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writes:I don't understand what's going on. I can't get this girl that I really like to text me back. This time last week I was asked her out but she couldn't because of previously planned family matters, but she made me promise to take her out when she was free. Now she won't even respond to me. It's just frustrating for me because I really like this girl and I want to be able to move along with her so I need some good advice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2010): Well, dont keep on constantly texting her because she might start to think that you're creepy and clingy. If she really liked you then she probaly would have already texted you back. Dont give up though, just play it cool, be smooth. Good Luck.:]
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reader, sarahrose20  +, writes (5 September 2010):
all i can tell you is that some girls are evil ive actually done that b4 i didnt want to hurt the guys feeling but then he started msg me 5 times a day n i decided he needed to much attetion n ignored him then i ran into him n said my cell was dont i havent seen him since
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2010): This doesn't look good man, I mean "family matters"? All you can do here is just drop it because if you pursue her and she doesn't respond it's gonna make you look like a desperate loser. Just leave her alone and hope that she lost her phone or something, then bring it up next time you see her in person.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2010): She might just be busy with other things right now so isn't in a hurry to get in touch or perhaps on holiday.
But you might have to accept that she isn't really all that into you if she's completely ignoring your messages. She might have just been being polite when she asked you to take her out when really she just didn't want you to feel embarrassed at her turning you down.
If you don't get a reply after two messages you have to just leave it. If I were you I would give it a week for her to get in touch and if you dont hear anything just leave it. Don't keep senfing loads of texts to her or you'll just come accross as a bit desperate or clingy.
I hope that helped a bit, I hope she gets in touch with u!
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