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For those of you into BDSM, how did you start?

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Question - (5 September 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 5 September 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, *sdfg writes:

Thanks to some recent events and meeting the right person, I'm beginning to think that's where I'm headed. So I'm curious: for those of you who are into bdsm (especially bottoms), how did you get started?

Was it a progression (e.g. light spanking, bondage, hardcore bondage, etc...) or was it something you were really into right away?

Did BDSM turn you on right away after you discovered it, or was it more of an acquired taste?

And how old were you when you discovered it, experimented with it, and realized you enjoyed it, anyway?

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A male reader, Yos Netherlands +, writes (5 September 2010):

Yos agony auntFor this question you are probably best off going to one of the various bdsm community sites online.

I would recommend going very slowly to start with. The most important thing is to have strong trust between you and your partner.

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