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Archived questions from: December, 2005 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

I'm always the person who has to take the initiative with my relationship. Should I just break up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6688 days ago

31 December 2005 (F) - Should I break up with my boyfriend? He doesn't call me or talk to me at all. I usually have to push him to do stuff, like asking me to a dance. He's a great guy and I don't want to regret anything. I really do like him but our relationship is getti...

She left me without an explanation and all I found was a text from some guy...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6690 days ago

31 December 2005 (M) - My girlfriend has just split from me and I have no idea Why. We have been going out for 2.5 years and everything was going great. We had moved in together last March. We had everything we always wanted until last week when I found a text from a guy. ...

My girl doesn't want a boyfriend when we go to college, but I know she still loves me a little!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6683 days ago

31 December 2005 (M) - My girlfriend is going to college and has always told herself she didn't want a boyfriend in college. At this point we are both 18 and have been dating for a year and a half. When we started dating, she fell hard for me, yet I didn't want to get ...

We were having our share of problems, but were working on them, until his mum came along...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6691 days ago

30 December 2005 (F) - My problem is that I had been seeing someone for about 9 months. Everything was going great but I admit it was my fault that things got out of hand and I started to push him away but we worked it out. Then finally we started having arguments and ...

He dumped me by text and now I don't know what to think...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6110 days ago

30 December 2005 (F) - I met a guy at a college party three months ago. It was so obvious that he liked me but at the time I wasn't sure if I liked him as I had just split with my last boyfriend. He gave me his number but I didn't give him mine. I called him three days ...

Losing my mind over my relationship... My girl says she wants "a break"

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5827 days ago

30 December 2005 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for the past one-year. She is 28 and I am 31. The relationship was great, except for a few minor quibbles. A couple of times I was jealous – once when some male friend of hers grabbed her at a party, and some ...

Out of state ex-girlfriend and mother of my child won't return my calls!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6692 days ago

29 December 2005 (M) - my ex girlfriend lives in another state. she got pregnant by me and everything was fine for a while. i was going to save up money and move out there, to be by her. not with her, but by her to help out during and help raise my child. but all of a ...

I left my girlfriend but now she has kept all my stuff!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6688 days ago

29 December 2005 (M) - I had been in a four year stormy but loving relationship, which she broke up a few weeks ago after a minor silly row,and i moved back to my house, i found out it was just an excuse to get me out the house so she could give her brother somewhere to ...

We married young. She left with no sign at all... Is there anything I can do to save our marriage?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6692 days ago

29 December 2005 (M) - if anyone could help please do so this is my question me and my wife started dating when she was only 15 and i was 16 we date right at six years before we married we married in sept 2005 an when we married i change as far want to go party and hun...

Bored with my boyfriend. Time to pack it in?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6691 days ago

29 December 2005 (F) - iv been with my boyfriend for over two years,the trouble is,i think im getting bored with him.When we go out together its alright and we have a good chat but when i havent seen him for a week or so,i dont seem to miss him,where he seems more ...

Should we break up or stick it out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6692 days ago

28 December 2005 (F) - Broken Heart wants to know I have been dating my guy for 2 years and things have slowly been getting bad I love him deeply but things got so bad I dealt with my problems wrong and I strayed and ever since then he has treated me like I am a peic...

How do I move on from her when I see her all the time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6685 days ago

28 December 2005 (M) - I've been broken up with my girlfriend for a little more than a month now and I'm still thinking about her all the time. We never had an official break-up, but we decided to slow down our relationship, and now she no longer contacts me. I've made ...

How do I get through my Xmas-day breakup with dignity?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6691 days ago

28 December 2005 (F) - My boyfriend just broke up with me on Christmas...we had been fighting a lot lately and he is moving away in 3 weeks, but just that night before he left me we had been planning on trying long distance. I just don't understand how this happened. I ...

I've been dumped but the texts from my ex keep coming!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6693 days ago

27 December 2005 (F) - My ex boyfriend dumped me four weeks ago. We texted each other every day for the next three weeks because he agreed to stay in touch. Then one day I did not reply to a text he sent me. I left it three days. Then I textd him back. He replied but I ...

I didn't think he could love me the way I loved him..so we broke up. I want to be with him again but he wants more time and space.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6694 days ago

27 December 2005 (F) - hey so i love this boy and we have unknowingly liked each other for over a year.anyway,we went out for like one week months ago and we broke up cus we were both traveling with jobs in the summer. we got back 2 gether when school started again and i ...

I want her back...so how do I show her how much I love her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6685 days ago

27 December 2005 (M) - my girlfriend has just ended our relationship because she says she dosn't love me like she should. how can i show her how much i love her and that we belong together. i want her back but dont know what to do. ...

He dumps me but then keeps on texting me-I've ignored his messages. Why does he keep doing this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6694 days ago

27 December 2005 (F) - My ex boyfriend dumped me four weeks ago. We texted each other every day for the next three weeks. Then one day I did not reply to a tx he sent me. I left it three days. Then I txtd him back. He replied but I did not. Then he textd me the next day ...

I love her with all my heart..but is she worth getting hurt over ...a third time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6694 days ago

27 December 2005 (M) - my ex-girlfriend broke up with me and i still love her with all my heart and soul! she hurt me many times and that never changed how i felt about her like, when she got high with her ex (nothing happend) and she lied to me about being good, i ...

I can't get over her..I still love her even after 1 year with no contact. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6694 days ago

27 December 2005 (M) - Hi everyone, I am a 22 year old guy in college, and I really need help.. I don't know what to do, I feel trapped in the situation that I am in, and I don't see any way out of it without getting more hurt than I already am. I am desperate for he...

Not sure why my friend broke it off with me, but I want to get us back together...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6695 days ago

25 December 2005 (F) - Two months ago I entered a relationship with a very good friend. I had liked him for a while but was content being friends with him. While we were in the relationship he seemed really happy and he kept telling me how much he was falling for me. He ...

The rumour is that she broke up with me because I wasn't affectionate enough...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6695 days ago

24 December 2005 (M) - Me and my girlfriend broke p a month ago and since then we haven't really spoken. Her reason for breaking up was because she was working on both weekends we couldn't meet up and she feels it's unfair to me. However I knew there was more to it, as t...

I was dumped over the phone because my independance reminded him too much of his mum!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6695 days ago

24 December 2005 (F) - Dear All, I need some feedback and help moving in the right direction. I was dating a wonderful guy for 8 months or so I thought. In that time I feel in love with him. We had our problems like most couples but I never thought that these issue...

I said horrible things and pushed him away. Now I realise I was wrong and want him back!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6670 days ago

24 December 2005 (F) - Me and my boyfriend had broken up because I went off on him. I was going through a lot and he didn't call me and let me know he was OK, and he angered me. We have had this argument at least once a month. This time I needed him. I was confront...

My fiancee broke up with me and she's acting totally wrong!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6694 days ago

24 December 2005 (M) - OK, here is my problem: I am 23 and my ex-fiancee is 21. We had been together for 5 and a half years when we had decided to take some time apart to spark things up a bit. We never agreed to break-up; in fact, I told her that it felt like she was ...

He dumped me-I'm nor sure why and neither is he? I still like him-what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6694 days ago

23 December 2005 (F) - Well my boyfriend broke up with me about two weeks ago, and I'm not sure why. When people ask him why he did it, he always has a different answer. He told me he didn't want a girlfriend right now, and something about getting in trouble with his ...

Two breakups in just 4 months! My guy doesn't know what he wants, except "space", so he keeps walking away!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6699 days ago

22 December 2005 (F) - Hi, I had been with my boyfriend for 1 year 3 months when he decided to break up with me because we couldn't seem to compromise on when both of us would be available to meet up. I tried to set another day when we could meet up, but all of a sudden...

After 7 years together-it struck me oddly, that she left me with no warning?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6699 days ago

22 December 2005 (M) - I am 27. I have been with my girlfriend for seven years. We were in a long distance relationship for the last year. During our time apart I regularly hinted that we should get married once we were in the same city again. She had always wanted to ...

Broke up with him because he got steaming drunk and rowed with my housemates... But now we're back together.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6700 days ago

21 December 2005 (F) - I have a problem with my boyfriend. We have been together for 4 months. In that time we have gone out and had lots of good times together and he has treated me very well. He does not like my roommates. My roommates have been difficult for me to ...

Is this thing I had with Mike during my breakup period anything more than just sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6700 days ago

21 December 2005 (F) - Me and my boyfriend went on a break a few months ago and while we were "breaking" I hooked up with this guy I work with "Mike." I had always been attracted to Mike and have a blast with him. We bicker back and forth and he makes me laugh. Well ...

I want to change my bad ways to keep my girl...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6700 days ago

21 December 2005 (M) - So...me and my 'girlfriend' have been on a break for 4 weeks now and it's enabled us to do a lot of thinking and given me a chance to sort my life out a bit. BUT... We went out for the day yesterday. We'd agreed to go out and I planned the whol...

I think he's my soulmate, but he says he doesn't have feeling for me anymore!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6700 days ago

21 December 2005 (F) - Hi! I'm in a serious relationship for almost 5 years. Just a few months ago we broke up. He said he's fed up with my attitude, that I'm a nagger and other stuff. Later on I found out that he's involved with another girl and that girl was the pers...

How do I turn my life around when I miss him so much??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6700 days ago

20 December 2005 (F) - Very Confused: I've written a couple of questions on here asking for help and to recap on my problems.... I got dumped a month ago by a guy who i would have done anything for. I loved him entirely although he was selfish and had little respe...

Should I stay with him or should I break up with him? Help..advice needed.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6683 days ago

20 December 2005 (F) - I need help badly. I just found out that my boyfriend is 13 and I am only 11. Today (12-19-05) he hugged me at school. I do not know what I should do because we just got back together. He really loves me and I really love him. So should I stay with ...

She said her feelings have changed-but then said she still loved me...I'm confused!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6700 days ago

19 December 2005 (M) - Hi cupid, I hope you can help with a question i have. I have been with my girlfriend for 7months now. I am 25 and with my first love and she is 21 and graduating college. A month ago i had to go back to ireland becaues of my visa. I plan on ...

She says she still loves me but can't move back in because I'll "never change"!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6702 days ago

19 December 2005 (M) - I have been with my g/f for over 2 years, we argue a lot, but I feel that we do love one another. The other day we got in an arguemnt over the phone. She didn't come home, and went to her dad's house. On the phone she keeps saying "You won't change. ...

Why can't my ex be friendly with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6687 days ago

18 December 2005 (F) - If your ex, whom you shared a deep and emotional relationship with at one time is distant, what does this mean? This particular ex is friends or at least nominally more friendly with all of his other exes than he is with me. Right after the break-up ...

I met another guy..how do I split up with my current bf peacefully, with no hassles?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6705 days ago

16 December 2005 (F) - hi everyone. i dont really know what to do. i am 22 and i am in a relationship of 5 years and have cheated on my boyfriend. i have never done this before. a new guy started at work and we both knew we had chemistry straight away. so there was ...

We had an argument and he slept with another girl. Do I forgive him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6705 days ago

15 December 2005 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 4yrs he is the love of my life, we recently had an argument and hadn't spoken in two months, within these two months he met this random girl and slept with her and now he wants to get back together and i am so ...

How do you get over someone you believe is the love of your life...I can't let go!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6706 days ago

15 December 2005 (F) - How do you get over someone you believe is the love of your life?? I'm only 21 but have been going out with a boy for 3 years. We're best friends, tell eachother absolutely everything, anyway I think we just didn't have time for the romance and my ...

Desperately need help after my first girlfriend dumped me, then I found my best mate making out with her! (long)

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

15 December 2005 (M) - Hi there. I am a 17 year old male living in the UK. This summer (start of August 2005 to be exact) i started going out with a girl who is 15. Now i have knew her family (mainly Auntie and Uncle) for a couple of years. And i get on with (and still ...

He's mad at me so why is he trying to get my attention? What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6623 days ago

14 December 2005 (F) - Last year everyone knew we were in love and he would cry over me when i would break up with him or mad at him. He cried over me before we went out because he wanted to be with me so badly. His parents even heard him cry even his boys saw him cry but ...

My gf and I broke up. But she's dating another girl and I'm having a hard time moving on.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6640 days ago

14 December 2005 (F) - Hello everyone, I am a lesbian who has been with my girl for five years. She broke up with me in May because she said I was too sprung. I didn't consider myself to be sprung, I was in love. I really love this girl and I believe she is my ...

Should I leave my "uncomfortable" boyfriend before he breaks my heart?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6704 days ago

14 December 2005 (F) - ive been dating my boyfriend for 4 months now. he's a great guy, he's met my parents, ive met his parents. we have a good sex life, we laugh and have a good time with each other but there is one problem. he told me that there are some things that ...

We've had some problems and now he wants to have a serious talk. Does he still like me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6707 days ago

14 December 2005 (F) - me and my boyfriend been going out for 2 months now. but for the past week it has been different he hasn't call me no more and i don't call him cause he don't call me. when i ask him why he don't call me when he don't hear from me he said that" ...

She tells me she's not sure if she "loves me" or is just "used to being with me"... What next?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6707 days ago

14 December 2005 (M) - I've been going out with my girlfriend for 2 1/2 years, we had an argument this weekend about how she doesn’t like it when I criticize her spending habits. Then yesterday she tells me (on the phone) that she is no longer happy in the relation...

Do I try and save my relationship or try to be with a guy I like?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6708 days ago

13 December 2005 (F) - I'm 19 nd have been in a relationship for over a year, but in the last month or so I feel like we're growing apart. We both go to dif colleges, have dif interests and recently there hasn't been alot of conversation between us he seems to prefer ...

He got me and his ex gf pregnant...now he's leaving me for her! What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

12 December 2005 (F) - Me and My boyfriend were together for 3 months, when we found out I was pregnant. Then his ex tells him she is 4 months pregnant with his child. Now he tells me that he is going to be with her so he can raise their child together. When I asked ...

We broke up because of her problems...do I give her space or do I help her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6710 days ago

11 December 2005 (M) - My girlfriend and I broke up yesterday, ending a 11-month relationship. She broke it off because she's unhappy with us, and thinks that she's unhappy with us because she's unhappy with herself. She said she still loves me but wishes to break it ...

Did I make a huge mistake by issuing an ultimatum?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6708 days ago

11 December 2005 (F) - I just broke up with my beau after 2 1/2 yrs. I am 38 and he is 37. We had a wonderful relationship but I gave him the ultimatium and he just can't commit. I am devestated. He said he has to think about it and he will call me. It has been almost 3 ...

Who do I choose..my new college bf or my long-term steady bf??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6712 days ago

9 December 2005 (F) - Please help me. I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years since i was 15, he has been my first sexual partner as well. Im at college at the moment and have been for the past five years. There is this boy at college who has liked me from the star...