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Archived questions from: August, 2007 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

What should I do? How do I think, she won't even talk to me, I know that she needs space but I'm getting killed here...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6077 days ago

31 August 2007 (M) - My name is Greg and I'm 21 next month, Well a little over a year ago I broke up with my first serious relationship, she totally smashed me in every way but I played the good guy card and ended up hurting myself in the end and I broke it off. A...

How can I break it off with her after all this time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6077 days ago

31 August 2007 (M) - I want to quit my present relationship because there's no communication, she does not call. I'm tired of it and not happy most times when I flash back. How do I break this relationship of 1 year and 7 months?...

I would like to know your opinions on whether he still may want to give the relationship another go.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6077 days ago

31 August 2007 (F) - The March break of this year i told this guy that i like him over msn. After a long while he typed back that he liked me to. (he said that th elong wait was because he had to go eat dinner). We decided to meet each other at lunch. We ate lunch ...

I broke up, as I'm going abroad! Is he trying to distance himself or am I being the sensitive one?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6077 days ago

31 August 2007 (F) - my boyfriend and i just broke up because i'm going abroad but he's staying behind for one more year of school. He's what you call my typical 'first love'. Now that we aren't with one another, and i'll tell him 'i miss you' over the phone or online ...

How do I break up with him, if I'm interested in preserving the friendship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6077 days ago

31 August 2007 (F) - I need ways to break up with a guy! Somthing that would make us stay friends... any ideas?...

Im still not getting over her. This has been the worst summer ever. She hasn't even said thank you for the birthday card I sent her!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6064 days ago

31 August 2007 (M) - Hi everyone. It's got to the point where I feel stupid to keep troubling you with my problems, whenever they are so small. Nevertheless, they continue to trouble me. I don't know if it's all part of being dumped by your first love or whatever, ...

I've been engaged to him for over 4 years, suddenly he wants to break it off despite of the fact he says he loves me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

31 August 2007 (F) - i have been engaged for 4 1/2 yrs to a great man. Suddenly he wants to break it off says its not working but loves me and tells me every day. i am heart broken and could never imagine being with anyone else. i talk about us everyday and cry and ...

We're on the verge of breaking up. My girlfriend has said she's not happy. Can I still fix this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6077 days ago

31 August 2007 (M) - I think i might be on the verge of a breakup. my girlfriend recently told me that she is very unhappy about some things and the she is reconsidering the relationship. weve been together for two years and i love her more than anything in the world. ...

It feels very much as if I am being kept in limbo or maybe he is playing mindgames with me? How can a person go from being very attentive to nothing?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6077 days ago

31 August 2007 (F) - Can anybody shed some light please...? I split with my boyfriend just over a week ago, I ended the relationship 'stupidly' due to my insecurities and trust issues, I love him and believe he loves me, he ignored all my attempts at making up with h...

I'm scared to death because my boyfriend is stalking me..

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6075 days ago

31 August 2007 (F) - okay heres the thing! I'm scared to death because my boyfriend is stalking me.. he loves me so much. He cries every time we part. Okay it may seem sweet but it gets annoying. He wants to marry me, and we have only been togetehr for 2 weeks.. he ...

I think my guy likes his ex still. I want to break up with him but I dont think he's taking me seriously??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - hi stright to the point am i his rebound??? well ive been with my man for a year and a few months and well, he went thru a bad break up with his gf of like 9 months and she treated him real bad, i knew her. me and him where friends but i kn...

He's so controlling towards me all the time.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 9 months coming to 10 months, since we've been together we have so many arguments and hes so possessive, he always tells me what I can and can't do, he's stopped me from seeing my friends even at work I'm not allowed ...

Should I wait around or should I just leave and forget about him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have lived together for about 2 years. I love him dearly, and we have had some trust issues lately. He has lied to me a few times about dumb things so it made me be a little paranoid. He doesn't like the fact that I snoop through ...

I'm 11 and me and my girlfriend keep breaking up. Should we be together? Help please.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6076 days ago

30 August 2007 (M) - me and my girlfreind keep breaking up and getting back together over and over should we be together i am eleven...

He broke up with me and I texted him that I love him but got no reply!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6076 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - My ex has been to pick up his things and we sat and chatted for a whole hour and a half and he was saying things like he needs time off work and hes not feeling well etc. He works as a Taxi Driver and lives over 200 miles away we met on the internet ...

My boyfriend is breaking up with me cause he says I dont trust him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - hi,my partner said he is leaving me!!!!!!! he recently found out that he has an 18 year old daughter from a woman he went out with at school, then had a 1 night stand with her a few years later, i accepted he had a daughter, we havent got kids ...

Having a mild depression, what can I expect after a break-up, and how can I get over this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6079 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - This is my first break-up ever and neither does my mother, sister or best friend had ever had this experience. What can I expect after a break-up?. I just took an online depression quiz and it seems I might have a mild depression. I'm constantly ...

My girlfriend ended the relation as I went to a festival unaccompanied by her, now she regrets it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

29 August 2007 (M) - Hi, I have a problem with my Girlfriend of 4 years. I'm 21 now and we've been together for 4 years... We've had arguments before, but who hasn't... Our relationship was stressed by me going to university but we have managed to get throug...

Partner of 11 years dumped me cause i'm fat and i've taken him back but i cant forget what he said. what should i do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - ok help my ex broke up with me said he dont love me. and im to fat. he moved out. we were together 11 yrs have 2 kids.but he only moved out for couple of wks then came back as he broke up with his new gf.but now his here sleeping in my bed and i ...

How can the man I love truely of done this to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6079 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - Am so down and hurting. How can the man I have love truely do this to me. And for my stupidity and low self esteem, I couldn't break up with him. It hurts my somuch. I have tried to forgive him but I always remember and that is . I remember going...

Every time I see something that reminds me of my ex girlfriend I break down into tears. Please help...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6077 days ago

29 August 2007 (M) - My gf has just broken up with me and i'm not handling it very well. I feel as if i'm slipping into depression and nothing seems worth doing. I truly loved this girl and was convinced that i wanted to be with her for life. When I used to tell her ...

Is it worth continuing to talk to her or should I just give up and move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6079 days ago

29 August 2007 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been going out for almost 3 years and she never introduce me to her parents. I kept asking her when and she keeps saying not now and making excuses and such. Early this year we broke up for no apparent reason. She was ...

Should i try again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6079 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - I have been broken up from my ex for 3 yrs in Oct. I am still madly in love w/ him and I don't know if he is w/ me. We only dated 5 mths but we lived together and broke up really badly. It was just sort of one phone call and me saying I'm done ...

Shouldn't we just 'get over it' if we break up with someone? Anyone believe this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6079 days ago

29 August 2007 (M) - Hi there..i know this is a pretty random question..but id like to know.... Who belives that when you break up with someone .. or when someone tells you the truth and its not what you wanted to hear .. that theres no real point sulking and feel...

She's very affectionate with her male friend..trying not to jump to conclusion but struggling here. Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5897 days ago

29 August 2007 (M) - Hi, I've been with my g/f for 3 years and although we're currently living 50 miles away cos of my work, I hoped she could move to be with me soon, We get to see each other at only weekends, I haven't been pushy asking her to move as I know it would ...

Is it fair that this little girl doesn't know the truth of why her Mom and Dad broke up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

28 August 2007 (F) - My boyfriend's daughter who is 7 years old told me she wants to know why her mom and my boyfriend got separated. She doesn't understand why everyone keep telling her they will explain to her when she is 17-18. The truth is her mom had an affair with ...

I told him he will get his things back when he returns the money he owes me; we're separated and I still love him...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6079 days ago

28 August 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and i broke up 3 months ago... After being together for 7 years. Since we broke up i lent him $400 and has not paid me back and he won't take my calls, well i took some stuff of his from his place and i told him he will get them bac...

My hubby's jealousy has gotten worse since knowing about my affair 6 years ago; I'm afraid to leave him, as he'd kill me and my potential lover...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

28 August 2007 (F) - My husband has always been really jealous. He's always wanting to fight with me and other people if I even talk to another guy. But it has gotten worse since he found out that I cheated on him with his best friend six years ago. We had not seen ...

My dad has just died and my guy has finished with me, I cant stop crying. Help me out please?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

28 August 2007 (F) - Please help me, in the early hours of Friday morning my fiance finished with me, reason being that he simply doesnt feel the same anymore. We have been together almost 3 years, engaged for almost 1 - he proposed on christmas morning. The year ...

How can I end my relationship with the married man I'm seeing?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5207 days ago

28 August 2007 (F) - I have been seeing a married man for the past 11 months, at first it was going out for drinks and clubbing. He is working in my town and soon his job will be over. He stays here all week and goes home at weekends, which recently is becoming less ...

I feel so bad for ending it with my ex - he is completely devastated!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

28 August 2007 (F) - I've just come through what has to be the worst few days of my life. i broke up with my boyfriend of 4 months knowing that the spark or excitement had never really existed between us. i know i will miss him but i can see that there's someone better ...

How do I stop my ex from harassing me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

27 August 2007 (F) - My partner of 8 years whom I have 2 children with left me 2 and a half years ago for my friend. The problem is he keeps pestering me for sex and every time he sees me he touches me and I have even told his girlfriend but she did not believe me. What...

He is happy and going to marry another girl. How do I behave around him??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6081 days ago

27 August 2007 (F) - Hello, I was deeply in love with a boy from past 10 years. But now when we were around to marry,he has broken-up with me(9months back) saying that my parents are delaying our marriage and he can't wait for me.(Although they had genuine reasons ...

We broke up but he cant make up his mind what he wants. I've got a plan. What do you think??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6079 days ago

27 August 2007 (F) - Crossroads and a "gentle ultimatum"? So, I have written before (and so appreciate the advice and comments from a caring community, TY!) about my 2+ year relationship with a man who says he doesn't know what he wants, whom I love, whom I believe l...

We split a month ago and I've tried dating someone else but cant get my ex out mr head!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

27 August 2007 (F) - So me and my boyfriend broke up like a month and a half ago. we dated for a little over 6 months. I just cant seem to get him out of my mind. i started talking to one guy and he was really nice but everytime we were together i just couldnt get ...

She was blowing hot and cold so I ended it. How do you move on from someone you still love?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

27 August 2007 (M) - I just recently ended a relationship with a girl that almost lasted nine months. this is by far my longest relationship and i just need some help on how to cope with it. i did not want to leave her, but she was not sure if she wanted to be with me ...

I meesed up with my guy, now he wont talk to me! Whats the best thing to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6082 days ago

26 August 2007 (F) - Is the saying 'If you love someone set them free - if it's meant to be - they will come back' - true ? I broke up with my bf for the wrong reasons and have hurt him, i miss him greatly and love him sincerly, when we were seeing each other he told me ...

I left my husband for him and now he has gone cold on me and is dating someone else!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6082 days ago

26 August 2007 (F) - I had an affair with a coleague of work. Everything started because I was unhappy on my marriage and his girfriend had left him. We were also very good friends and he always told me that he was still in love with her. 1 and 1/2 has passed and I left ...

My ex keeps coming into my work. What does he want???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6082 days ago

26 August 2007 (F) - EX HELP WANTED..... Ok story is my ex and i broke up 7 months ago, he did the breaking but secretly i was releived even though it hurt. We stayed in contact and we still get on so well, flirting and and he buys me things and makes me cds and thing...

I cant get over my ex, i'm giving up on love!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6082 days ago

26 August 2007 (M) - Sorry to be such a pain but nothing is cheering me up I have no enthusiasm for any activities anymore I had been enjoying before Kim dumped me and she hasn't called me , sorry to keep going on but everything is reminding me of her , I have TMF on ...

I have a date lined up but i still think about my ex!!! help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6082 days ago

26 August 2007 (M) - Hello everyone, A brief synopsis of my recent history with my ex follows: She broke up with me nine and a half weeks ago. Other than a few stupid things I did via Facebook, I never initiated any contact with her. About two and a half weeks ...

We are splitting up, i'm real sad, please help.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6082 days ago

26 August 2007 (F) - So i wrote the other day about the guy i loved having sex with someone else at the start of summer. Today he and i spoke and we had agreed to not be exclusive because we are both going to college. Although i feel it is the right thing to do i am ...

My ex wants to meet up, she's with someone new but calls him boring. Should i meet up with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6082 days ago

26 August 2007 (M) - Another EX-File... THE BACKROUND: I broke up with my GF of 1.5 years about four months ago. She made me feel like I was never doing enough for her no matter how hard I tried, or that her feelings of insecurity were my personal responsibility. ...

How can I prove to my parents I haven't gotten my girlfriend (ex) pregnant???

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

26 August 2007 (M) - Hi my relationship with my girlfriend ended suddenly and today I decided I couldn't hang on to items and Projects that I did when I was with her and one of the things I tore up was a list that she made of me called The Pro's and Cons of dating ...

I work with my ex and she is being nasty and abusive towards me; all I wish is to get on with my life.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6083 days ago

25 August 2007 (M) - Hi, a bit of a problem, Ex wont leave me alone...?!?! Im single for about 2 months now and I work with my ex for another month or so, but she is being nasty and abusive towards me. I'm trying to lose contact with her but no matter what I do sh...

I need help healing and getting through this breakup

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5929 days ago

25 August 2007 (F) - Need help healing - my question is mainly - how can I get through this "breakup"? Background follows: I just ended a casual relationship with a guy that I have had a friendship/flirtship with for over a year. We work at the same company. For th...

My boyfriend is moving away. How can I maintain this relationship and not sound all lame and cliche?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5808 days ago

25 August 2007 (F) - My boyfriend of 4 months is leaving the country soon to start a new job. Things have been fairly casual between us as we both have been really busy with work but everytime we are together we have a great time and I really thought this would have ...

We argued a lot, and now she dumped me for someone else

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6083 days ago

25 August 2007 (M) - so there was this girl that i started to like but i kept it to myself and i found out she was keeping it to herself too. so we found each other after 8 months then we dated for 3 weeks, when we were alone we had so much compatible but when we were ...

We broke up, but I'm still bothered by him seeing other girls

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6083 days ago

25 August 2007 (F) - Lived with longtime boyfriend of 6 yrs, Moved out because he did not want to take the next step, he has committment issues (at 45 yrs of age) also he wants to date other woman. But he still continues to text, email, calls to ask me out to dinner...

After we broke up, he was pleasant, but mentioned other girls, what does that mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6084 days ago

25 August 2007 (F) - I hope someone can help me. I ended a relationship with my boyfriend a couple of months ago because there was someone else he was seeing...he admitted it. I had to get in touch with him last week. I got this machine and he promptly called back. He ...