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She will be moving back to Thailand in 3 months, is there a solution for keeping our relationship alive?

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Question - (8 April 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 8 April 2010)
A male Netherlands age 30-35, anonymous writes:

What can I do to not lose my girlfriend who is an exchange student and will leave in 3 months?

We both love each other soooo much we're like the perfect couple you know and then sadly she has to go back to her country. She means everything to me, I mean a lot to her too. I can't be happy if she isn't happy but then again it's the same for her, she can't be happy if i'm not happy. Just by seeing her and her smile i'm so happy.

I live in Belgium and she lives in Thailand - she's in Belgium for a year -- well now for 3 months...

I can't imagine her leaving, if I lose her, I won't ever find somebody like her, since it's HER I want, she wants me too.

Thing is, I can't speak thai -- and you know it's a language with symbols.. I understand nothing and it'd be way too hard for me to go there.

She can speak English but her English isn't so good but it's understandable. She speaks English here and she speaks Dutch (tries to speak, you know she's been here for a long time so she knows the basic words) at school and at her host family.

If she'd stay here I think she can't be happy because she'd miss her country, her big family.

I don't have a big family, though I'd miss them a lot too and leaving Belgium seems too difficult for me, I guess she feels the same thing..

Is there a solution? Btw MSN is not a good answer, because it's not the same! And the hours are different. It's late there when it's not late her and etc..

I already have in mind which university i'd go study in and all and then she came and this completely changes my life..

I'm 17.

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (8 April 2010):

Laura1318 agony auntIf your love is strong , it will transcends all barriers. Someday when you are older and mature, you will be able to find each other again .

Concentrate your your studies first and the others will follow.

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