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writes:Why am I so scared to let him go down on me? I don't know if I'm just scared of him not liking it or nervous or just think its gross.... What is some good advise am I being paranoid, an just go ahead an get it over with...
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2010): First, I agree with the other commentors. Receiving oral sex is a wonderful act, so long as it's done in a loving non-rushed manor. You don't mention if you're having sex with him, are you performing oral on him?
If not, maybe you're worried that he's going to expect you to reciprocate (he likely will).
There's nothing to "get over with"... there's just the first time to allow him to do it. Enjoy yourself and make sure that you give him feed back and TEACH him how to do it. Every woman needs a slightly different approach and guys need (and want) that feed back. It's good for you (you'll get of) and he'll be able to repeatedly give you that pleasure.
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reader, Madalo 1  +, writes (5 September 2010):
"Get it over with"? No way girl,its actually a pleasurable experience! Just relax girl,do it when you're ready.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2010): Don't be scared! It's a very private, and intimate thing to think about doing. Being self-conscious is only natural, especially for your first time. There's no rush also, if you're just not feeling it right now, wait a few months and think about it again. I'm sure your guy will understand.
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