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Husband does not want to have sex with me and would do anything but that!

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Question - (8 April 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 8 April 2010)
A female United States age 51-59, anonymous writes:

What should I think when my husband hasn't made love to me for months. He has had a back problem for a while yet has done nothing to get better. He goes to work, he even works around the yard but when it comes to bed NOTHING! I don't know what to think. He tried getting frisky a couple of times but I told him if he had taken care of his back and he says no. We tried to make love one day and he wanted me to do all the work, he just wanted to lay there. I'm sorry but that is neither romantic nor does it make me feel in the mood. Please help.

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A male reader, Kenneth United States +, writes (8 April 2010):

Men get bored with sex quicker than females... period!

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A female reader, EbonyBlossom United Kingdom +, writes (8 April 2010):

EbonyBlossom agony auntMaybe he is suffering from Erectile Dysfunction and is too embarrassed to tell you... this is totally normal for older men and there are loads of treatments for it.

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (8 April 2010):

DoubleM agony auntWell, I also have had back problems for some 20 years, and although everyone is unique, I've long known that the "woman-on-top" intercourse position solves the problem for me and my partners whenever the back is troubling. However, I don't "just lay there" although I'll admit the woman has much more control. In my experience, the women seem to enjoy it plenty.

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