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writes:hi frndsi am a student of class 11th and i have been fall in love with a classmate of minei just truly love herbut all my friends and her friends now know that i like her and most probably she also knows that i like her. she is somewhat a shy type of girl and i am too shyfirstly she used to talk with me daily but our classmates then used to say that we are grlfriends and boyfriends she doesnt likes this. so she now talks with me very rarely and she knows all about me that i like her but i have not told her some of her frnds might have told her thisi also talk with her whenever i find her alone. she only revolves in my mind whole the time and i am ruined in my studies because of her and i used to think of her all the time and used to think about the conversations made with her last timeplz help me what to do nowreply
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reader, IHateWomanBeaters  +, writes (28 February 2011):
 Here in the USA, there are a lot of stupid idiots that are focused on idiotic things like certain types of relationships being wrong. One thing that you have to understand is, people will always try and ruin something they are jealous of. When I was a kid in high school, people would always call me gay and spread rumors about me. The people that spread those rumors are the ones that are homosexual. My point is that these people are jealous and are going to do whatever they can do to stop you from dating her. If you like her, say it. After liking someone for two years, I talked to the woman and she turned me down, but the fact that I went up to her and asked her out was enough for me. You need closure, either through talking to her and getting rejected, but putting in the effort, or by talking to her and starting a relationship. I know India is kind of crazy about relationships, caste systems, etc. I understand that if your mother scrubs toilets and if her mother scrubs sinks, then your relationship will be frowned upon, but if you really do like her as much as you say you do, you will go for it. I believe in you. Just go for it. As a famous hockey player said, "you miss 100 percent of all the shots you don't take." Don't miss the chance, take the shot.-IHateWomanBeaters
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