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writes:I am a 15 year old girl and I have really nice friends but I am hugely quiet I have always been and I am worried that most of them will get boyfriends before me because they are more confident. Plz help thnx Reply to this Question
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reader, eternallyinfinite  +, writes (5 September 2010):
Why do you want a boyfriend? You shouldn’t get one just “because” ... you should date someone only if you are interested in him, and he is interested in you. Don’t get a boyfriend because you think he will “make” you happy, or to fit in, or to make yourself look good/cool in front of others.
“I am worried that most of them will get boyfriends before me because they are more confident”
Well – why don’t you try to be more confident? Being confident is not just being loud, it’s also in the way you carry yourself (for example, your posture, how you walk, do you look the ground when people talk to you, etc). And if you are hugely quiet, well, try to talk more. If you don’t have anything “interesting” to talk about, then spice up your life with extracurriculars
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