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How do I deal with a jealous ex?

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Question - (8 April 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 10 April 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Well, I dated this guy for about four months. Finally we broke up and he got all jealous and pissed off about it. Now everytime he texts me he says, " where you? who you with? Who are you dating?" and more. Everytime I see him, he gets jealous if I'm with another male. Please can some please tell me what I should do?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2010):

two things: change your number and get a restraining order

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (8 April 2010):

Cut all contact. Do not respond to his texts, but keep them as evidence. Do not respond to calls. Do not talk to him. If he continues to chase, warn him you will go to the police. If he still continues, go to the police.

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A male reader, The Realist Canada +, writes (8 April 2010):

The Realist agony auntStop replying to his texts and talking to him at all. He's not even with you, he has no right to say anything like that. Tell him that then don't reply to anything else he says. This is his way of dealing with losing you and it is not a good way so he has to learn the hard way. Obviously you are ready to move on and should not be harrassed by this guy.

If he doesn't stop then save the texts and file for harrassment with the police or have your number changed. I don't know what his end goal is for this but don't put up with it at all.

Hope this helps and things get better.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2010):

Warn him to back off or your going to the police for harrassment. Do not text him back or say anything if you see him in public, this will only fuel his jealousy.

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