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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I've never really been comfortable about sex before. It's always been something I've felt extremely awkward and embarrassed about.I mean, I don't have any problem talking about it online, nor do I have any problem watching porn or even masturbating because I do...But if I get into any sort of sexual situation, even just jokingly, with someone else in person, I get so uncomfortable and embarrassed.I feel like I don't want to rush into it, but at the same time I feel like I'm missing out because I'm so timid.It's strange to me because I'm freakin' 18 already but I still feel weird about it. D: I don't know if it was how I was raised or if there's some other reason that I feel this way. I was brought up without being exposed to any sort of sexuality, my parents were pretty strict about that, never even giving me any sort of "talk."How do I feel more comfortable with it? Is there something wrong with me if I'm still shying away from sex at my age? :XThe fact that my penis is only 4 inches hard didn't help either. Gym was full of mean and nasty guys who teased me about it, then spread it to mean and nasty girls who teased me about it. :[Add to the fact that I'm not the most attractive guy in the world, see: chubby nerdy asian guy type, I have absolutely no confidence in myself around girls.I don't even know how to approach a girl I'm interested in, let alone what to do on a date. I'm scared of being rejected, or making a fool out of myself, or...I dunno.Help?
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reader, demmie  +, writes (7 September 2010):
no there isnt anything wrong with u for feeling like this its most likey that your just not ready for sex yet loads of teenagers say they have had sex and they actually havent so dont worry about it if your not sure about it dont do it i have recently started having sex and now i wished i had waited a bit longer as for the size of your penis dont worry about it im sure if a girl loved u she wouldnt be bothered about the size of your penis hope this helps
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