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Archived questions from: November, 2007 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

Should I dump my boyfriend and go after the other guy??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 215 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - hey,i was in love with this guy. when suddenly we became girlfreind and boyfreind.he had another girl on his mind at that time, but i was sure that he loved me.and worried that he will keep thinking about her. so we broke up( stayed freinds), he ...

I lost trust in him and I feel there should be something more solid..should I stay or go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 217 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - Should I stay or should I go? -This is the fifth year of our relationship -We have a one-year old son -My boyfriend is about 3 years younger than me and not ready to commit to marriage any time soon. I feel our relationship should be more conc...

I think she is bored, with the relationship... should I let her go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 214 days ago

30 November 2007 (M) - i have been with my girlfriend for almost 14 months. id like to believe that i treat her as well as i possibly can because she is my world. i met her when i was 16 and right when i met her i knew she was the one. we had an incredible relationship ...

I'm thinking of just ending the relationship with my boyfriend to keep my Mom happy...advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 216 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - Please help.. I'm 18 and in a long-distance relationship. I've been with him for 18months.. and I feel so happy with him. However, my mum has a problem with it. It's not that she doesn't like him.. because she does.. and she also lets me see him ...

We just don't seem to have anything in common anymore. Is my relationship over?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 217 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - I'm trying to find out whether I'll regret ending my relationship (again!). My partner and I split up in February - this year after been seeing each other for just over 4 years although we didn't live together or anything. We each have children from ...

Losing him once made me realise how much I loved him. But how do I trust again and put the past behind me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 215 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - I have quite a complicated situation. It may sound trivial to begin with, but please offer me advice, as I am so confused. I met a J about 18 months ago. I was in a relationship at the time, but it was not a healthy relationship at the time, an...

I think my ex-girlfriend has something called "Hypomania". Is there anyway I can address this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 214 days ago

30 November 2007 (M) - I just recently broke up with my girlfriend who I love a whole bunch because she didn't call me for a week and didn't come to see me on thanksgiving. However, as I'm sitting here I'm thinking back over the course of our relationship and I'm ...

So much advice from sites like this is confusing me. What is the alternative?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 217 days ago

30 November 2007 (M) - In the past 3 or 4 weeks since my ex and I broke up, I have become addicted to sites like this offering me advice as to what I need to do to get back with my girlfriend. The advice I have read has been very useful but I also know that my particular ...

I proposed, she accepted me - but now she suddenly wants to break up thinking I have cheated. How do I convince her of the truth?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 217 days ago

30 November 2007 (M) - I'v been in a long distance realtionship with this really wonderful gurl since 7months...we've been liking each other since 2 years now but then it took me time to propose her and then she accepted me.now 7months down the line she wants to break up ...

I can't forgive my husband. Should I contact the "other woman"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 49 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - i discovered that my husband had an affair back in the summer, he said it was sex only once and meant nothing, but he took her out to lunch at an expensive restaurnat and contiued phone contact for about a month. he has beg to keep our marriage ...

Facing Christmas with a broken heart. How can I stop the depression?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 217 days ago

30 November 2007 (M) - Hi everyone Thanks for helping me, I'm now doing my best to try to get over the heartbreak of the last couple of weeks. The only thing I'm worried about is the festive season coming up. I get a fortnights break during Christmas and am worried a...

Together 12 years, 5 kids, and split up in October. I want him back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 217 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - Hello I was with my man for about 12 years we have five children which we recently had twin daughters about 5 months ago, we broke up last October, and he just recently got in another relationship. But he still calls me, we still sleep together, and ...

My depressed gf dumped me but I have fallen for her.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 214 days ago

30 November 2007 (M) - My girlfriend came round this week and told me that she cannot be in a relationship and that we are over. We have only been together 2 1/2 months but have clicked from day one, haave perhaps gone too fast but generally things have been great. The ...

Received a "friend add request" on facebook from my EX's potential bf. Why?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 214 days ago

30 November 2007 (M) - Hello everyone. Last time I messaged, I sounded like I was really making progress in healing my heart. The last thing I needed was a step in the wrong direction, and I think it may have just happened at the end of a night that was going very nicel...

Do you remain in contact with someone if they were emotionally abusive to you?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 217 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - When you break up with someone, what should be the rule on how long it is before you talk to them? I always heard at least 3 months. But, do you remain in contact with someone if they were emotionally abusive to you? Or, should you just forgive them ...

How do I get over him if he is still contacting me? Does he want reconciliation or is just feeling comfortable in talking as purely friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 217 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - I broke up with my ex about two months ago and we hadn't talked for about 3 weeks because I told him to leave me alone on several occasions. Then, he texted me last night saying he wishes me well. Then, I texted him back to say I was sorry for the ...

I can't move on, I can't decide how I feel or what I want or why he's acting the way he is...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 218 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - Hey, I am going through so much crap with my ex boyfriend. I'm 18 and was going out with him for 2 years ..he broke up with me through a text on monday but I was out and had been drinking so i didnt remember reading it ..rang him the next morning ...

How will I know if this relationship is at the end of the road??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 218 days ago

29 November 2007 (F) - I'm trying to find out whether I'll regret ending my relationship (again!). My partner and I split up in February - this year after been seeing each other for just over 4 years although we didn't live together or anything. We each have children from ...

Why did he break up if he says he still fancies me? Could it be related to his home problems and self-confidence issues?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 218 days ago

29 November 2007 (F) - my boyfriend dumped me but not because he doesnt fancy me which confused me more. i asked him if he was dumping me and said not in so many words but kind of yes, that he needed some time to be single and he doesnt want a girlfriend right now but ...

She thinks a sexy joke I had with my friend means I cheated but she dumped me and I miss her so much.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 217 days ago

29 November 2007 (M) - Hi, I recently broke up with my girlfriend of since may 6th 2006. I love her so much, and she loved me so much. She broke up with me because i had this joke with one of my friends who is a girl, which was rather sexy. She took it as i cheated on ...

The big question is How do I get her back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 218 days ago

29 November 2007 (M) - Hi there I have recently been dumped by my first "true love". We are both 22 and I am still a virgin. The question is how do I get her back. My ex and I started going out 3 months ago and we saw each other a lot, everything was great apart from...

Why am I still waiting around for her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 217 days ago

29 November 2007 (M) - Well this is my first help on here... i came on here to try and see what i can do because im lost at the moment. im 17 and broke up with my long term girlfriend 6 months ago, we were together for nearly 2 years and have a 8 month old son together. ...

Is he still stuck on me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 219 days ago

29 November 2007 (F) - Okay, I haven't spoken to my ex in 3 weeks, and he just texted me saying that I don't have to text him back but that he wishes me well. I broke up with him, and after we broke up he kept calling and texting and emailing me even though I told him not ...

Do I take a hint and just leave it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 218 days ago

29 November 2007 (F) - i split up with my boyfriend when i was working abroad, for no reason other than it was too hard for me to enjoy my dream job abroad being with him as it made me want to go home and be with him.we kept in contact fairly often a few txt messages a ...

Am I paranoid or what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 219 days ago

29 November 2007 (M) - I'm 16 and recently split up with my boyfriend chris. I then started dating a guy that i have known for about a year which then led to a relationship. He had not long come out of a relationship himself. But now that im with him im scared that he ...

I really love her, but is her emotional blackmail a good reason to stay with her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 218 days ago

28 November 2007 (M) - Hi. I’m having a real crisis of the heart here. Let me explain. I’m not really sure if I’m happy in my current relationship and I think we need a break. My g/f and I have been together for a year now and we moved in together approximately tw...

Is wanting to see other women part of depression?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 217 days ago

28 November 2007 (F) - I was in a relationship for 7 years with this guy. Out of no where he tells me he's not in love with me anymore and that we just wouldn't work out. We have been broken up for about a month, and I decided I needed to clear the air for myself about...

Is there a difference between caring for someone and loving them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 218 days ago

28 November 2007 (M) - I was seeing a girl for about a year until 2 weeks ago when she decided to end things. The reason being "buried" feelings for her ex resurfaced. she is not with him now/yet but said she wanted clarity and possibly give it another go with him in ...

We broke up, then I found it was my duty to try again - but the time apart has changed things even more, and there are hardly things in common anymore or inspirational conversations. How do I know when it is time to stop trying?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 219 days ago

28 November 2007 (F) - I'm trying to find out whether I'll regret ending my relationship (again!). My partner and I split up in February - this year after been seeing each other for just over 4 years although we didn't live together or anything. We each have children ...

I'm not a material girl but this older guys meaness with money bores me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 219 days ago

28 November 2007 (F) - I am 40 and in the middle of settleing my divorce. We've been married for 20 years. I met this man 16 years older than me. I love the affection he gives to me. He's loaded but very mean with money. He wont go out for a meal or spend a bit more...

I'm dumping him, but I'm scared of being single... what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 219 days ago

28 November 2007 (F) - I am dumping someone soon as he is controlling and tells me what to do. I am scared about being single again as i have had a tough life i though yes finally i have something good but it being snatched away. he has a daughter wit someone else ...

Will he hurt me again and is he a player??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 219 days ago

28 November 2007 (F) - Sorry if this is long, Right, well im 14 and in March this year and i got with an amazing guy i had been after for ages and we went out for 1 month. The day before we broke up he passed his driving test i found out he had cheated on me. Before i ...

I feel totally betrayed by her moving on so quickly.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 219 days ago

28 November 2007 (M) - Hi everyone, I know I've been droning on about this, but I'm trying to make sense of it in my head and up until now I'm totally unsuccessful. My ex told me she loved me, but due to a bit of stupid drunken self pity, text her 2 days later asking h...

I know what I deserve and it's not to be "the other woman" or someone's "play thing..."

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 215 days ago

28 November 2007 (F) - Trying to keep this short, I was in a relationship with "Frank" for a while before it went down hill and he cheated, we split. We were the best of friends prior to dating and did our best to stay friends through everything. Over the past year we ...

I really need your help...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 218 days ago

28 November 2007 (F) - My bf dumped me after he found out his best friend, who has a gf himself, had kissed me once at school when he wasn't around. My ex now says that his friend kissed me because he likes me but is just afraid to say so (besides kissing me, he had also ...

I don't know how to convince here I have changed and we can make it work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 218 days ago

27 November 2007 (M) - Hi, I'm 20 and I have been with my girlfriend for over a year, the first year was awesome but the next few months weren't and it's all my fault. She is my best friend's ex girlfriend and she kinda left him for me but me and him are still friends ...

Before we broke up, he told me he heard voices to tell him to hurt our son, shut his hands in the car door etc. What can I do to protect my child? I am afraid to leave him alone with his dad.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 220 days ago

27 November 2007 (F) - My baby father is telling people that im being spitful and jealous stoping him seeing our son. I have stoped him seeing our son a few times because he keeps putting GF before my child and not steping up being a dad and showing responablity and...

I was too clingy for my ex, and now HE keeps trying to talk to me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 220 days ago

27 November 2007 (F) - I broke up with my long-term boyfriend recently due to his starting at university; neither of us wanted to split, and he said (although it's unlikely) that once everything's out of the way, he might like to try a relationship again in the future. We ...

How can I help her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 220 days ago

27 November 2007 (M) - Me and my girlfriend split about 5 months ago. It was all because she had been hurt badly twice previously in other relationships and as we were about to get serious she backed off. In the last month or so we have seen each other a few times and she ...

Raising our son at home and my bf is mad because 'he makes all the money'!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 220 days ago

27 November 2007 (F) - hiya i have a ten month old son and i dont wont ot go to work yet, my boyfriend always tells me that he makes the money he pays for everything. i know that!! i have look for a job to do at home so i dont wont to miss out on my sons life, i h...

He loves me but he has feelings for someone else?? I'm confused!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 220 days ago

27 November 2007 (F) - my ex boyfriend and i were dating for 4 years and we broke up 6 months ago and we recently started seeing each other and he told me he still loves me but he has feelings for someone elese should i wait for him to come back to me ar let him go i ...

He doesn't want her but wants me! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 219 days ago

27 November 2007 (F) - i met this guy in 1995 on holiday we have been in contact ever since, he now says he isnt happy with her and want to be with me. what do i do?...

I want my married gf..not my long term gf..what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 220 days ago

27 November 2007 (M) - hi i'm dating someone for 3 years but have been seeing a married woman for 1 yr. i love them both but its the married woman i want to be with. she's now pregnant and even in spite of this i want to be with her. she wanted to leave her husband about ...

Do I need therapy to get over my second love?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 216 days ago

27 November 2007 (M) - Well what can I say? I've been frequenting this site every day since I discovered it after I split up with my ex. We split up 3 weeks ago but have only had no contact for a week. I'm quite chuffed I've managed to stop myself from getting in touch...

A stupid treatable disease caused the breakup of my marriage. I am so bitter now...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 221 days ago

27 November 2007 (M) - I caught a disease, UTI to be exact that caused a deterioration of my marriage with my wife. The symptoms I had were constant fatigue, headaches, and fevers every other night. My wife who happens to work in the medical field as an EMT ignored my ...

Break...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 220 days ago

26 November 2007 (M) - I'm 18 and have been dating my girlfriend for 4 months now, and she proposed taking a break. This came about because she was afraid of the what ifs that she was missing. What should I do?...

Confused and need help.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 221 days ago

26 November 2007 (F) - I'm confused and don't know what to do, my ex and I have a little boy together, when he was born we got on well but as the year has passed we have got worse and been arguing a lot, we end up saying horrible things to each other and I feel he does ...

Should I leave him for messing me around or go back to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 221 days ago

26 November 2007 (F) - Hiya ... Me and my recent boyfriend have broken up i was only with him for a short period of time but i cant figure out why he finishd with me .. I know my ex before was trying to split us up but he swore down it was nothing to do with him .. ...

He broke up with me-what can I do to get him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 221 days ago

26 November 2007 (F) - My boyfriend recently broke up with me (he said he wasn't ready for a long term relationship). The problem is I want him back because I still love him. I'm worried that if I don't do something we won't be able to stay friends and we will just stop ...

She dumped me last week but she keeps flirting with me! I'm being torn apart!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 221 days ago

26 November 2007 (M) - i dont understand why a girl i know is flirting with me, i thought she didnt like me. she dumped me last week!... please help me im being torn apart...