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Why do I have these feelings and thoughts about guys?

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Question - (8 April 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 5 May 2010)
A male United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

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I have a big problem im currently dating a girl, im an uncircumsised male and i love how my girl performs oral on me and plays with my foreskin everything is good and all but the thought of me performing oral on an uncut male always crosses my mind, is this means that i may be bisexual or is it that i just have a fetish for penises that look like mine

?I love my gf but i seen to have a problem with liking a little too much attention. Im certantly not gay or bi- curious but even when a gay male hits on me i dont mind it at all, instead i tend to be a little flirty myself ( either is a male or female) but i would never cheat on her. is this behavior normal? what do you think?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2010):

It's normal to have thoughts about guys during any guys teenage years, and should striaghted out around ur 20's.

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A male reader, AvgGuy1 United States +, writes (10 April 2010):

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Just from what I've read... I'd say you're probably 'bi' you just haven't had any male experiences with guys yet... and that's what's a little frustrating... not to mention the fact that you have and love a girl friend.

Sounds like you just need to be aware of it... and then if or when you break up with your girlfriend... then maybe take advantage of that and meet up with a guy... just to see if it's something that really appeals to you or not.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2010):

Don't worry you're not weird for having those thoughts. I do find it a bit funny how you said, you aren't bi-curious because that is certainly a possibility. Don't treat it as a bad thing. Obviously you're in a relationship right now, so my advice would be to not explore your fantasies, unless your partner gives you the consent. Regardless, I wish you the best of luck on this situation. At the end of the day, you'll do what feels right to you and no one else.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2010):

yes i think it is because you just want to probbalby experiment and see if you like it

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