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Archived questions from: 4 December, 2012 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

Can men and women be friends without sex getting in the way.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4166 days ago

4 December 2012 (F) - My best friend is a guy, we known each other for 6 years and got each other through so many hard times and good times of course. About 6 months in to known each other we got drunk and had sex. In the mornin i told him i didnt want it to happen again ...

I feel so stupid for falling in love with someone who doesn't feel the same

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4167 days ago

4 December 2012 (F) - I hate myself for falling in love with this guy. He told me that he wasn't ready for a relationship from the beginning. I was ok I thought it would be ok because he wasn't my type. Low and behold I fell for him hard. Now he makes excuses not to ...

Just a question: how long would you wait after sex before breaking up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4168 days ago

4 December 2012 (F) - Just a question: how long would you wait after sex before breaking up? I imagine, having sex and then breaking up with someone on the same day would be unacceptable. So do you guys or girls have any set rules? Do you wait a certain time leng...

My ex left me for someone else a year ago, and I want him back.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4166 days ago

4 December 2012 (F) - Me and my ex were together for 6yrs and have 2kids. Im 25 he is 27 our relationship went boring and very settled and he left me last year for a 22yr old they only lasted a few months and he went off with many women but I have slept with him ...

Should I leave my wife and 2 kids for my mistress?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4167 days ago

4 December 2012 (M) - Should I leave my wife and especially my 2kids for my 4years realtionship with mistress? I cant seem to leave my mistress, she is 11 years younger than me, I bn married for more that 13 years, soon 14. I dont want her to meet soomeone else, the more...

How can I deal with the office bullies?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4167 days ago

4 December 2012 (F) - Dear all, I attended the party and got really drunk. I was so wasted that I did not know what I said or did. I was told I had gone crazy and behaved totally different from my quiet image. I am a decent person.I know I made a mistake and I am...

He doesn't want anymore children and wants me to give this one up for adoption, so what do I choose, being a single mother or giving up my baby?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4160 days ago

4 December 2012 (F) - I need help. Me and my boyfriend of 8 years are expecting again. Unfortunately for me, he doesnt want anymore children. He has expressed this to me before even before our first child, but he knew since I was 11 years younger than him and didnt have ...

Should I take the apprenticeship even though there is no guarantee of a job at the end?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4168 days ago

4 December 2012 (F) - This isn't a relationship question but I'm hoping you all will have some super advice. So I'm 17 (the age says 18 at the top, no idea why) And I'm currently in my second year of sixth form (sixth form lasts 2 years) so I have till June till I'm ...

We've been together 2 and a half years and he still isnt sure if I'm the girl he wants to spend his life with. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4168 days ago

4 December 2012 (F) - I really need some good advice with this. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years and 5 months and we have been living together for 4 months. I love him very much, and he loved me too. We both thing we have a great thing going on together, sure we ...

Why do I get so angry and obsessive in these types of scenarios?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4168 days ago

4 December 2012 (F) - A friend and I had a falling out three years ago. She dropped me when I was going through a difficult period because she didn't want to deal with my "instability." At the time, I was upset. I mourned the relationship for a month or two, but I ...

What kind of Christmas gift should be appropriate for my girlfriend's mom?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4168 days ago

4 December 2012 (M) - my ldr girlfriend offered me to join her and her family for christmas, my question is simple, what kind of gift should be appropiate for her mom ( she has been nice to me, but have only seen her twice ) and for her grandpa ( i havent met him yet, ...

What is the key to being single and happy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4168 days ago

4 December 2012 (F) - I am a 24 year old female. I have a good head on my shoulders, I'm career oriented, and for the most part, lead a very balanced and fairly busy life. But ever since I started dating in high school, I've noticed that I've never really been happy when ...

Was I wrong to end my long term relationship over my boyfriend's porn habits?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4163 days ago

4 December 2012 (F) - I have always had a problem with my boyfriend’s porn use and we would get into fights about it where he would promise one day he would give it up when he was satisfied with our sex life. I would then promise to let it go and stop snooping on him. ...

I can't stop thinking about a teacher I used to have a crush on. How can I forget him and move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4168 days ago

4 December 2012 (F) - So I'm 19, in my second year of university and in a succesful and happy long term relationship. However, I cannot seem to forget about the teacher I had a massive crush (I used to think it was love but now I'm a little older I'm not so sure) on from ...

I've told him how I feel, and I want to hear his side. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4168 days ago

4 December 2012 (F) - I love someone.. I told him how I once felt..it was through a facebook message. it was deep.. i know he prefers in person but as a girl my emotions communicated through paper or a message just seemed to work better for me.. if found myself in my ...