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writes:I'm in a situation. I like this girl and would love to be more than friends with her one day. She is a very sociable and outgoing person, but I just can't stand it when she is with other guys especially when they all(many) hug her and she takes numerous pictures with them. Pictures in which she looks too close to every guy it's difficult to tell if she likes them or not. At the same time I see her two or three times a week. We do have moments of silence in our conversations. She asked me out and I had a great time - hope she did too. She doesn't always reply to my messages and keeps on talking to a particular guy (her friend) which I've heard that he is with or likes another girl so I don't need to worry. It doesn't look this way. I'm avoiding her for a week hoping that she will miss me. Should I move on with my life or take on the challenge and be the guy she likes most? What should I do and do you think she has any interest in me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the advice. I really appreciate it. I think I should add that I dance with her every week and obviously if I tell her how I feel it could be awkward for both of us. She might not be looking for a relationship as she just broke up a few months back.
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reader, ~sara~  +, writes (9 April 2010):
Honestly it sounds like this girl is a lot of drama. From what you wrote it sounds like she likes her friend, but he isn't into her. She probably just flirts a lot because she likes the attention so if you were in a relationship you would have to put up with that. She asked you out so I am sure she likes you, but I am not sure how much. I would just keep hanging out with her and see if things go anywhere. Don't avoid her because mostly likely if she missed you she wouldn't let you know. I know if a guy did that to me I would think he didn't like me and won't want to sound pathetic and tell him hom much I missed him. Also don't try to change and be the person you think she likes. Just be yourself and see how it goes. If you go on a few more dates and you don't seem to be clicking then just move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2010): Look, I've been in your shoes. Just ask her out again. Make it very clear that you like her romantically. You can do this by actually telling her. To her face. Then the ball's in her court. Either way, you'll know whether this girl is the real deal for you or if you should just move on by following my advice.
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