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Archived questions from: May, 2006 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

He lasted under two minutes, was lazy at oral and had a pointyh shaped "thing"... But I was good to him so why did our relationship cool off?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 787 days ago

30 May 2006 (F) - I recently dated someone who was a good bit younger than I. We're both professionals in our 30s. I'm 38. At the beginning of this short relationship, he did say he was reserved and devoted to work. When it came to sex, he always climaxed in under ...

What is my ex thinking?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 787 days ago

30 May 2006 (M) - My girlfriend broke up with me a month ago and moved in with her aunt. She has been hot and cold towards me ever since. All of her personal property is still in my house and the bills are still in both of our names. She has no desire to move her ...

Problems with the boyfriend I love, but now my Ex is back and wants me too!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 787 days ago

30 May 2006 (F) - Help me Please... My ex left me because one girl says he is pregnant with his baby. At that time my ex left me without any explanation, leaving me nowhere to go. I knew it from our friend and I was really hurt. Then after 6 months I got my new boyf...

My boyfriend is intollerant of people who are different... is this a dumping issue?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 788 days ago

29 May 2006 (F) - I have been dating someone for 2 months. Everything has been great, I actually could see a future with this man. Lately though I have noticed that he can be intolerant of people who are different. Different in ways of not as much money as he, ...

Did he lead me on?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 778 days ago

29 May 2006 (F) - I started dating a guy (37) 4 months ago. He took the relationship to the next level first. He said he loved me first. I still kept my feelings from him until he insisted on knowing if i loved him. We spent alot of time together either at his ho...

I want her back, how do i make her realize what we had was great?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 788 days ago

29 May 2006 (M) - me and my Lady just recntly broke up... I WANT HER BACK SO BAD! She says we can be just friends and if anything happens in the future it happens. but i dont know if i should give her space to possibly make her realize how great we were together(do ...

She thinks I have problems with commitment so she broke it off, but I want to be with her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 770 days ago

29 May 2006 (M) - I've been dating a woman 15 years older than me. I'M 20 AND SHE IS 35. we've been seeing each other for bout 8 months. She has told me that im young and am still unsure of what i want, but i know exactly what i want. i might only be 20 but ive done ...

He started seeing someone else, I broke it off but now he keeps calling me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 789 days ago

29 May 2006 (F) - i have been seeing my bf on and off for 3 1/2 yrs. When we are together it is absolutely blissful. When we get really close he backs off and starts seeing other girls. He has confessed to me that when he's with these other girls expeiences sexu...

He is sabotaging everything

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 788 days ago

29 May 2006 (F) - so theres this new guy on the scene met him about 3 wks ago now and im really happy with how things are going so far. But y'day morning i chatted to my ex online and he turns round and says oh he's just using you for sex, i rang him but he said that...

Does she want me to keep giving her space, try to restart our relationship... or what?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 790 days ago

28 May 2006 (M) - I was seeing an older woman. The age thing never bothered me, and at first it bothered her but she soon got over it. Everything was going great with our relationship. Then about 6 months into the relationshipIi was a couple hours late getting ...

Need more than I'm getting, but I can't walk away!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 789 days ago

27 May 2006 (F) - I have been in a relationship with a man for 3 and 1/2 years now. When we met it was just a bit of fun because I was fully aware that he was in a relationship already. I love him very much, more than I have anybody else and every day I am without ...

I feel like such an idiot and cant get over it!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 790 days ago

27 May 2006 (F) - Im 22 years old and 3 years ago I met a boy who I fell in love with instantly. I never believed in love at first sight before until I met him. At the time, I was in a long term relationship with a boy and stayed with him for another year, whilst ...

How to tell my boyfriend i think we should see other people!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 790 days ago

26 May 2006 (F) - I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for more than a year now but I've recently met this other boy who's kind of swept me off my feet. I really really like him. I'm thinking of leaving my boyfriend for him but .. what if I'm just jumping to ...

Alone after abortion and feel so low.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 777 days ago

26 May 2006 (F) - I have recently split up from my boyfriend of a year because he wanted to go back to his home country. I offered to go with him but he said he wasn't ready for that kind of commitment because we would have to get married. This was back in feb that i ...

How do I stop thinking that I'll get back with my ex... so that I can move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 792 days ago

25 May 2006 (F) - ello ppl (i am 15) how do i get over my ex i have liked sooooo much for years? i am trying to get him back by talking to him a lot and trying to impress him. i have a feeling he may go back out wiv me in the future and i think thats why i cant get...

We got into a big fight and I lost her....what can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 792 days ago

25 May 2006 (M) - i have recently split with my gf of 1 year and 4months i love her so much and i dont wanna lose her. we had an arguement and i hit her and i told her i was sorry and that i wont do it again i want help so i can get her back she told me she loves me ...

I want to stop thinking about my ex. It's been a month and he's still stuck in my head!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 792 days ago

24 May 2006 (F) - I'm trying to get over my ex so badly but doesn't seem to be working. It's only been over a month but feels like forever. I've try to get my ex back but he's determined to see other people. We were on talking terms but yet again hes began ignori...

How could he say he loved me, then just go and sleep with another woman?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 793 days ago

24 May 2006 (F) - Hey there, I feel really down. I finished with my boyfriend last week who I loved so so much. I finished with him because I'm mega insecure and I was driving myself crazy worrying that he didn't like me!!! Anyway he told me he loved me and he'd nev...

Should I be getting married when I still think about my ex

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 791 days ago

24 May 2006 (F) - Hello, I have an advice question for you if you ever have any extra time. I'm going crazy and would fully appreciate it. I am engaged to be married in less than two months to a wonderful man and I want to be married whole-heartedly. However,...

How do you get over heart break

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 792 days ago

24 May 2006 (M) - Whats the best way to heal after a breakup, and realise that It was not your fault and to move on with life. and not hurt as much. Is there a process? i know everyone is different and their reaction is different, however i just want to lock up ...

Should I give my ex another chance and hope we can move on together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 794 days ago

23 May 2006 (F) - I was very much in love with my bf but he dumped me and lied about his reasons and really hurt me. We're getting on really well at the moment and we may get back together, but I'm still damaged by the pain he caused even though he's apologized and ...

I dumped my ex but I cannot stop thinking about her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 794 days ago

23 May 2006 (M) - I mostly treated my girlfreind of 5 years badly but on christmas day i came home to find another man in our house we broke up. 2 days later i called her and said all was forgiven but she would not get back with me she said he treats her right i was ...

I need advice on how to get over a broken heart...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 767 days ago

23 May 2006 (F) - What is the best way to get over a broken heart and all the pain?...

Men: please tell me why I can be a "great girlfrend" and still get dumped...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 795 days ago

22 May 2006 (F) - Man's advice! I finaly ended it with my on /off boyfriend because he keeps going hot and cold on me and his reason for this was because he hasn't got time for a girlfriend. He said I'd be a great girlfriend but hasn't got time for me. Why?...

Help! Advise me on how to carry on, now that my relationship is over!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 795 days ago

22 May 2006 (F) - Hello all. You have been a great help to me so far, so I have one final question: After a complete sham of a relationship has come to a very sticky end, how does someone regain self-esteem, confidence pride, dignity and self respect with no friends ...

How do I get my man to slow down

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 795 days ago

22 May 2006 (F) - at the beginning of march, i ended it with my ex after he got really un-communicative with me after his best mate (girl) split with her fella. a few days after he was with her. She was eight months pregnanat at the time, as we were together 7 ...

My ex wants me back but i'm with someone new, should i take him back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 796 days ago

22 May 2006 (F) - My boyfriend of 2 1/2 years broke up with me 3 months ago. I was quite upset as we had been through a lot together and the reasons I was given were not things that could be changed in any way. I decided though, that I would not waste too much tim...

Do others feel the same pain on the anniversaries of painful events?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 795 days ago

21 May 2006 (F) - It was year ago today that I broke up with my longtime partner and things are getting better and better. For some reason, though the week leading up to the breakup day and the day itself have been hellish. I feel as raw and upset as I did on the day ...

He broke up with me so suddenly... I don't know what happened!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 796 days ago

21 May 2006 (M) - Hello, I've recently just broke up from a 2 years, long distance, emotionally-abusive, gay relationship. I'm having a real hard time, as everything reminds me of him, and what breaks my heart is that when he finds someone new there'll be some...

Pursued my x for months but now i have him, the feelings have gone!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 796 days ago

21 May 2006 (F) - I spent 4 months trying to get back with my ex, and it's finally happened. But for some reason i'm not enjoying it. I think i had finally excepted that it was over, and we were beginning to become 'just friends', but he asked to meet up yesterday, ...

Getting over a relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 796 days ago

20 May 2006 (M) - I have broken up with my girl friend after 10 years of relationship. I cannot move on, I always think of her, and I am not motivated to meet new girls. I am not enjoying anything that I do, and I frequently cry. I blame myself for everything that ...

What happened to our love? She went from sweet to mean and I don't get it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 798 days ago

20 May 2006 (M) - Me and my ex were together for 6 months. She broke up with me last month. She liked me very much and we were inseparable and used to chat on the phone for hours. Suddenly, she started rejecting and ignoring my calls. Then she said we have to break ...

He wasn't ready for a gay relationship-so we ended it and I need advice on how to cope. Please help

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 797 days ago

19 May 2006 (M) - Hello everyone, this might be very long, please be patient, but I have finally gotten a SERIOUS WAKE UP CALL, and this is really hard to write but I know that what is happening is for the best-I'm shaking, and I'm completely scared and i need as ...

I want out, but I am finding it impossible!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 793 days ago

19 May 2006 (F) - i want out of my relationship of 10 years i have 3 kids, i suffer with depression and my partner is very domineering he stopped me working checks the milage on my car basically have no life. he wont let us split up i have tried to run away before ...

How do I get my girlfriend back

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 797 days ago

19 May 2006 (M) - My girlfriend and I broke up a few weeks ago. she broke up with me because i can sometimes be a little jealous and paranoid. This sounds quite normal, but we live next door to each other in halls of residence at university. we have been together ...

Getting out of a bad marriage and having an affair with married man

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 737 days ago

19 May 2006 (F) - I have just come through a dreadful breakdown in my marriage, he has left and I am battling with divorce. The thing is, I have met someone who has given me a shoulder and we have begun an affair. I know it won't help in the long run but for now he h...

Back with my ex but he still sees another girl, help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 795 days ago

19 May 2006 (F) - i was with my boyfriend for 2 years and 2months,we recently broke up for 2 months and hes with somebody else, were back in touch and its great were sleeping together again and he keeps telling me hes going to break up with his new girlfriend to be ...

I still love my ex and I dont know what to do

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 798 days ago

19 May 2006 (M) - My ex and I have been seperated for about a year on and off. We have a child together and have shared custody of her.I try to go about by life and try to meet other girls but I am still in love with my ex and I am not sure if she feels the same ...

Mixed race relations are banned by his father

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 797 days ago

19 May 2006 (F) - I hope someone can give me some advice on this... Basically I've just split up with my boyfriend of two years (for the second time) the reasons for our split is that his dad will not meet me or allow me to go round his house as he doesn't believe in ...

She cheated on me with a tall,dark and handsome man, how can i rebuild my self esteem?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 796 days ago

19 May 2006 (M) - Hi, calling all girls out there. Please can you give me your honest opinions. The saying goes tall, dark and handsome is what girls are looking for. I'm 5 foot 6 and my girlfriend has been cheating on me with a guy thats 6 foot 2 and built like ...

She cheated on me, i need advice on how to move on

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 798 days ago

19 May 2006 (M) - Hello, I seriously need advice. A quick fix if possible. My girlfriend asked me to marry her last year and I said that I was not ready but I loved her and would propose soon. She then moved out and in with a group of single girls. She limit...

I want to leave him but he keeps blackmailing me to stay!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 799 days ago

18 May 2006 (F) - I've got a bit of a problem...I've been married for 12 years and I truely think that I married for the wrong reasons. Our marriage has had it's ups and downs. Don't get me wrong, he is a good man - but has had some problems with his anger in the ...

Is acting carefree and prenting to i'm moving on the best way to get my ex back?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 798 days ago

18 May 2006 (M) - I am a 25 year old gay male. I met my boyfriend who is 23 a year ago and it was a love at first site. Were both each others first loves and both our first serious relationship. Things were going great...or at least I thought they were. We had been ...

His a drug addict & has trust issues, i'm thinking of leaving, what do i do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 798 days ago

18 May 2006 (F) - Do I stay and work it out or move on? My husband and I have been together for 8 years. We met when he moved in across the street from me 14 years ago. His sister and I were best friends, so I got to know his family pretty well. We have alot of ...

Getting over my exgirlfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 799 days ago

18 May 2006 (M) - My g/f of about 3 years and I broke up about 4 months ago b/c she said she was unhappy out of the blue..I had just bought a house near her parents, my whole life turned around and i was so happy..she is 23 and i am 30..i suspected something might be ...

We went from trying to work it out to just friends, i'm so confussed!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 799 days ago

18 May 2006 (M) - I posted a question a couple of weeks ago about me cheating on my girlfriend of 6-1/2 years and getting her pregnant. Of course we broke up but we still talked, went to movies and held hands as we have always done. She said that she wanted to work ...

How do you know if you've found the right partner?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 800 days ago

17 May 2006 (M) - How do you know if you've found the right partner? Ages ago I went out with this girl (my first girlfriend) and to begin with we kept texting each other but after half term when we didn't see each other for a week as she went back home, I felt it ...

Should I continue trying to rebuild friendship with the girl whose heart I broke... ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 800 days ago

17 May 2006 (M) - PART I - This may sounds like a cookie-cutter break up but the last chapter on “friendship” is still writing itself. My question is: Should I drop my pen? I decided to end the six month relationship – a first for both of us - back in February...

His going overseas & i am not invited,is there any point staying together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 800 days ago

17 May 2006 (F) - i posted recently about my boyfriend going overseas, and I thought some of you maybe see the whole picture, or were a little harsh. i guess it sounds bad, but he has said he cares about me deeply, knows he will really miss me etc, but the idea of me ...

We broke up, and he refuses to take me back, did i scare him off?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 800 days ago

16 May 2006 (F) - If you love, deeply care for and are physically attracted to someone still shouldn't you be together? My live in boyfriend of 4 years broke up with me 2 months ago and now when we communicate he refuses to talk about it all anymore or even entertain ...