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Should I continue to pursue her when she's preoccupied with her friends and ex b/f?

Tagged as: Dating, The ex-factor, Three is a crowd<< Previous question   Next question >>
Question - (8 April 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 8 April 2010)
A male United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

hi I've been going out with this girl for a year. ithe proble I have with her is what she's told me... She told me she cheated before choose friends over her man. Lied. She has a wicked attuite and hangs up . So also hangs out with her group of guy friends drinking till 2 in the morning. She has a messed up mind and thinks alot of things are ok to do... I've met her friends once and their all geeks who are immature are 19 to 22 and play yu gi oh so does my girlfriend... She also listens to her friends too much which made us broke up before. In the beginning she insisted on still talking and hanging out with her ex.. I mean they broke up she got with me and a week later they started talking again. I'm not one yo tell a person to say who they talk to or not.. She has a problem with me hanging out with my friends who are girls...im about to tell her it's either you understand me and take th time for us or I'm going to go out with someone else.. I have a frined who told me she won't do that that shell respect me... I've had the chance to get with her but it's getting hard because I love my girlfriend...

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (8 April 2010):

I would leave this one well alone. Either you end up having to lose your friends, while she keeps her ex, or she'll cheat or choose everyone over you. Leave her well alone.

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (8 April 2010):

Laura1318 agony auntA man is judged by the friends he keeps.

If you are not on her priority list but only an option , your efforts are like pouring water on sand.

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