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writes:Ok so I really like my friend and I've known him for about three years. I already know he likes me and when we first met we went out but it wasn't for tht long and we didn't even kiss. I'm pretty sure he's kissed a girl before and I'm way to scared to kiss a guy let alone tell my friends I haven't. My confidence isn't that low. I think and pretty and I'm rly outgoing and crazy but when it comes to me kissing I'm like woaahh what do I do. I think I just get scared tht I'm gunna screw everything up. But anyway about tht boy I like.... We kinda went on a double date with my other friend an they were making out and me and my boy were just sitting there acward and thn he asked me to kiss him and I toally got scared and said I diet want to. I have no idea what to do and I like him a lot. I really wanna kiss someone and make out and I'm totally exited about it but when I acually get to the part where I have to do it I freeze. Please help. I need advice.
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reader, cherryx  +, writes (6 March 2011):
I was exactly the same way, my boyfriend would be like can I kiss you, I'd totally freak about it, and my friends would always ask me if I'm frigid.
But When the two of us where alone, he gave me a cuddle and looked into my eyes and it just happened, I was so happy I didn't even think I would be able to do it, but I did :D
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reader, Adelaide's Agony Aunt  +, writes (28 February 2011):
Dear 13-15;
Do you realise that every adult reading your question is extremely envious of you right now? Wow the first kiss! IT IS SO SPECIAL! And we all did it soooooo badly! Everyone on this planet wishes they had been a bit better at their first kiss REALLY!
Please have your first kiss with someone who genuinely adores you because regardless of how you do they will be very happy. Also less is more when it comes to new experiences - only do what you feel comfortable doing, waiting until next time to get more adventurous even in the kissing department will give you confidence at each stage.
You will know when the time is right to give the first kiss a go and don't be suprised if once you give it a go you decide practice makes perfect!
Good luck, I hope it's really special for you.
Adelaide's Agony Aunt.
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