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Archived questions from: December, 2015 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

Husband's left for Pakistan. I'm in a terrible dilemma

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3038 days ago

31 December 2015 (F) - My husband has decided to return to Pakistan, I know he does miss his country. He knows I do not really want to go there as I am not a family person and he has a large family. He has basically told me that if I do not go with him then he will get...

He and I have dated for 18 years but he's become less interested. Should I move on to this younger man I've been talking to?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3035 days ago

30 December 2015 (M) - I am a gay man, an I have been with my bf for 18yrs, in 2010 I was diagnosed with Hiv he was not and then I was admitted to hospital with pneumonia and nearly died my CD4 count was 19 in a healthy human it's over 500 and in the thousands. Throug...

Are we through? I can't tell

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3039 days ago

30 December 2015 (F) - I have recently ended a relationship with a guy who I was with for 14 months. We had hit a hard patch and argued a lot over the last month or so, specifically over his army career which was hindering our relationship. I have been cheated on in th...

Broke up with boyfriend of 5 years, but was it the right decision?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3039 days ago

30 December 2015 (F) - I was with my boyfriend for a little over 5 years. We broke up the 26th. A little rundown about what happened. We really did have an amazing relationship. We had serious talks about our future, kids, getting a house together, etc. It was my first ...

My boyfriend breaks up then texts me, wants to have sex and then blows me off!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3040 days ago

29 December 2015 (F) - So my boyfriend of 4 years broke up with me almost a month ago because he believed a relationship was not his best interest and I deserved better but still wanted us to be friends. It was a very emotional break up for the both of us. However, ...

I regret taking my Bf back. I've fallen for one of my other friends. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3040 days ago

29 December 2015 (F) - So I've been with my boyfriend for about a year... And we've broken up quite a bit, but we ended up getting back together again. Today was one of those days, and he begged me to take him back. I agreed, which I really regret now. I no longer f...

How do I end this 5 year relationship with the man I love?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3036 days ago

29 December 2015 (F) - Finally working up the nerve to end five years relationship. I'm 33, he is 39. I love him, but this cycle of feeling happy then miserable is wearing on me...a lot. Most recent event: he blew me off on Christmas. To help myself move forward wit...

Am I falling out of love? Four years together

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3041 days ago

28 December 2015 (F) - Hi there, first of all thank you for taking the time to give me advice! Right so I have been with my boyfriend for nearly four years. Bit of background of our relationship.. we met and I was actually with someone else but nothing happened we ...

Why can't I leave this pill popping pot smoking drunk?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3033 days ago

28 December 2015 (F) - Hi everyone, I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost 3 years and he's a major pill addict and smokes pot and is an alcoholic. Trust me I had no idea he did all these things when we started dating. We now live together with my ...

Where do I stand in this? FWB but I get no respect and he insults me.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3040 days ago

27 December 2015 (F) - Im a first year student who has got into a friends with benefits relationship with a guy who doesn't respect me. We had drunken sex in the first couple of weeks of university a few times, we then didn't see each other for a while but now it has s...

What's the best way to call it quits?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3042 days ago

27 December 2015 (M) - My question is: Is it acceptable to split up with a woman via email or over the phone. I have been dating for someone for about 4 months but it isn't going anywhere and I would like to end it. I want to do it properly in the right way. I was going ...

How do I attract and choose the right men?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3041 days ago

27 December 2015 (F) - I just recently ended my 3rd serious relationship. We were long distance and he was very selfish and emotionally abusive. However, the pattern remains the same. I meet a guy, we get attached very quickly, after a month or so he says he loves me...

I like her, but want to move on. How?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3038 days ago

27 December 2015 (M) - Hi, I'm currently seeing this girl who I've been speaking to for a few months now. We aren't in a relationship but just speaking and seeing each other. We partially speak every day and see each other at least every week. Problem is, she is s...

Why has my boyfriend suddenly gone nasty?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3043 days ago

26 December 2015 (F) - my boyfriend has been letting me down a lot recently so i told him i was having a week to myself to clear my head he said he was fine with this . i messaged him on facebook today (a week later) and could see he had read the message 2 hours later he...

My ex is calling me a whore and a liar. It bothers me! Would anyone else feel the same?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3043 days ago

26 December 2015 (F) - I'm in a bad situation and I don't know what to do about it. Apologies if this quite a long question. I can't really talk to my family because they all have quite decent lives and I feel like a bit of a black sheep. Anyway I've been seeing m...

My mother passed away today, and I feel like a bad son!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3042 days ago

25 December 2015 (M) - My mother past away today, she was 84, she been in bad health all year, she is in a better place now, but am I a bad son, my girlfriend broke up with me , three weeks ago, am thinking about her more, I love my mom, but my heart is broken, over a ...

I love my husband but I'm thinking of leaving me as his illness is draining me. At the cross roads. Can you please help with advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3044 days ago

24 December 2015 (F) - I am seriously thinking about leaving my husband. I wish I could discuss this with my friends, but I can't do it without divulging certain details from my husband's life. Not only I do not want to do it, I firmly believe I don't have the right to do ...

Do I wait this breakup out? Or take a different approach with my ex Gf?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3044 days ago

24 December 2015 (F) - Ex gf will not stop calling and texting. I have been patiently waiting it out thinking and hoping she would see her vain attempts and stop. She has gotten worse. Every other day, and several times a day. I am so tempted to call this harassing c...

Should I walk away from a man who is 90% perfect for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3045 days ago

24 December 2015 (F) - My boyfriend and I broke up in the end of October. We were arguing a lot. He says I'm too aggressive. As a native New Yorker I do have an edge. He's from the country with a very carefree laid back attitude. Our lease was up in December. We decided ...

how do I message her and ask to meet without sounding desperate?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3045 days ago

24 December 2015 (M) - Background: Girl and me, said we loved each other, she said she needed space, gave her space for 1 month, she broke the silence by sending me a heart. I said she was beautiful and to tell me what she wanted, only friends, nothing more. I then mes...

Confrontation. Was it right to not confront him? Does it seem as if I didn't stand up for myself?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3046 days ago

23 December 2015 (F) - I dated a guy for 2 months then he stopped responding to my messages one day. I didn't confront him about it or anything, I was actually about to be going on a trip so I didn't have time for the drama. 2 weeks later while I'm on my trip he tells me ...

I'm upset by this situation, why is he acting this way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3046 days ago

22 December 2015 (F) - I started to see Mr unavailable last year,he did then didn't want a relationship as can't form them due to every night in pub and just too selfish (his words). I told him we can be friends he admitted to loving me. I told him its too confusing and ...

We "click" but he's married! Did I do the right thing?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3046 days ago

22 December 2015 (F) - Hello. Thank you in advance for reading this. My dilemma is that I met a man with whom I have a strong connection, understanding and physical attraction....but unfortunately he is married with 2 children. We met via a study forum and met ...

My ex shut his heart against love but after 2 years apart I still want him back

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3047 days ago

22 December 2015 (F) - Hi, I am 27 and I am only interested in men much older than me. There are certain qualities that I am looking for in a man that can only exist in older men. I hate young men and everything about them. Young men disgust me. I don't mind an age gap of ...

How can someone change so much so fast? I think it's his mother and his friends influencing him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3048 days ago

21 December 2015 (F) - He has changed so much in the past year, I do not even recognize him. When we met we were both in college but he was getting ready to graduate. He was a huge nerd always playing Magic the Gathering, and he was very sweet. He had like a 1930's cl...

He is in denial. How can I get my alcoholic ex to see sense over his heavy sustained alcohol consumption?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3048 days ago

21 December 2015 (F) - My finance loves to drink. he wont go one week without drinking and it can carry on for days. It causing problems in all areas of his life such as our relationship, jobs and his health. he admitted he has a problem before and went to an AA meeting...

A volatile relationship at it's end. Can you offer advice on how I go forward ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3048 days ago

21 December 2015 (F) - Hello I have been in a bad relationship since I was 16 years old. Pregnant at 19 and now 11 years later. 3 kids. A house. I have myself a good job. I have always supported him financially. He hasnt work since our oldest now 8 was one year old. He...

I'm still in love with my ex! We talk all the time and I just can't move on. Advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2630 days ago

20 December 2015 (F) - I had been dating this guy who I met online back 2014, we talked FOREVER and got to know each other so well, we got along, we agreed on everything, he was perfect for me.. He admitted he loved me over the phone (during those 5am calls that lasted 10 ...

Am I hoping for too much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3049 days ago

20 December 2015 (F) - ive been in a 'relationship' for about 2 months, its official as in its on facebook so all our family and friends know. we havent slept together yet . its quite pathetic really because weve only met once a month ago his dad had a serious accident ...

I want to back to FWB or stop talking to him completely, however, we work together! What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3049 days ago

19 December 2015 (F) - I hooked up with a friend. It's over now after 3 months. We work in the same department, are still friends and spend time together but I either want that arrangement back or want to stop talking to him completely. But we need to interact everyday at ...

She took the presents and ran

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3048 days ago

19 December 2015 (M) - Hello was dating this woman for a short time. I just gave her Christmas presents, then next day she broke up with me. Should I ask for them back?...

Men only want me for sex and my friends only call when they need something

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3051 days ago

18 December 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid Sorry for ranting I'm in my late 30's, had 2 long term relationship. Ex bf wanted to marry a hot girl after being with me for 5 years. Ex husband is so clingy and jealous and emotions and physical abuser, had to end it. Little...

I need to walk away but I'm finding that terribly difficult. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3051 days ago

18 December 2015 (F) - Hi there, My problem is that at the moment I'm finding it hard to cope. I have been seeing this guy but I just don't think it's going to work out. I was so scared of letting someone into my heart, but he was there for me all the time, being supp...

Some signs that the relationship is becoming toxic. Are these the signs that indicate it's time to break-up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3043 days ago

17 December 2015 (F) - These are the reasons I think that quantifies ending a marriage (hopefully no kids will be affected) BUT I don't want to promote divorce so please argue with me on this: - you stop being who you are and change into someone you're not comforta...

Any chance of fixing something this broken?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3052 days ago

17 December 2015 (M) - I started speaking to a girl over the summer as we were living in the same university halls, we got on really well and connected instantly. we spoke everyday and she even mentioned that it took me ages to reply. we met up when we both had moved in...

What can I do about threats my ex is alleged to have told my sister, all about my planned trip to see my new Bf?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3051 days ago

16 December 2015 (F) - I was with my ex boyfriend for 3 months and to to say the least he was difficult and seemed to think he was some kind of father figure to me as my parents are dead and he was 14 years older than me Now I have met a guy on America who I have planned ...

Fed up of being the one to make the situation better. Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3052 days ago

16 December 2015 (F) - Hi, im 17 year old girl who has split from my boyfriend 8 months now, we ended it on good terms as we thought it was best. This has not been the case, at first he was pleasant and understanding; and then he started to act cocky and made comments...

Do I give him a heads up? Go shopping with him despite what I know? Or just drop him and move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3053 days ago

16 December 2015 (F) - Should I give this guy a chance? For the past year I have been online dating, I have deleted my profiles now as I've not had much luck with it and have been messed about by one guy I really liked. Since July I have been chatting to this other g...

I know he wants children and I don't, so what's the best way to go about ending the marriage?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3052 days ago

15 December 2015 (F) - I've been married for 2 years and have been with my husband 8 years before we got married. I never wanted children - he did. I was honest from the start about children- he was upset- understandably but accepted that we wouldn't have any and th...

Maybe I'm not good looking enough for her? How to get over this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3054 days ago

15 December 2015 (M) - Hello! So basically I've developed some insecurity issues lately because my girlfriend dumped me without explaining why. I tried asking her but it was to no avail she just won't tell me.I really did treat her well, I spent all of my free time wi...

Is is possible she thought I was breaking up with her? After our rose petal dance?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3054 days ago

15 December 2015 (M) - Am writing again, about what I wrote before, about the rose's, well women are saying to me, that I shouldn't of walk out right after wards, cause she didn't say anything nice to me about it, I've been told, she might of thought, I was breaking up ...

Staring at other women, odd porn sites on his phone.... am I wasting my time with him?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3050 days ago

15 December 2015 (F) - Hi just wanting some advise really. My boyfriend who I've been seeing for 18 months had a porn site on his phone history a while back. I didn't go snooping he had handed me the phone himself. I guess he had forgotten it was in his history anyway h...

I still believe he is "the one". Any idea what's up in this LDR?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3055 days ago

14 December 2015 (F) - Hello I am trying to keep it short but I m very glad for your guys feedback. My boyfriend, i mean my ex and i were having an long distance relationship. we tried to see each other every 2 weeks. 2 weeks ago we had our first intense argue. we...

Might it be possible for him to be friends with me again? Or did my cousin say something to upset him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2980 days ago

13 December 2015 (F) - So in July of 2013 I started working at this new place. And well I became friends with one of my co-workers. He had a family (girlfriend, and 2 kids with a 3rd on the way) well I fell for him. And he knew I liked him. I ended up losing my virgin...

Is it best to end my relationship now? Or does he just need time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3054 days ago

13 December 2015 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for over 3 years. He's my best friend and we had plans to buy a house together in 2016. He's been very hot and cold on the subject and I find myself worrying about our relationship more and more. He's promised me ...

How can I make him leave his girlfriend for me???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3055 days ago

13 December 2015 (F) - So long story short, (and don't hate me) but I just recently started cheating on my bf of 4 years (this is the first time I've ever done it and we also don't live together) with a guy who also has a gf that he lives with and they have a 6 year old ...

He seems to feel resentment towards me. Should I sever contact with him and leave him alone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3056 days ago

13 December 2015 (F) - Ok, the story goes thus. I jilted a guy that liked me when I was 17 in the university some years back. I wasn't dating guy no 1 in particular but he had voiced out his intentions. I made him wait and then dated another guy. I remember the look on ...

Was this a marriage proposal?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2740 days ago

12 December 2015 (F) - I'm not sure if I got a marriage proposal last night or not. I know that sounds strange, let me explain. It was a spur of the moment kinda thing, no ring or anything. We were walking around our local park which is decorated in christmas lights i...

Why can't he tell me what's wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3057 days ago

12 December 2015 (F) - Hi I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years at first everything was good n we got on really well we still don't argue now, but he's changed. He always seems very quiet and bad tempered lately which he never used to be. The affection and everything ...

He takes me for granted and I want to leave him. What's my best strategy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3056 days ago

11 December 2015 (F) - i hate everything my boyfriend says or does he has become a pain in my ass..... He is self centered and only treats me like a lump of shit...he is 24 hours on a stupid game...on his phone i dont mean anything to him he isnt how he was...he has star...