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*ucy1993
writes:i have a boyfriend and i would like a threesome with a guy friend of his, and i do not know how to ask him? please help me on this someone xxx
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reader, Jackalus +, writes (28 February 2011):
No no no no no no no no no xxmishxx is right don't do it. It will cause mistrust, violence and a whole lot of crap. How would u feel I'd he said I wanna have a threesome with you and ur girl friend or sister. U would say no it's cheating it's wrong thinking about asking him about it proves you don't love him
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reader, XxMishxX +, writes (28 February 2011):
hiyais this a serious or casual bf. I dont know how anyone can have a 3sum in a relationship, its cheating, whether hes there or not. end of. having a 3sum opens a whole can of worms, id advice you not to do it. by having a 3sum it will bring a whole lot of issues into the relationship, insecurity and infidelity.If you are planning on being with your boyfriend long term you and him will probably be insecure, scared each other will cheat, maybe becoming controlling and violent and no trust. how will you look at your boyfriends mate in the face? how will you trust your boyfriend not to cheat behind your back, 3sums are a green light to cheat on partners in a way.I think people that have 3sums in relationships is basicly seeing their bf as "friends with benefits" this could seriously damage your relationship, think carefully before acting on this!!If you really want to ask your boyfriend, bring it up in general convo, "what do you think about 3sums? would you ever try it?" to see if he was interested before asking him. If you dont ask him this, it could turn out to be the end of your relationship and make sure you use condoms, because of pregnancy and sti's.good luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2011): Think long and hard before deciding to take this step. I did it and wished i never did. The experience was okay. I had two hot guys, so that wasn't an issue. The issue was afterwards, I felt morally dirty.
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