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Archived questions from: December, 2008 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

How to resolve this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 326 days ago

31 December 2008 (M) - hi, i just posted the other one, look, anyway, i just told her about it, god i wanna kill myslef, i don't deserve to live. she says she won't break up with me and that i gave her a chance when she hurt me and she said she won't tell her parents. god ...

Resolution Number 1 Equals The End of The Affair?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 324 days ago

31 December 2008 (M) - Well, I've gone and done it. I've put an end to my affair. Full stop. Thanks for help Dear Cupids. Your advice and guidance have given me strength to resolve my feelings (or, at least, make a start). Resolve not revolve. Finished going round in...

How do I get over this guy I've been in love with 5 months?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 319 days ago

31 December 2008 (M) - HEy you guys!!!its lotmoney13 Well i have this thought that it would be nice to start off the new year NOT being in a heart-ache! so yeah i'm still in love with HIM, but i'd really like to move on now! So i'm asking for advice on how to get...

He treated me like a doormat, this time I stood up for myself but now I feel bad!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 326 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - I left a message on here yesterday about how my boyfriend told me to leave him alone, resulting in me leaving him last night because i could not handle the way he was with me anymore. Well about 20 minutes ago i recieved a text off him, asking ...

How can I make it up to her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 325 days ago

31 December 2008 (?) - My girlfriend, Sydney (of four years) is mad at me because I forgot her birthday (again I did it to her last year as well). This time she let me gave it and ended sleeping at a friend's house. To matters worse when I called her to apologize and ask ...

Does he want to work things out or is it just the loneliness of the holidays?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 326 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - i love my ex boyfriend with all my heart, he was my first love, and we left our relationship in July quite estranged, and abrupt. there wasn't much closure, the reasons for the break up wasn't due to any third party at all, just, circumstantial i ...

After our breakup, I want to return a gift he gave me a year ago - should I?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 325 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - Well, my ex broke up with me a second time. He broke up with me because I guess he lost that feeling to care about me anymore. Don't get me wrong but, I gave him everything and gave him space. I treated him like a kind and I was very kind to him. He ...

Am I being too clingy after we've broken up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 327 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - I posted before about the problem about my relationship. I had a fight with my boyfriend and texted that I want to end the relationship with him because of anger. Surprisingly, he texted back okay and we haven't texted/talked ever since. But from ...

Can you worry yourself sick?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 327 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I just broke up on Sunday and I have been worrying trying to figure out "What went wrong?" "What could I have done differently?" and such... because we seemed so happy together... I cried for 7 hours straight and only got 3 hours...

I just don't understanding why he's doing this if he has already let go and moved on??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 327 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I broke up 3 months ago, the breakup was not overly negative. We had no contact since, but I know that ocasionally, he still goes into the 'network myspace' to view my social profile and updates, another thing is he still has not ...

Is it worth trying to get him back? He's fallen in love with someone else.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 327 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for 1 and half years and we have just split up. i just dont know what to do. he joined friends reunited and got in contact with a girl he knew at school, they have been chatting on msn and texting and apparently have ...

How to end my relationship, without breaking her heart??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 326 days ago

30 December 2008 (M) - I have recently posted a question asking whether i should stay with my girlfriend or not. After alot of thinking i have decided to end things, my question is How do i tell her i want to end things, i love her so much and i know this will upset her ...

Should I stay with a money leech?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 324 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - my question is why does my boyfriend keep asking me for money? he says he needs help paying rent. hes got a job i think? not unless hes been kicked out of work and not bothered to tell me? sometimes its £100 or £300. i told him all this money ...

Tried to get through, came back to bite me in the butt

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 327 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - Well, I guess I was wrong. He ended up taking his wife back and it was the Saturday before X-mas eve and I found out on X-mas eve by driving by his house and seeing her car in the drive way, he says he didn't want to hurt me but not only did he hurt ...

I'd like to get him to take the first steps. How can I do this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 325 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - Hey, I've got a problem and are looking for a solution. Maybe here I can get some help? I had a wonderful relationship but all of a sudden my partner became weird, didn't talk as openly to me as he did before, started to draw back. Then he broke up...

I'm afraid ill lose him

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 325 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - Ok well my boyfriend has sooo many friends that are girls and he hands out with them more than me and he's always sayin jokes like sayin he madeout with another girl. He talks to other girls more than me and he liked 4 other girls awhile back. He ...

Leave him alone for good?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 326 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - I recently had a fight on christmas day with my boyfriend after we've been together for a year and I slapped him, he got mad and left. I called him we argued and he said "you what we should just be friends for a while because I'm tired of fighting", ...

How do I make a decision when I have strong feelings for both of them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 328 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - I had been dating a man for over two years. As he is in mining he was hardly ever home, and I lived about two hours away and would travel to see him when he was. We were in love, but then when I suggested it was time for us to live together he ...

How can I stop being so insecure about all of this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 299 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - Okay this is my first question on this site and its kind of a simple question but requires a lot of background. So here goes: About 5 and a half years ago I started dating this guy. We were both real young at the time and he is my best friends ...

Confused over breakup?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 328 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - My Boyfriend just broke up with me today... we have been together for about, a year and half a month.. so im hurting quite a bit. thing is i dont exactly know why we broke up.. i mean hes not sure eather, he said he didnt want to break up with me...

What do I have to do so he realizes that she is not meant for him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 328 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - So the first day of class this semester, i got my eye on this one really cute guy. I guess he noticed, because that weekend he started texting me. He got my number from one of his friends that i was good friends with. We texted that whole weekend, ...

Should I contact her or is this a lost cause?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 328 days ago

29 December 2008 (M) - Hi, 3 months ago I left my girlfriend of 16 months, now I think maybe I made a huge mistake. I thought maybe she had fallen out of love with me. For one thing, she works with an ex-boyfriend who is also her best friend. They go out of town t...

I want him to leave my house and he won't!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 328 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - I am ending a 16 month relationship due to his disloyalty and lying. He currently lives with me in a home I own. I want him to leave and he won't! I have confronted him with his lies and cheating and he seems to be in complete denial about all of ...

We love each other but she wants a break! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 328 days ago

29 December 2008 (M) - I have been seen this girl (I am white she is nigerian), for a year now and we grew to love each other, I gave her everything and we joked together and the sex was amazing. I live with my parent at 29 (i know it sux but property in ireland is ve...

He talks about having sex with me. Is that all he wants?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 328 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - dumped my ex because I wanted things my way and got angry when he didn't do what l wanted. l realized my mistake and apologized.I told him l wanted him back.he told me he had moved on and is now dating an ex of his-said I am the one who pushed h...

He broke up with me... I wanted to fix things... what to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 311 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - So my boyfriend just broke up with me. I thought everything was fine...we have been dating for 28 days now. He asked me out on Dec. 1st and after a bit of him persuading me (saying "I will never hurt you, and I will never make you cry, you have bee...

So, I guess I should just leave him alone if I don't see a future for us?

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29 December 2008 (F) - I met this guy a month ago, and we have been dating. He is very nice to me and all of my friends and he does whatever we are doing, no matter how silly it is. I can see he wants to make me happy, and he just plain likes spending time with me ...

I was more like a free shrink to her than a boyfriend...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 328 days ago

29 December 2008 (M) - I was friends with this girl for over 8 months and then we both started developing feelings for each other. She told me first that she likes me and we became closer. After 2 weeks she told me that she doesn't feel the same without giving any reason ...

I want him back but how?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 328 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - Okay so my problem is I am still in love with my ex boyfriend even though our breakup was almost 2 years ago, and I really want him back! He's the only guy I ever had real feelings for. In elementary school we used to be BEST FRIENDS but I always h...

Breakup--he's hurt I don't feel anything

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 329 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - I recently broke up with my boyfriend if 8 months, i know not very long, but still. Great sex life haha. That being the only thing i'll miss. Because when i broke up with him i felt nothing. Not one thing, no guilt, no remorse.. nothing. He asked ...

I've been dumped out of the blue... what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 329 days ago

28 December 2008 (M) - Hi, I have recently been dumped, we were going out for a month after knowing each other for over 4 months. It was all going really well until suddenly she started having doubts, but not sharing them with me, just throught her bulletins in myspace. ...

I am heart broken... does he know he broke my heart?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 329 days ago

28 December 2008 (F) - Ok so I was in a horrible abusive marriage and found true love somewhere else. The new BF was in a dead marriage with no love. We fell for each other hard. Whirlwind romance for over a year. We both filed for divorce... But real life sets in- ...

I can't move on...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 323 days ago

28 December 2008 (M) - Hi, I met my girlfriend 2 weeks after we had been chatting on the internet. It was love at first sight and we both had the best day of our lives, it felt like we had both known eachother all our lives. We lived 100 miles from one another, and...

How can I trust him more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 329 days ago

28 December 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 months. We have been on and off for 3 years and have known eachother for 4. Things started off great, but I started getting really clingy after 2 months or so. Every now and then, I accuse him if I cant g...

What is my ex trying to achieve?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 324 days ago

28 December 2008 (F) - Back in June 07 me and my ex split up since then we haven't spoken two words to eachother until recently, when i have been going clubbing he has been trying to speak to me and everywhere i am at in the club he is right behind me holding a drink for ...

I feel romantically attracted to my dog!!!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 328 days ago

28 December 2008 (M) - I have been having some very strange feelings about my beautiful Dobermann Pincher named Shelly. I have owned her for aout 6 years and she has been a wonderful, loving and loyal pet. It just feels like more than that lately. I don't have many ...

LDR--he didn't communicate and I ended it-mistake?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 329 days ago

28 December 2008 (F) - hello everyone, I was/am having a LDR for about 9 months, and we are so in love and seriously its amazing how much we have in common for example the same birthday, sometimes its scary how much we have in common. But at the start of the relations...

My baby's father questions the baby is his, I'm hearbroken and alone...

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 324 days ago

28 December 2008 (F) - I'm currently pregnant and due on Valentines Day, February 14th. I am depressed and alone. I mean..my family is around but having my sons dad around during my pregnancy would be grateful unfortunately, we've been in and out of our relationship...

Should I alert him to what his girlfriend is doing (prostituting)?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 330 days ago

28 December 2008 (F) - My ex and I broke up over 2.5 years ago. I got over him pretty quickly and am now happily married. The problem is, his "new" girlfriend is an insecure piece of trash and has been cyber stalking me for the past two years. She would send me hateful ...

We broke up a month ago but he still flirts with me...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 329 days ago

28 December 2008 (F) - Boyfriend broke up with me 1 month ago. Wanted to be friends. Nothing changed, still sees me and flirts at work, even spent Christmas eve and day with me and daughter. Made comment I need to get out of management so he can kiss me at work before ...

Should I start dating also and just move on?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 327 days ago

27 December 2008 (M) - My (ex) girlfriend told me she needed some space. Her reasoning was to figure out her own happiness and get away from the stress of a relationship. Later it seems that she wants to date other people but she says that its just "something to do." We ...

Need help to get over him, I don't want my daughter to witness us always fighting!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 330 days ago

27 December 2008 (F) - I desperately need help trying to get over someone I love dearly. I oftentimes question myself as to why I even still love him after all the hurt and pain that he has caused me. I have been with him for 4 years. We have a beautiful daughter who is 1 ...

How to kill the love

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 325 days ago

27 December 2008 (M) - "Press the button!" I hear you all shout. Press the button and She'll disappear? Oh, if only it were that easy. I want to finish with my mistress. Okay, I'm not gonna murder Her. I'm only trying to murder the 'love' that I thought I had for Her. How ...

Do you think she's really already moved on??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 330 days ago

27 December 2008 (M) - My gf broke up with me a month ago saying she doesn't love me anymore and she wants to concentrate on her career. I was devastated. I cudnt sleep or eat for days I begged her to come back to me but she said no she doesn't feel the same. She said we ...

Should I hope Mr Wonderful gets back with me or just forget him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 329 days ago

27 December 2008 (F) - I went through four years of self healing after a very manipulative relationship.I have two children and i found it very hard to get back on the dating scene itried several times but just wasn't bothered.I then out of the blue met the most wonderful ...

Boyfriend pushing me away because of family!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 329 days ago

27 December 2008 (F) - i've been with my boyfriend for almost a year now, we were such a great couple, but he always had alot of family problems..his dad kicked him out of the house about a month ago..and now his parents have spent his college money..after this he's ...

Playing games? Or reconciliation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 330 days ago

27 December 2008 (F) - Hi, I've been broken up with my bf of 2.5 years for over a month now. Were both 21. He initiated the breakup. We then saw each other a week after the break up we had a wonderful day and he said he wanted to make it work, he missed me and loved me ...

Easier for guys to move on??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 211 days ago

27 December 2008 (F) - My b/f and I broke up after 7 years. we are 20 difference in age, I'm in my later 20's and he's in his later 40's. We love each other very much, he's a very nice guy and treats me with respect. He always tell me that I'm the love of his life. ...

We broke up but still sleep together does that ruin our changes for the future?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 328 days ago

27 December 2008 (F) - Me and my sons father has been broken up for 2 years now. And before that we were together for 3 years. We split up because we just had a baby, and honestly I had too much going on in my life to focus on a relationship. But I still love him and I'm ...

How do I break the news of a divorce to my kids?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 330 days ago

27 December 2008 (F) - How do I tell my kids ages 8 and 3 that I am divorcing their father?...