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Is there something going on between my teacher and me?

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Question - (28 February 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 28 February 2011)
A female United States age 26-29, *agle101 writes:

Ok, so I've read some stories about "teacher-student relationships" on this websites. (I'm 16 btw) And now I wonder......I've had this teacher for two years. Last year was when I got to know him. I was involved in basketball and didn't want to leave school for 2 hours and come back for practice. So he let me stay in his room until he was done doing work. So we talked a lot.

But it wasn't until track season came when I asked him for advice because he used to be track coach. He really helped me, but I felt awkward letting him touch me. He didn't touch me in an inappropriate way. For some reason, I felt like he was more than a teacher. When we talk sometimes he gets really close to me.

Then this year I stayed after to do my makeup work for missing school. Then my ride bailed on me and then he asked me what was wrong. I said my ride bailed so I'm walking. My house was at least 3 miles away. He said he'd take me home. nothing bad happened, he just listened to my ipod with me.

After that he ended up taking me home two other times. The second tine he did, he saw my dog and he wanted to pet her. So I let her out and he played with her. The third time he did the exact same but our hands ended up touching while petting my dog. I felt more close to him.

Now we are distant, I stopped visiting him as much as I did in, between my classes. Now he gets fussy with me and I catch him looking at me during class.

I've had little girl school crushes before. But I keep telling myself I'm not attracted to him. Is he attracted to me, or is it the other way around?

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A male reader, powgotya United States +, writes (28 February 2011):

There's a big train wreck in your future ( and also his, most likely ) if you pursue this guy any further. The answer from StarryEyes is right on target, and you'll thank yourself later if you make it your mission to avoid him. Good luck!

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A female reader, StarryEyes101 United Kingdom +, writes (28 February 2011):

StarryEyes101 agony auntYou need to steer clear of that one. You're very young and if he is flirting with you it could cost him his job. He has known you for 2 years so you were 14. It's very wrong and there is no right in it. Avoid him as much as you can x

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