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I can't get it up for sex...help!

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Question - (28 February 2011) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A male Canada age 30-35, *uperman23 writes:

Hi, have been dating my gf for 2 years.

When ii lost my virginity to her everything was good and the sex was perfect. Untill we have stoped for a month because of exams and everything...After that we wanted to have sex and i couldnt get hard. She thoguhts im cheating on her or dont find her attractive and both of these thiongs are wrong. We tried again i get a boner on fourplay while fingering her i dont get a hj or a bj and its fine by me.. i dont argue abt it because i dont want problems... So last time we tried again and i got a boner i put the condom on and we tried going fast once i was in my erection died. Woul anyone know why this is happening ?

So basically i have few quesitons

1: is it because i watch porn/masturbate

2; What can i do ?

3: Is it a medical problem (im stresed cuz im still getting accepted to university adn everyuthing)

4: is it because of our problems ?

I am willing to do anyhting for here since we are engaged! i adore her

Thank you

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