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writes:So, I am 21 and have been fooling around with a 45 year old musician. We have done every sex act imaginable without penetration (I have been holding off). Here is the hang up: he has a rather new 'girlfriend' who is his age and a teenage son. Now, he keeps on saying that if we had met each other earlier, things would have been different and that we are so compatible... however I know that he is not going to leave this woman for me. So the question is: do I just leave him cold (to reduce my pain), sleep with him (to get it out of our systems and be able to be friends afterwards- his words) or just keep on fooling around with him, knowing it will not lead anywhere. I am so attracted to him and want to make him happy... but when I think of him and her together at night and then him kissing me, I feel, well, rather used and crapy. WHAT DO I DO? I see this guy all the time... should I just cut and run? Or fulfill my sexual urges? HELP!!!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSo, I decided not to do anything more with him. You were right. He's not worth it. I am better than that. I do want a relationship, and he is not willing to give me that. NEXT PLEASE! THANK YOU FOR THE ANSWERS!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2011): Dont let your emotions drive decisions as that can cloud judgment and you will more than likely pay an emotional price. Leave this guy as its clear he doesnt want you and it seems like you want a relationship. Dont chase him or play any games, it wont be worth your while. Good luck.
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reader, Anonymous Mouse +, writes (28 February 2011):
 it all depends on your self worth. could it be that because you don't have any, why you are asking?
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