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He blows hot and cold. I want him to look at me as a potential girlfriend!

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Question - (28 February 2011) 4 Answers - (Newest, 28 February 2011)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Any suggestions as to how to make a guy who only looks at you as a friend, look at you like a potential gf? I mean there's this guy who blows hot n cold...i know there's something there...but i can't seem to get it!!

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (28 February 2011):

Then I'm afraid you're out of luck. When a man knows you like him, and he doesn't make a move, then he doesn't fancy you. I'm sorry, but you're seeing a lot more than is there. He's not interested at all, and you're wasting time.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (28 February 2011):

If he knows, and is doing nothing, then he's most definitely not the one and you need to make serious steps to move on. He is not the one.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2011):

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He knows i like him. . .

Sometimes i feel he's just playing around...he's too immature and says he doesn't want to be tied down...that's why he's never been in a serious relationship.

And i have dated a lot of other guys but you know...he's always been the ONE...i wish he'd just give me one shot! Just one...

I really love him so much :(

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (28 February 2011):

There really is only one way, and that's to speak to him. He might be totally confused about it all. Or he might not feel what you hope he does, in which case at least you'll be able to start moving on. You need to talk to him.

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