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writes:Just a question: how long would you wait after sex before breaking up? I imagine, having sex and then breaking up with someone on the same day would be unacceptable. So do you guys or girls have any set rules? Do you wait a certain time length after sex before ending a relationship? Are there any set rules?I've just broken up with a guy, I ended it first but then we got back together. The last time we saw each other, we slept together and spent the whole day together. But for a week I heard nothing from him, before he broke up with me by phone.I felt a bit weird, but I can't complain when I did the dumping, I dumped him 3 days after sleeping with him!
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (4 December 2012):
 No rules. Everyone is different.
IF I am planning on breaking up with someone however I'm not having sex with them.
sounds like the getting back together was a booty call.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (4 December 2012):
 Usually, if I'm not happy in the relationship and want to end things with them, I wouldn't be having sex with them to begin with. So, it'd probably be a few weeks since last time we had sex and until I ended it? I have sex when I feel good and happy about it, so naturally, if I'm always arguing with my partner, and everything in the relationship is crap, I wouldn't be having sex with them...
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (4 December 2012):
 I don't think there is any general breakup/sex etiquette. My first BF and I agreed that we either needed to break up or take a break. We then made a nice dinner together and yes had sex, the next morning we packed up my stuff and he helped me move it home to my parent's house (my BF and I had lived together)
For us I guess it was a nice way to say farewell. I don't think it's the norm.
Sometimes people have sex one last time to see if there is enough there to keep it going. Often enough there isn't.
If it is unacceptable for YOU then it is unacceptable, however, sometimes you just don't know you are getting dumped.
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