I get my love back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - Forgive me if this is too long- Years ago, I met a wonderful man who fell madly in love with me, back then I was not sure of the things I wanted nor was I taking things seriously. We were together for a year and one day I broke up with him because I ...

I love him more than anything and don't want our relationship to end but we're at the verge of breaking up please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5834 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - I am 27 and until last year I'd never kissed anyone, let alone anyone else. When I was at school boys just weren't interested and then when I was older I was so embarrassed by my lack of experience that if guys did show an interest I'd pretend that ...

Sticky love triangle here...what to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

30 April 2008 (M) - Hi... It all started when my mate and his girlfriend were going through problems. Me and his girlfriend had became good friends cause we spent alot of time going out and partying together with our other friends too. Then one thing led to another a...

Why can't my ex-boyfriend be my friend at least?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - I am 31 years old and many of you may be wondering what is she doing here? But believe me it gets worse with age....I fell in love with someone who dumped me 2 months ago. I didnt see him for long, only 4 months but found him to be just the kind of ...

I can't imagine leaving my family and mainly my son, but I desperately want to be with this other woman-Can I have advice please?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

30 April 2008 (M) - I have been married for the past 9 years and, like many others I'm sure, the past few years have been rocky ones. I have always done everything in my power to make my wife happy. We have moved 3 times to different homes because she wanted bigger ...

Good break up tips? How do I say goodbye?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - 8 months ago i met Shawn when i began a new job where he worked. things went pretty fast and we began to date 2 mths later. along the line, we were convinced we shld get married. but lately there've been so many issues. we had an issue last wk when ...

My ex broke up with me when I revealed my secret, I'm not handling it very well, help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5794 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - i dont want to stop loving my ex. we broke up a month ago i really believed we were perfect together, best friends but i kept a secret from him for a year. last year his friend tried it on with me but i said no. i knew this would hurt my bf so i ...

How can I tackle my insecurities and get my bf back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - Hi, I'm writing this following my bf splitting up with me last night. I know there are things about me I need to change, but not sure how. I also wonder if there's a way we can be together again - we've had some really good times and after over a...

Please Help Me!! Girlfriend wants a break but says she still loves me, still a chance for me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5836 days ago

30 April 2008 (M) - Here we go, me and my girlfriend have been going out for a little over a year and things were great in the beggining. But lately she has had alot to do and is always running around. one of my problems is that i get paranoid to easily and she tells ...

What can I do to stop these dreams about my ex and just move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5838 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - I broke up with my ex about 6 months ago. I've been having "nightmares" about him lately, despite not being n contact with him for 5 months. Summary: Together 3 years, 2 of which he was a homeless and jobless and various friends and family (incl...

My ex is text-pesting me what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5839 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - My boyfriend broke up with me about three years ago and he has been somewhat of an annoyance for about two years. Initially when he broke up with me he said that he has changed and did not feel the same way he once did about me. That was really hard ...

I've been broken up with my ex but should I tell him what my real feelings are?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - I've been broken up with my ex for almost a year, we're still friends, but I guess not "truly friends." I still think about him almost everyday, and I feel regret. He's had a girlfriend for a while now, and I'm feel the need to tell him how I'm ...

I have mixed feelings about this, will my feelings change if he chooses me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - Hi I am a young 22 yr old single mom. I am very scared because I met a married man who is ten yrs older than I am. I'm not scared because I met him but because when we talked for the first time it was for hours. We have so much in common and he is ...

He's obsessed with my past, now he's broken up with me again! Do you think he'll come back to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - He broke up with me again! He always comes back after a while, do you think he'll come back to me again? Ok, I posted about something like this a few days ago. the thing is he has issues with my past. I really love him, and apparently he do...

Scared of making a mistake since I am not sure what I want. I love him but am not IN love with him any longer!?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - Rite guys.. I've been with my boyfriend for 18 months now. But I've met some new friends when I went to college and didn't really have any this good at school. I am really ejoying goin out more and am wondering whether I would enjoy being sing...

I quit my job to be near her but due to health issues, she suddenly "erased" me from her life. Should I wait for her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

29 April 2008 (M) - I've known my girlfriend for close to 7 years but we've only been dating for 5 months. She has suffered from depression for a while now and had to move from Miami because of it. We started dating and it was like we had been together for years. Late...

We keep arguing and it's depressing, but if we break up will I ever find anyone else that will love me as much?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - hi everyone i have a question that makes me think about my relationship with my boyfriend and how long its going to last if this keeps happening. ok me and my boyfriend have been datin for almost 11months and i love him to bits but i believe that...

What is a reasonable deadline to set for him to file for divorce?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - Last year I got involved with a man - a good friend of many of my close friends. I didn't date him for several months after I met him because he is still married. His wife was serving a 3 year jail sentence. Eventually I got to know him more, and we ...

We argue, break up, get back together, argue, break up, get back together, argue...you get the idea. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - ive been dating this guy on and off for six months, we've had our fair share of arguments and we always end it, and i always try to move on but a few days later he texts me saying sorry and i always give him another chance. This has happened a lot, ...

I am heartbroken after the break up and my exams are imminent! What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 6 months now and we really love eachother. We've been living together and cause fight most of the time over silly things. Infact the phone is the cause of everything. Each time a guy calls me whether just a friend to ...

My boyfriend said he wants space -Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - Help. My boyfriend said he wants space i leave him alone for a few days then hes textin me sayin he loves me and all that. But then Says Ill Never Change he thinks im a complete bitch. And Doesnt want me no more. I think Somethings up co...

She wants a break but I only want her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

29 April 2008 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been together for three years, we are just finishing university now and shes said to me she wants a break. We got together at 18 and are both 21 now, furthermore we were best friends for a year before that. She says to ...

I sent a text to another guy and now my boyfriend doesn't want me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and i recently made our relationship official, but the other day he found text messages on my phone to another guy, though i didnt cheat or meet up with the other guy my boyfriend doesn't think he can trust me. He said he can't be with...

He is unappreciative and seems to call only when he needs me - why do I feel I can be so easily swayed by him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - Ughhh ok I am so frustrated... it honestly is an emotional roller coaster with this guy.. I talked about him earlier and I honestly thought it would be over with him- what with him not calling and all- so last night I get a call from him saying he's ...

Can I really move on from this betrayal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - My husband (then 32) and I (then 35) met 5 years ago when he was at a very low point in his life and had recently left his mentally and physically abusive first wife. It really was love at first sight for both of us and we have had what I thought ...

I want him back, but can we make it work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - My ex and I broke up a month ago, which I know is not a long time to let it heal, but the problem is that I don't want to move on and get over him - I want him back! When we broke up he told me it was because he needed time and space to sort ou...

Should I get back with him or better to forget about him because he is going to the army?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - how do i kno if my ex-boyfriend still likes me?? well my exboyfriend is 17 and im 14, he broke up with me 3 weeks ago, and we went out for about 3 weeks. the reason why he broke up with me was because he is going to the army. but i still have ...

We are very much in love, but we fight constanly, what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - Hi everyone, i have a question that has bugging me. I love my boyfriend to death, and i'd do anything to see him happy, and that's how he is with me. We get along perfectly, and we are 110% comfortable with each other. We do almost everything toge...

I'm trying to move on, but can't get my ex out of my mind. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - I am insecure about a past relationship and am stuck in between the decision of getting back together with him. We dated for around a year and we're in love, still are even though we aren't together anymore. It was a pretty rocky relationship whic...

Is he ever going to talk to me or hang out with me again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - Ok, I have a question. There's a guy a like. It's kind of an awkward situation because of our positions at work. We started talking some and hanging out a little, and he initiated most of it, but then things moved forward and we had sex. Is ...

Should I ask him how things are going with his new girlfriend? I've heard they've not been getting along well...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - Hi, my ex has been dating this other girl for a few months now, but recently they have been arguing a lot and last week he told one of my best friends that he didnt know what to do or how to feel, he said he didnt want to speak to me because he ...

Her promiscuity is bothering me since we split up...am I being territorial or should I talk with her about this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

28 April 2008 (M) - hey guys Ive been split with my girlfriend for a few weeks now, we seem able to get along well as friends on th odd occasion we bump into each other. We agree that we dont want to be with each other (13months was more than enough at my age (18)) sh...

My ex is now back with her ex and they may be getting married! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5824 days ago

28 April 2008 (M) - hi, my girlfriend broke up with some months back simply because she heard from people things we had together without confronting me to confirm if it was true or not (i got to know about this from her friend). now she's gone back to her ex, i heard ...

We are total opposites and I don't see a future for us, having many joint arrangements makes a possible separation more difficult and confusing!? Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

28 April 2008 (M) - I have been with my g/f for 3 years and two months i am 24 and she is 21, recently things have been going down hill and we have been drifting apart, this has been happening for a while, i dont want to hurt her on one hand by bringing this up but ...

How could she be happy and having fun after completely breaking my heart?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

28 April 2008 (M) - Ok so I have a problem. I know its just stupid but I was dating this girl for about 6 months and she broke up with me over the phone right before I had to be at work and she never gave me a reason or anything like that. I never had any closure to ...

How can I keep money from breaking us up again? We are supposed to pool our resources, right?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5841 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - Hi guys, so i'm redating my ex. i'm 30 he is 36. It's all going really well, and i'm happy with how things are. There is just one problem- money- again. We were in low pay jobs before and didnt have enough cash to live from. we borrowed from fa...

He keeps bringing up my past and spoiling our relationship, please help me sort this out.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5841 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - I'm confused... My BF had broken up with me, not the first time, really... I just don't get it! I love him very very very veeeery much! And I wish we could sort this out, I don't know what to do/think/feel... He broke up with me because he gets...

She finished with me saying she has too many emotional issues from her last relationship which was abusive?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5841 days ago

27 April 2008 (M) - Should i wait for my girlfriend. She finished with me saying she has too many emotional issues from her last relationship which was abusive.I begged her to give us a second chance and she agreed but needs more space and time. I love her so much but ...

Is there a way for me to forget the past?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5841 days ago

27 April 2008 (M) - help My current girlfriend has loved me for years. At the beginning she had almost no self esteem and asked me to a fireworks evening with her and a bi female. I turned her down and she went heartbroken with this female. The girl told her she lik...

My girlfriend of 20 months just decided that she wanted a "break" in order to enjoy being "single" again ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5841 days ago

27 April 2008 (M) - My girlfriend of 20 months just decided that she wanted a "break" in order to enjoy being "single" again and wants to try dating other people (thought she doesn't have anyone in mind). She also says it'll be healthy for us because she felt like ...

I miss my wife. I just do not know what to do!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

27 April 2008 (M) - My wife has told me that she wants to separate and get a divorce. This came after many years of emotional abuse from my bipolar disorder. This is now no longer a problem due to accepting Jesus back into my heart and medication. During our last ...

Get back together with him and risk going through all that stress or try to move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5841 days ago

27 April 2008 (F) - I had this boyfriend for a year. On and Off and went through all this bullshit. We're in love. Even though we're young. We always went back to each other no matter what. The last time we broke up, Christmas even 2007, i wouldnt get back togethe...

It still hurts when I think of how little my ex gave me emotionally. how do I get over it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

27 April 2008 (F) - Hello =] I broke up with my boyfriend of almost 2 years over a month ago. The relationship was pretty much a chore and I always knew he didnt love me as much as I did with him. I always used to spend my money on him but rarely got anythng back. It...

He borke up with me but now he wants me back-what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5841 days ago

27 April 2008 (F) - i am confused. i had this boyfriend and then he broke up with me (a while ago). i still liked him for a while and then all of a sudden my friend came to me and told me he was regretting breaking up with me. then i got a note from him saying he was ...

I can't say NO to her. I want to make her happy even if I am not. How do we untangle this mess?.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5841 days ago

27 April 2008 (M) - In the past ten years I can only think of only two time that I have been happy. The first time was when I enlisted in the Marine Corps. I served in Iraq from the start until June 2003(being a senior unit and having been stateside for one month out ...

I deleted his porn and now he wants a divorce!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5841 days ago

27 April 2008 (F) - Our sex life is not normal, he watches porn (as he says rarely and not an addict). He has a huge porn collection of DVDs, webcam recordings, photos, downloaded porn. He went on a trip with his college friends and I found a receipt that he renewed ...