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reader, Myau  +, writes (9 April 2010):
 I have found that in life you get out what you put in.The more effort I have made the better I have done. Thus as another AU has said you make your happiness. A good tip to be happy is to appreciate the little things and becarful not to start taking people for granted.Love is a different matter though because it relys on another person. I think that very few people experence true love and even fewer happiness in love, as it is so demanding on you.A good tip is not to cheat, lie to or judge your partner too much
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reader, LoveGirl  +, writes (9 April 2010):
True love
True happiness
What is this? Sometimes it is the state of the mind. It all boils down to the decisions we make, what we believe in and whether we make peace with our lot in life. I can honesly say that we call we go though some sort of unhappiness and also feel unloved at some stage. But what stops us from loving ourselves, liking ourselves and creating our own happiness. Sometimes we need to realise that our crosses are smaller than others, our lives can be much worse. We need to create and sustain our lives. One thing I know: do not try to find your love and happiness at the extent of hurting and desteroying another person. We nmay find fleeting love and happiness at the extent of others but Karma is a bitch. It comes back to bite you when you least expect it and I have learnt that your loved ones pay the price for your misdeeds. So what is this true love and true happiness? Some people talk about knees shaking, heart racing, butterflies but what about that quiet love, that quiet peace. Is this not love. I used to previously write about this quiet love here on DC (I was anon then) And no one could back me up
. I wish people would listen to that quite love, the contentness and the peace. .
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (9 April 2010):
Some people do, some people don't. The key thing to remember is that love isn't something that just happens and stays there. It takes effort and commitment, and if one person in a couple isn't willing to put either of those two things in, then it won't work. So you always need to put effort into a relationship, talk about problems and confront problems, and you also have to make sure your parter puts effort in as well.
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reader, Starmonster888 +, writes (9 April 2010):
 The way I see it, we don't find happiness,we make it. A student forms his happiness when he passes, a priest when he preaches etc. Only by recognizing what we want, identifying the means to acquire it and finally having it in our grasp can we trully gain happieness. Ironically, or in my case at least, once you find love, it hinders your happiness because it' a constant struggle with more ups and downs than a see-saw.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (9 April 2010):
 Some may find happiness but no true love and some may find true love but no happiness.
While some may find true love and happiness.
Happiness and true love are sometimes very elusive .
Not all will find happiness or true love. Everyone has their own expectations and norms.
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