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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Okay, so I'm going out with this guy who has a rep for being a "player". And the other day I went through his phone and saw that he was calling another girl(not me) "Angel", and "Beautiful" and he's asking for a photo of her...I approached him about this and he said that he was getting the pic for a friend...then turned it back to me and got mad for NOT trusting him and his story and questioning him...now I'm curious, does that sound like the words of a liar/cheater?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (5 September 2010):
You already know he's a player, so you distrusted him enough to check his phone and you found the truth. He is talking to another girl, asking for her photo and calls her 'angel' and 'beautiful'. And he has the classic male excuse! 'It's for a friend'. Crap.
You know he's a player and a bad boy, you know he is speaking to someone else, you know he will hurt you. Now you need to decide whether you want to be nothing to this guy, or something far more important to a decent guy.
Learn this lesson. Bad boys/players are not worth your hassle.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2010): From the way it sounds, and because of his rep, he does sound like a possible liar/cheater. From my experience guys become threatened and defensive if someone invades their privacy, even if there is no reason to be, so who knows? I really hope things work out for you, cheating is something that I would never wish on anyone. Never lose hope :)
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