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26-29,
*rianna6037
writes:Dear cupidI dont know why but i can only fall for older men. I have tried liking people my age but i just can't. i am in love with like 6 different guys (and obsessed with 1 guy) and i have no clue what to do and all of my friends are so sick of earing my love troubles. What should i do???-confused
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reader, JGSM  +, writes (11 April 2010):
 I must say that first of all, I've been there... I still like older guys... men in their 30thies most of the time. And it has a lot to do with maturity but also that I just like the physical appearance of older men. I was 12 or 13 when I realized that I did not have any interest in the boys at my school.. not even the boy in High School, there was not much I could do when I was younger. But now I'm dating a 30 year old man. But then again, I am a very independent person and a very mature one. There are nothing to worry about, you will come along.. relax and live your life... you are still very young.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2010): I don't mean to be harsh. Really, I don't.
You're 13-15 years old. I don't think your "love troubles" are that bad, though they probably bother you every second.
Best advise is to relax. If you don't like guys your age, don't force yourself. Just focus on school and your friends. Once you get older then date older guys.
Also, how much older are you talking? If its adults then I'd say stop. It's illegal.
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reader, sweetspicy  +, writes (8 April 2010):
 Its been said that girls develope at a faster rate than men, so you may find yourself more attracted to older guys because the guys your age are still developing and are still very immature. One day they might grow up but untill then I wouldnt worry to much about it.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (8 April 2010):
Relax and enjoy fancying older men. Just be careful you don't end up used. There's nothing wrong with you.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (8 April 2010):
 At 13 most of the world's male population is older than you. Quit bugging your friends with all your dramas. Relax and try to enjoy yourself.
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