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writes: I have an incredible amount of bad luck, even Im trying very hard to do the best. I make good choices, but there is a tremendous bad luck lingering in my family and personal life. Very unusual health problems , variety of financial disasters major relationship issues to the level to cripple you. when you feel you exhausted every resource to help you , but there is nowhere else to go, and nothing else to try. What else can you think, that somehow this is a personal attack on you,like a curse or punishment. I really don't know,how can I not think that. Yet I'm an educated person with no mental illness. What can I do ,with totally insane problems? How can I make them go away? Or make them look better? I know in life everything is combination of things, but how can always get the wron combination's? Is there anybody else out there feels the way I DO? Please help with any thoughts you have on this. Thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2010): Don't worry about it. Most people go through times like this when everything goes against you - just start looking at the good things (even if they are few and far between). Curses don't exist so don't concern yourself with that sort of nonsense.
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reader, Kenj  +, writes (8 April 2010):
 Well the only thing I can suggest is to change your attitude to life itself.
I really believe we attract things into our life, thinking something is going to go pear shaped then it usually will and Thinking positive and with optimistic thoughts usually has the positive effect.
I have applied this to my own life, and I stand by it fully. For example, I always thought I would never make money, get a house of my own or get married. Guess what?
After changing my attitide, I now have 2.5 out of 3, and a loving girlfriend who I do intend to ask to marry me.
Its not down to luck, its down to how we project ourself into the society arround us that makes the change.
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