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writes:Hello, im having a problem understanding this boy ive met online. i like him and he likes me too, but deep down id like to be serious. he doesnt live in the same country as me and hinted he could visit and that we should meet up. He is who he says he is, and ive made sure he was no creep. anyways, he keeps saying its only for now and not forever, im guessing he isnt serious but the things he says its like hes really serious about me and this isnt a hook upsomeone please tell me what he meant by that so i can confront him and see if i want to through it or not.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2010): i think you should ask him what he means, sometimes same thing has different meanings to different people.
talk to him and you'll find out if he is not serious or he is just want to take it slowly.
good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2010): I've had an opposite experience to you. I've had a person say to me that we're going to be "Together Forever." So, I thought we were going to be be together, forever as he said. But, he recently just ended it, and it was more...upsetting than it would be have otherwise been if he didn't say that.
You're lucky to have someone - even if it's not perment. But if you're serious, say what you feel. He might feel the same way, but he hasn't got the balls to say it. Good luck x
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (5 September 2010):
He's not serious. He knows that this won't work out, and is only in for one meeting and one meeting only. He doesn't live in the same country, and he has said himself that whatever happens will happen only now, and will not continue into the future.
Please don't look for hidden meanings in what he is saying. There are none. He means what he says. He is interested in a meeting, but that would be it.
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