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writes:Hello, Well i am 15 and in a long distant realationship with my girlfriend. I have been seeing her on Saturdays for 30mins after footy but when i get home i cry and cry because i love her so much it sucks being away from her. I need some advice on what to do. Should i try to forget about her? (Which would be impossible because im madly in love) or try and fight through it all? Footy is neally finished so i don't know how often i will see her after that. Thankyou in advance. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2010): i myself in a LDR and its not easy you have to be committed and luckly we are we talk on msn every night and text everyday we see each other every school hols cause we both have a child and thats not often LDR are upsetting when your not with the other i sometimes cry when i am not with my man and always when i leave him but i cry on my way back on the train dont let him see.....dont give up on her cause if you have feelings for her like you said you do you would really be upset and miserable then and you would of done it yourself broke up for no reason live chat to her on the net keep in touch that way plan your next day together chat on the phone all ways to keep the fire buring if you want to like i said in a LDR you have to be committed good luck...
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reader, Newbie31  +, writes (6 September 2010):
 Hello, I'm 14 and in the same situation except I don't even see him regularly. He lives in ny, I pa. One of the things that has helped me is not only occasional phone calls but video chatting. Like Fefi said, planning a day to be with ur gf will help tremendously. Also talk to her about this. Make sure she is as hard into it as you are. If she is then discussing this with her should be a breeze because she will have the same feelings of doubt and frustration that you must be feeling. Hope things go well :)
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reader, Fefi  +, writes (5 September 2010):
 why is it that you can only see her every saturday after footy for 30 mins? is it because you two live too far from each other or you're just very busy?? seeing as you are young, this may have been your first relationship, and in that one you tend to have extreme feelings because its your first time,but if you were to split, you will get over it easily.
if you dont want to finish it between you, try and arrange a time when you can see her, eg: holidays, bank mondays..
set yourself an all day visit with her.. im sure you can squash up more time during the week...
even a phone call every 2-3 nights will comfort you, it works, trust me...
good luck and tell me how it goes ;)
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